Money For Couples with Ramit Sethi

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  • How the Rich Buy an Easier Life: A House Manager Reveals All

    How do the ultra-wealthy use money to make everyday life easier and what can we learn from the people who run their homes?

    Ramit goes behind the scenes with former house manager Lea Griffin to explore how wealthy families buy back their time, delegate daily decisions, and build a team they trust. From anticipating every household need to handling extraordinary requests, Lea reveals the work that makes their lives look effortless.
    Alongside helicopter commutes and a request to ship a $500,000 Mustang across the ocean, discover why the most expensive help isn’t always the best, what separates a great employer from a difficult one, and why spending more doesn’t necessarily mean living better. It’s a look at what money can take off your plate and why knowing what matters to you shapes how well you spend it.
    ⏩ CHAPTERS:
    00:00 Introduction
    00:59 How a Billionaire Avoids the Daily Commute
    02:47 How House Managers Make Life Easier
    05:40 What It Takes to Keep Luxury Homes Running
    08:18 What the Ultra-Wealthy Spend on Food and Drink
    11:54 What It Takes to Handle Extraordinary Requests
    16:29 How Wealthy Families Share the Work of Raising Kids
    23:02 What Wealthy Families Value—and Spend Money On
    28:02 Why More Money Doesn’t Always Mean More Happiness
    32:38 Why Trust Matters: Staff, Privacy, and Surveillance
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    Ramit Sethi is the host of Netflix's "How To Get Rich" and New York Times bestselling author of "I Will Teach You To Be Rich" and "Money For Couples"
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    39 min
  • 285. “We bought the perfect house. Now we feel trapped”

    Ramit digs into why a couple with a $692,000 net worth feels trapped by a house they no longer want and afraid to give up their 2.7% mortgage.

    Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You to Be Rich talks with Chloe, 32, and Jake, 30, who have been together for ten years. They bought a 3,000-square-foot house on 1.5 acres because they believed homeownership was a smart financial decision. But years later, they're exhausted by the maintenance and questioning whether the American Dream is really worth it.

    Their attempts to find more freedom have only made things more complicated. An $80,000 home equity loan for an Airbnb plan, a $50,000 RV they never used, and a fear of making another expensive mistake have left them stuck. Jake wants to sell, but Chloe worries about walking away from a good investment. With their finances in good shape, Ramit challenges them to ask a different question: what do they actually want their life to look like?

    A special thanks to our partners at Monarch for sponsoring this episode. Try Monarch free today and get 50% off your first year of Monarch Core at https://monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT. Sign up through Ramit's link to get his exact Conscious Spending Plan categories already set up in your account.


    In this episode, we uncover:

    • Why earning $362,000 a year hasn't stopped Chloe and Jake from feeling trapped by their lifestyle

    • How they bought a house above their budget without an inspection

    • Why their 3,000-square-foot house requires eight hours of yard work almost every weekend

    • How an $80,000 home equity loan for an Airbnb plan became a financial regret

    • Why they bought a $50,000 RV, never used it, and sold it for around $32,000

    • What $692,000 in net worth, $540,000 in debt, and 43% fixed costs reveal about their finances

    • Why Chloe is afraid to give up their 2.7% mortgage despite wanting to leave

    • How selling their house and investing an estimated $250,000 in equity could change their future

    • Why Ramit challenges them to stop optimizing their finances and start enjoying their money

    • Chapters:

      (00:00:00) Introduction

      (00:04:20) The expensive business ideas that haven't worked out

      (00:10:16) Buying a family home above their budget

      (00:20:36) Strong finances, but still feeling stuck

      (00:27:45) The RV they bought but never used

      (00:35:13) Struggling with the decision to sell their house

      (00:56:19) Weighing the financial case for selling

      (01:16:35) Choosing happiness over financial returns

      (01:25:42) Reworking their spending to enjoy life now

      (01:40:04) Follow-ups


      💡 RAMIT’S PODCAST NEWSLETTER • I share new ways to think about money every Saturday. Get the emails here: https://iwt.com/podcastnewsletter


      🙌 GET HELP FROM RAMIT SETHI • Order my new book: Money for Couples: https://iwt.com/moneyforcouples • Take control of your money with the Conscious Spending Plan: https://iwt.com/csp • Optimize your credit cards with the 1st chapter of my book: https://iwt.com/chapter1-pod • Join my Rich Life: Road to $100K program: https://iwt.com/100k • Listen to my book — now on Audible: https://amzn.to/48zko28


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      Connect with Ramit:

      • Get my new book, Money For Couples

      • Get Money Coaching with Ramit 

      • Download the Conscious Spending Plan

      • Listen to my book—now on Audible

      • Get my New York Times best-selling book

      • Get my no-numbers journal

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        1 hr 45 min
      • 284. "We’re worth $1.8M, but I feel guilty buying a $78 jacket”

        Ramit digs into why a couple worth $1.8 million and earning around $818,000 a year still struggle to feel financially secure, even when it comes to buying a $78 jacket.

        Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You to Be Rich talks with Laura and Jason, both 38, who have built significant wealth and are considering retiring in their early 40s. Jason believes they can stop working soon, but Laura isn't convinced. Despite their financial success, she worries about what could go wrong and struggles to imagine life without a regular paycheck.

        For Laura, spending money has always been difficult. She once became physically sick when buying her first car, and even small purchases leave her questioning whether she's being irresponsible. After her parents lost their home in 2008, she's never quite shaken by the fear that everything could fall apart. As Ramit explores their finances and walks them through three possible retirement scenarios, Laura has an emotional breakthrough. But even if the numbers say they can retire, will she ever feel comfortable enough to actually do it?


        A special thanks to Facet for sponsoring this episode. As of the date of this recording, Facet is waiving their enrollment fee for new annual members, and for Ramit’s audience, Facet is offering $300 into your brokerage account if you invest and maintain $5,000 within your first 90 days. Head to facet.com/ramit to learn more about which membership option is best for you. Offer has been extended to 12/31/2026. #FacetAd

        Facet is a SEC registered investment advisor. Ramit is not a member of Facet, and has an incentive to endorse Facet as he has an ongoing fee based contract for cash compensation based on this endorsement. All opinions are his own and not a guarantee of a similar outcome.

        And as always, thank you to our partners at Monarch. Try Monarch for free today, and get 50% off your first year of Monarch’s core tier at https://monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT. When you sign up with my link only, you’ll get your Monarch account customized with my exact CSP categories so you can see exactly how you’re stacking up to your plan each month. That’s https://monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT.


        In this episode, we uncover:

        • Why having $1.8 million in net worth doesn't make Laura and Jason feel financially secure

        • Why Laura thought they earned around $400,000 when their actual household income was $818,000

        • Why Laura couldn't bring herself to buy a $78 jacket, despite their financial success

        • How paying off $250,000 in debt still hasn't eliminated their fears about money

        • What their 41% fixed costs and aggressive investment strategy mean for early retirement

        • Why they planned to spend $1,000 a month guilt-free but actually spent nearly $6,000

        • Why Laura's parents losing their home in 2008 continues to influence her relationship with money

        • How Jason's optimism about retiring at 40 clashes with Laura's fear of giving up a steady paycheck

        • What three retirement scenarios reveal about their options to stop working at 45, 47, or 55

        • How they can prepare for retirement, build financial confidence, and learn to spend without guilt

        • Chapters:

          (00:00:00) Introduction

          (00:03:41) Can they really retire in their early 40s?

          (00:14:14) Spending disagreements and the $78 jacket

          (00:20:48) Their $1.8M net worth and financial fears

          (00:26:34) Discovering they earn $818K a year

          (00:36:45) Breaking down their investments and spending

          (00:45:48) How childhood experiences shaped their money fears

          (00:59:18) Three retirement scenarios and an emotional breakthrough

          (01:17:24) Preparing for life without a paycheck

          (01:26:38) Building confidence and learning to enjoy their money


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            1 hr 45 min
          • Inside the Secret World of Ultra-Wealthy Vacations

            What does a $400,000 family vacation actually look like, and what could possibly make a hotel villa worth $15,000 a night? Ramit goes behind the scenes with luxury travel advisor Hao Tang to uncover the secret world of luxury vacations that most people never get to experience.
            Chapters:
            00:00 Introduction
            00:57 What Does a $400,000 Vacation Get You?
            03:11 The VIP Hotel Experience Nobody Sees
            05:24 Inside a $15,000 a Night Villa
            07:17 Private Chefs Who Make Anything You Want
            13:10 The Butlers Who Take Care of Everything
            21:15 The $60,000 Vacation Disaster
            25:06 Spending $300,000 for $1 Million in Travel
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            Ramit Sethi is the host of Netflix’s “How To Get Rich” and New York Times bestselling author of “I Will Teach You To Be Rich” and “Money For Couples”
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                  • 33 min
                  • 283. “We have 3 kids and live paycheck to paycheck. Are we screwed?”

                    Ramit digs into how years of impulse spending, money avoidance, and unequal financial responsibility have left a couple earning around $178,000 a year with $186,000 in debt and just $571 in savings.

                    Ramit Sethi talks with Michelle and Jeff, both 45, who have three children and are approaching 20 years of marriage. They’re earning more than ever, but still living paycheck to paycheck, with fixed costs consuming 87% of their take-home pay. Michelle feels responsible for making everything work, while Jeff admits that avoiding the numbers helps him avoid worrying about money and leaves her carrying the burden.

                    A closer look at their spending reveals a $76,000 car purchase, buy-now-pay-later spending, and more than $9,000 spent eating out reveal how their everyday decisions keep them stuck. The conversation reaches a turning point when he asks them to step away and decide whether they’re both ready to commit to change. Together, they explore the childhood experiences behind their money habits and begin building shared rules, a spending plan, and a different financial future for their family.

                    A special thanks to our new partners at Monarch for sponsoring this episode. Try Monarch for free today, and get 50% off your first year of Monarch’s core tier at https://monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT. When you sign up with my link only, you’ll get your Monarch account customized with my exact CSP categories so you can see exactly how you’re stacking up to your plan each month. That’s https://monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT.


                    In this episode, we uncover:

                    • Why earning around $178,000 a year hasn’t stopped Michelle and Jeff from living paycheck to paycheck

                    • How Michelle became responsible for managing the money and deciding which bills could wait

                    • Why Jeff avoids the numbers, even while acknowledging the pressure it puts on Michelle

                    • What $186,000 in debt, $571 in savings, and 87% fixed costs mean for their family

                    • How a $76,000 car purchase left them with a roughly $1,000 monthly payment

                    • Why Ramit pauses the conversation and asks them to decide whether they’re ready to change

                    • How childhood experiences with money still shape their spending, trust, and communication

                    • How they spent $9,275 eating out by August, including $2,747 in a single month

                    • Why they agree to weekly money meetings, shared purchase rules, and a $75 monthly dining-out limit

                    • What their follow-ups reveal about sharing responsibility and automating savings, retirement contributions, and extra debt payments

                    • Chapters:

                      (00:00:00) Introduction

                      (00:02:13) Earning more, still living paycheck to paycheck

                      (00:16:50) The purchase arguments putting pressure on Michelle

                      (00:32:04) Ramit asks them to step away and commit

                      (00:39:04) Facing their debt and high fixed costs

                      (00:49:08) The childhood money patterns they’re repeating

                      (01:05:53) Where their money is really going

                      (01:13:34) Building shared money rules

                      (01:20:18) Reworking their budget, savings, and debt plan

                      (01:28:51) Follow-ups


                      💡 RAMIT’S PODCAST NEWSLETTER

                      • I share new ways to think about money every Saturday. Get the emails here: https://iwt.com/podcastnewsletter


                      🙌 GET HELP FROM RAMIT SETHI

                      • Order my new book: Money for Couples: https://iwt.com/moneyforcouples

                      • Take control of your money with the Conscious Spending Plan: https://iwt.com/csp

                      • Optimize your credit cards with the 1st chapter of my book: https://iwt.com/chapter1-pod

                      • Join my Rich Life: Road to $100K program: https://iwt.com/100k

                      • Listen to my book — now on Audible: https://amzn.to/48zko28


                      🤳 CONNECT WITH RAMIT SETHI

                      • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ramit/

                      • X: https://twitter.com/ramit


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                      This episode brought to you by:

                      Facet | As of the date of this recording, Facet is waiving the enrollment fee for new annual members, and for my audience, Facet is offering $300 into your brokerage account if you invest and maintain $5,000 within your first 90 days. Head to facet.com/ramit to learn more about which membership option is best for you. Offer has been extended to 12/31/2026. #FacetAd 

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                      Connect with Ramit:

                      • Get my new book, Money For Couples

                      • Get Money Coaching with Ramit 

                      • Download the Conscious Spending Plan

                      • Listen to my book—now on Audible

                      • Get my New York Times best-selling book

                      • Get my no-numbers journal

                      • Other episodes

                      • Instagram

                      • Twitter

                      • YouTube

                      • Apply to be coached for free on this podcast at https://iwt.com/apply

                        1 hr 35 min
                      • 282. "We spend 154% of what we make. Will we ever stop drowning?"

                        Ramit digs into how years of overspending, money avoidance, and relying on future income have left a couple with more than $428,000 in debt, no savings, and a financial life they can no longer sustain.

                        Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You to Be Rich talks with Addison, 39, and James, 43, who earn around $138,000 a year but have $0 in savings and fixed costs consuming a staggering 154% of their take-home pay. Addison feels responsible for keeping their finances afloat, while James admits he's spent years relying on optimism and money he expects to earn in the future.

                        As Ramit digs deeper, it becomes clear they are both contributing to the problem through restaurants, concerts, Ubers, shopping, and pet spending that has reached thousands in a single month. He helps them uncover the childhood money patterns behind their behavior, confront what they can actually afford, and make some of the biggest lifestyle changes attempted on the show all in an effort to stop living on future money and build a financial life they can actually sustain.

                        A special thanks to our new partners at Monarch for sponsoring this episode. Try Monarch for free today, and get 50% off your first year of Monarch’s core tier at https://monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT. When you sign up with my link only, you’ll get your Monarch account customized with my exact CSP categories so you can see exactly how you’re stacking up to your plan each month. That’s https://monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT.


                        In this episode, we uncover:

                        • Why Addison says they may divorce if their relationship with money doesn’t change

                        • How more than $428K of debt, $0 savings, and 154% fixed costs have left them financially exposed

                        • Why James admits he has been “betting on money that’s not there yet”

                        • How Addison became the financial safety net while increasingly feeling like a caretaker

                        • Why restaurants, concerts, Ubers, shopping, and convenience spending became part of their everyday life

                        • How they planned to spend more than $3,300 a month on food and over $1,000 a month on their dogs

                        • Why Addison’s frustration with James is only part of the story and how her own spending contributes too

                        • How growing up around financial stress and poverty shaped the way they both think about money today

                        • Why 30% of their spending went toward shopping and why they couldn’t even remember some of what they bought

                        • How they radically restructure their spending, savings, investments, and rules around money

                        • Chapters:

                          (00:00:00) Introduction

                          (00:03:31) Why divorce is already on the table

                          (00:08:54) The spending habits keeping them stuck

                          (00:19:09) How Addison became the financial safety net

                          (00:34:54) The true scale of their $428K debt

                          (00:55:29) The childhood patterns behind their spending

                          (01:17:08) Their shopping wake-up call

                          (01:18:08) Making a radical lifestyle reset

                          (01:30:26) Building a new financial plan

                          (01:47:02) Follow-up


                          💡 RAMIT’S PODCAST NEWSLETTER

                          • I share new ways to think about money every Saturday. Get the emails here: https://iwt.com/podcastnewsletter


                          🙌 GET HELP FROM RAMIT SETHI

                          • Order my new book: Money for Couples: https://iwt.com/moneyforcouples

                          • Take control of your money with the Conscious Spending Plan: https://iwt.com/csp

                          • Optimize your credit cards with the 1st chapter of my book: https://iwt.com/chapter1-pod

                          • Join my Rich Life: Road to $100K program: https://iwt.com/100k

                          • Listen to my book — now on Audible: https://amzn.to/48zko28


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                          • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ramit/

                          • X: https://twitter.com/ramit


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                          Want to know exactly when you’ll hit your first $100K? Rich Life: Road to $100K gives you a step-by-step system to automate your money, accelerate your timeline, and build your Rich Life along the way. Join today: iwt.com/100K


                          Connect with Ramit:

                          • Get my new book, Money For Couples

                          • Get Money Coaching with Ramit 

                          • Download the Conscious Spending Plan

                          • Listen to my book—now on Audible

                          • Get my New York Times best-selling book

                          • Get my no-numbers journal

                          • Other episodes

                          • Instagram

                          • Twitter

                          • YouTube

                          • Apply to be coached for free on this podcast at https://iwt.com/apply

                            1 hr 54 min
                          • 281. "We have 4 kids and nearly $1M in debt. Are we screwed?”

                            Ramit unpacks what happens when inconsistent income, mounting debt, and years of avoiding difficult money conversations leave a couple in their 40s feeling like they’re running out of options.

                            Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You to Be Rich talks with Rebecca and Matthew, who have been married for 16 years and have four children. They earn around $185,000 a year, but their income is unpredictable, their fixed costs are at 84%, and they have just $1,000 in savings and $45,000 invested. They also have more than $633,000 in debt plus another $350,000 in law school loans that could bring their total debt close to $1 million.

                            Their biggest challenge isn’t simply learning how to budget. Rebecca feels constantly in the dark about when they’ll get paid and where their money is going, while Matthew avoids difficult conversations and tries to solve financial problems on his own. Ramit helps them confront the chaser-avoider dynamic they’ve repeated for years, why borrowing money and moving cash between accounts has never solved the underlying problem, and whether Matthew may need to walk away from his business and choose a stable income to protect their family’s future.

                            A special thanks to our new partners at Monarch for sponsoring this episode. Try Monarch for free today, and get 50% off your first year of Monarch’s core tier at monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT. When you sign up with my link only, you’ll get your Monarch account customized with my exact CSP categories so you can see exactly how you’re stacking up to your plan each month. That’s monarch.com/ramit, promo code RAMIT.

                            In this episode, we uncover:

                            • How inconsistent income has made it almost impossible for them to plan their finances

                            • Why Rebecca says their financial situation feels “hopeless”

                            • How their money system keeps them overspending, borrowing, and blaming each other

                            • Why their $633K of debt could actually be closer to $1 million

                            • How Matthew’s $350K law school debt has doubled since graduation

                            • Why 84% fixed costs, 1% savings, and 0% investing are putting their future at risk

                            • How their spending reveals they’re regularly buying things they haven’t actually planned for

                            • Why Rebecca says she feels in the dark about money, paychecks, and their financial situation.

                            • How their chaser-avoider dynamic mirrors the money patterns Matthew saw growing up

                            • Why Matthew may need to leave his business for a stable job and why earning more alone won’t fix their relationship with money

                            • Chapters:

                              (00:00:00) Introduction

                              (00:07:56) The money arguments keeping them stuck

                              (00:22:25) Ramit opens up their finances

                              (00:40:54) Why their fixed costs are so high

                              (00:51:48) The spending they couldn't afford

                              (01:05:08) Why Matthew avoids money conversations

                              (01:14:11) Creating new rules to manage money together

                              (01:23:16) Should Matthew leave his business?

                              (01:32:30) The difficult financial choices facing their family

                              (01:43:41) What their retirement could look like


                              💡 RAMIT’S PODCAST NEWSLETTER

                              • I share new ways to think about money every Saturday. Get the emails here: https://iwt.com/podcastnewsletter


                              🙌 GET HELP FROM RAMIT SETHI

                              • Order my new book: Money for Couples: https://iwt.com/moneyforcouples

                              • Take control of your money with the Conscious Spending Plan: https://iwt.com/csp

                              • Optimize your credit cards with the 1st chapter of my book: https://iwt.com/chapter1-pod

                              • Join my Rich Life: Road to $100K program: https://iwt.com/100k

                              • Listen to my book — now on Audible: https://amzn.to/48zko28


                              🤳 CONNECT WITH RAMIT SETHI

                              • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ramit/

                              • X: https://twitter.com/ramit


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                              Want to know exactly when you’ll hit your first $100K? Rich Life: Road to $100K gives you a step-by-step system to automate your money, accelerate your timeline, and build your Rich Life along the way. Join today: iwt.com/100K


                              Connect with Ramit:

                              • Get my new book, Money For Couples

                              • Get Money Coaching with Ramit 

                              • Download the Conscious Spending Plan

                              • Listen to my book—now on Audible

                              • Get my New York Times best-selling book

                              • Get my no-numbers journal

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                                1 hr 55 min
                              • 280. "We have $11M in assets. Why are we still living month to month?"

                                Ramit unpacks what happens when a couple earns more than $1 million a year but still feels like they’re living month to month, and how a lifestyle built around family, community, and tradition can become almost impossible to afford.

                                Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You to Be Rich talks with Margo and Kevin, 42 and 52, who live in Brooklyn with their five children. They take home around $600,000 a year and have approximately $11 million in assets, yet only around $50,000 in savings. Once Ramit uncovers expenses missing from their original plan, including private school tuition and summer camps, their fixed costs climb above 100% of their take-home pay, revealing that they’re spending more than they make every month.

                                Their biggest challenge isn’t simply earning more money. Kevin has taken on most of the finances while Margo has had limited visibility into their overall financial picture, and neither of them has a clear picture of where their money is actually going. Ramit helps them confront how community norms and family traditions shape what they see as non-negotiable, and the difficult choices they may need to make around private school, their homes, their children, and the lifestyle they’ve built.


                                In this episode, we uncover:

                                • How a couple earning over $1 million a year can still live month to month

                                • Why they describe themselves as “rich poor people”

                                • How missing expenses push their fixed costs above 100% of their take-home pay

                                • Why $160K in tuition and camps completely changes their financial picture

                                • How a $400K–$500K mold crisis wiped out much of their financial cushion

                                • Why they have $11 million in assets but only around $50K in savings

                                • Why Kevin manages most of the money while Margo has limited visibility into their finances

                                • How childhood money lessons shaped their “earn more, spend more” cycle

                                • How community and tradition shape their spending

                                • Why they may need to make major changes to their homes, education costs, and spending to finally start saving and investing

                                • Chapters:

                                  (00:00:00) Introduction 

                                  (00:02:00) Why they call themselves “rich poor people” 

                                  (00:25:00) Ramit opens up their numbers 

                                  (00:43:00) The hidden expenses pushing them over 100% 

                                  (01:06:00) How their childhoods shaped their money habits 

                                  (01:11:00) How community and tradition shape their spending 

                                  (01:15:00) They finally confront what has to change 

                                  (01:33:00) Why $11M in assets still leaves them cash poor 

                                  (01:36:00) Private school, their homes, and the difficult decisions ahead 

                                  (01:58:00) Follow-ups

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                                  • 279. “He lost his $150k job, but I make every decision - can we fix this?”

                                    Ramit unpacks how to manage money as a couple after a job loss and what happens when one partner carries most of the financial responsibility while the other starts stepping back.

                                    Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You to Be Rich talks with Isabelle and Ryan, 37 and 40, who have been married for 12 years and have a four-year-old daughter. After Ryan was laid off from his $150,000 software engineering job, Isabelle became the sole earner. They have around $1.2 million in assets and an $800,000 net worth, but two mortgages and fixed costs at 83% of their income have left them trying to figure out how to manage their money on one income.

                                    Their biggest challenge isn’t simply how to budget or save money. Isabelle manages most of their financial planning and decision-making, while Ryan struggles with money anxiety, guilt around spending, and feeling shut down when he tries to get involved. Ramit helps them understand how childhood scarcity shaped their relationship with money, how to communicate about finances without falling into a parent-child dynamic, and how reducing their fixed expenses could give them more freedom to actually enjoy the money they’ve built.

                                    In this episode, we uncover:

                                    • How to manage money as a couple after a job loss

                                    • How to budget on one income without letting financial anxiety take over

                                    • Why Isabelle feels exhausted managing their financial future

                                    • Why Ryan feels guilty spending money despite their $800K net worth

                                    • How a $3,000 espresso machine exposes his money anxiety

                                    • Why their fixed costs have reached 83% of their income

                                    • How two mortgages are putting pressure on their monthly budget

                                    • How childhood scarcity shaped their relationship with money

                                    • Why their dynamic has started to feel like a parent-child relationship

                                    • How clear money rules and lower fixed expenses could help them become a team

                                    • Chapters:

                                      (00:00) Introduction

                                      (02:00) Why Isabelle feels responsible for their financial future

                                      (04:00) The purchase that exposes Ryan’s money anxiety

                                      (09:50) How losing his $150K job changed their roles

                                      (39:00) Ramit opens up their numbers

                                      (48:00) Why they’re paying two mortgages

                                      (01:04:00) How childhood scarcity shaped their money dynamic

                                      (01:23:00) The parent-child dynamic they’ve fallen into

                                      (01:38:00) Ryan and Isabelle make a new financial plan

                                      (02:07:00) Follow-ups


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                                        2 hr 15 min
                                      • 278. "We spend 108% of what we make. Are we screwed?"

                                        Ramit unpacks how to stop overspending, take control of your money as a couple, and prepare financially for starting a family.

                                        Ramit Sethi of I Will Teach You to Be Rich talks with Grace and Chris, who are 30 and 29 and have been married for six months. They have around $119,500 invested and unusually low housing costs, yet their finances feel chaotic and unstable. They spend more than they make, struggle to understand where the money goes, and have never had a substantive conversation about money as a couple.

                                        The deeper problem is the dynamic they’ve fallen into. Grace handles most of the money while Chris takes a back seat, and both avoid the uncomfortable conversations they know they need to have. With children now part of their near-term plans, Ramit pushes them to confront where their habits came from and what has to change before the stakes get even higher.

                                        In this episode, we uncover:

                                        • Why Grace feels like she’s managing their money alone

                                        • How Chris’s avoidance keeps the same cycle going

                                        • Why “we’ll figure it out later” keeps costing them

                                        • How a $100 weekend budget disappeared at a baseball game

                                        • Why 108% fixed costs are only part of the problem

                                        • How Amazon, eating out, and social spending keep slipping through the cracks

                                        • How inheritance, a mortgage-free home, and family support shaped their relationship with money

                                        • How their childhoods taught them to avoid talking about money

                                        • Why starting a family makes their financial situation more urgent

                                        • How they can finally start making financial decisions as a team

                                        • Chapters:

                                          (00:00:00) Introduction

                                          (00:02:36) “I’m crying for help on a sinking ship”

                                          (00:16:53) The baseball game that exposes their money dynamic

                                          (00:24:22) Ramit opens up their numbers

                                          (00:40:37) Where their $119K investments came from

                                          (00:47:40) What their childhoods taught them about money

                                          (00:56:46) They’ve never defined their Rich Life

                                          (01:04:04) What happens if nothing changes?

                                          (01:18:32) Can they make the next 15 months work?

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                                            1 hr 35 min

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