Today we have Dr. Vani Marshall back on the podcast! As most of you know, Dr Marshall is a cognitive therapist with a Doctorate in Counselling and a Masters in Psychology. She is also an Evangelist and Missionary with a passion to help people. In this episode, Dr Marshall discusses her work in Kuala Lumpur and how we can support it. She delves into the concept of abuse trauma, explaining its symptoms and effects on individuals, how we can recognise it and offer support. She also highlights the importance of parenting on healthy emotional development for our children, the necessity of breaking the cycle of abuse, and much more.------------How to support Dr Vani’s work in Malaysia:Venmo - @Vani-MarshallFor other ways to give please email - [email protected] ——————-Subscribe to Dr Vani Marshall’s YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@DrVaniMarshall----------------

Takeaways

• Abuse trauma can stem from various forms of abuse, including emotional and mental.
• Recognizing symptoms of abuse trauma is crucial for healing.
• Childhood experiences significantly impact brain development and relationship expectations.
• Emotional abuse can have more lasting effects than physical abuse.
• Self-defeating thoughts often arise from past abuse experiences.
• Healthy relationships are essential for emotional well-being.
• Support systems are vital for those recovering from abuse trauma.
• There is a stigma surrounding discussions of abuse that needs to be addressed. Self-care is essential for mental health and recovery.
• Neglect, whether of children or the elderly, is a form of abuse.
• Survivors of childhood trauma often struggle to form healthy relationships.
• There is a pattern where survivors are attracted to abusive partners.
• Retraumatization can occur when entering new unhealthy relationships.
• Childhood trauma has long-lasting effects on self-perception and relationships.
• Healthy relationships are often modeled in childhood.
• Parents play a crucial role in their children's emotional development.
• Breaking the cycle of abuse is possible and necessary.
• Understanding trauma is the first step towards healing.

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