I'm interviewing Virginia Sole-Smith, author of The Eating Instinct about how food should be safe and comforting first and foremost, plus we chat about how to feed kids intuitively. We chat about: - How Virginia's first daughter suffered from a heart defect, which resulted in her not being able to eat "normally" for the first two years of her life, - What this taught Virginia about eating and our relationships with food, - What inspired her to write The Eating Instinct and what she learned from it, - How so many of us don't feel safe or trust ourselves around food or get pleasure from it, - How feeding kids has become so complicated and how diet culture influences the way we feed our kids, - The Division of Responsibility approach from Ellen Sattyr for teaching kids to be intuitive eaters and separating diet culture from nutrition, - How the pressure on moms intersects with diet culture, - What to do if you're confused on how to feed your child, - What to do if you've been influenced by dieting and are unsure of how to introduce more "forbidden" foods to your kids, Plus, so much more! Find the shownotes at: summerinnanen.com/165