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Financial trauma silently shapes your clients' decisions regardless of their net worth—and Rahkim Sabree reveals exactly how to spot it. This conversation unpacks how childhood experiences, observed behaviors, and systemic barriers create powerful money beliefs that persist even when clients achieve financial success. Discover why your high-net-worth clients remain anxious despite healthy portfolios, why seemingly simple recommendations meet unexpected resistance, and how asking just a few targeted questions can transform your discovery process and deepen client relationships.

Key Takeaways:

1. Recognizing Financial Trauma Beyond Income Levels: Financial trauma affects clients across the wealth spectrum, not just those experiencing financial hardship. High-income, high-net-worth clients often display trauma through hypervigilance, excessive saving, or an inability to spend in ways that provide enjoyment—behaviors that are frequently misinterpreted as positive financial discipline.
2. Implementing the Three E's Framework: Support clients using Rahkim's "Three E's" approach: Exposure (introducing the concept of financial trauma), Education (explaining how it affects financial behavior), and Execution (supporting clients in taking action while being part of their supportive community).
3. Transforming Discovery Meetings: Begin uncovering financial trauma by asking, "What does money represent to you?" followed by deeper questions like "Freedom to do what?" or "Security against what?" These simple but powerful questions reveal the underlying beliefs driving financial behavior and create opportunities for meaningful intervention.
4. Looking Beyond the Numbers: Understand that "successful" clients on paper may be assigning character traits to their money (power, respect, love) while neglecting other life areas. Advisors should observe how money vigilance affects clients' relationships, hobbies, substance use, and overall well-being to provide truly holistic guidance.

Resources and Guest Information:

• Overcoming Financial Trauma - Rahkim's newsletter
• Financial Therapy Association - Professional resources
• Rahkim Sabree on LinkedIn - Connect with Rahkim!
• Rahkim's Forbes Articles - Additional insights on financial trauma
• Upcoming Book: Look for Rahkim's comprehensive guide to financial trauma releasing in November 2025

Take Action:

1. Start implementing trauma-aware financial planning by adding one question to your discovery process: "What does money represent to you?" Listen carefully to the response, then follow up with "Why?" or "Where does that belief come from?" These simple questions can reveal financial trauma patterns, create deeper client connections, and transform how you approach planning conversations from your very next meeting.
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Connect with Ashley:

• Podcast Website
• Ashley Quamme on LinkedIn
• Beyond the Plan®