I Love It When She

21. I Love It When She Chooses Herself First


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There comes a moment when you realize that the way you’re spending your days doesn’t match the life you say you want. This episode is an invitation into that moment.

Today’s conversation is about boundaries. Not just the obvious ones with people, but the deeper ones... the boundaries around your time, your energy, your mornings, your work hours, and your focus. The ones that shape your life in real time.

If you work for yourself, work from home, or carry the mental load of being “flexible,” this episode will feel like a deep exhale and a loving wake-up call. Because flexibility without boundaries doesn’t create freedom, it creates self-abandonment.

This is about choosing yourself before resentment builds, before burnout becomes normal, before your goals keep getting pushed to “later.”

Because how we spend our days… is how we spend our lives.

 
What We Talk About
  • Why “I can always do it later” slowly erodes your priorities
  • How flexibility turns into self-abandonment without structure
  • Why working from home makes boundaries harder and more necessary
  • The truth about resentment and unspoken boundaries
  • Why it’s not anyone’s fault if you never explained the boundary
  • How over-giving in your business creates quiet burnout
  • What “energetic boundaries” actually look like in real life
  • Entering a new year with aligned actions instead of vague intentions
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    This Episode Is For You If…

    You feel like your time always comes last
    Your mornings and rituals keep getting sacrificed
    You love your business but secretly feel drained by it
    You’re craving structure that still feels soft and aligned
    You want the next year of your life to feel intentional, not reactive

     
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    Final Thought

    You don’t need to do more.
    You don’t need to try harder.
    You don’t need to be more available.

    You need boundaries that reflect the woman you’re becoming.

    I love it when she chooses herself first 🤍

     
       

    ✨ Let's stay connected, babe!

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    🎶 The dreamy music behind this podcast was arranged + performed by my incredible husband, Alex Leach.
    → check him out: [@itsalexleach]

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