Isn’t it weird howyou can experience situations throughout your life that are so heartbreaking orstressful that you can't ever imagine being okay again? Then a few weeks,months, or even years later, you notice that the days go by without thinkingabout those times. You can laugh, you can smile, you can go about your day andrealize that you're so much stronger and happier than you thought you could beever again. Those bad times might always be in your mind, in your memory, or inyour heart, but somehow you feel at peace with your past; and the memories thatcome back don’t punch you in the heart like they usedto. You realize that you are, in fact, as strong as everyone was saying youwere at the time and that you would, in fact, get through what you wentthrough. Isn’t it amazing how much we can change, howmuch we can learn, and how much we can grow?

成长

你是否也曾觉得不可思议？生命中那些令人心碎或压力山大的时刻，沉重到你无法想象自己还能再次好起来。然而几周、几个月，甚至几年后，你突然发现日子照常流逝，你不再时时想起那些过往。你可以开怀大笑，可以微笑面对，可以在日常中发现自己比想象中更加坚强和快乐。那些糟糕的时光或许仍留在脑海、记忆或心底，但你却与过去达成了和解；回忆袭来时，它们不再像从前那样狠狠击中你的心脏。你终于意识到，你确实如旁人当初所言那般坚强，你也的确熬过了那些以为熬不过去的日子。我们能改变多少、学会多少、成长多少，这难道不是最神奇的事情吗？