Last week, we met Dominique (33) and Chris (34)—a couple earning $180K a year, raising a toddler, and still living paycheck to paycheck. Dominique felt alone in managing their finances, while Chris stayed disengaged, assuming things were fine.

In Part One, we uncovered the cracks: a lack of communication, zero long-term planning, and growing resentment. Now, as their childcare costs are about to quadruple, will they be able to move past survival mode and start working as a team? Will Chris finally step up—and can Dominique let go of overthinking and accept support?

In this episode we uncover:

• How their expensive Arizona house became a symbol of both pride and financial strain.

• The quiet resentment Dominique feels when Chris is out of work—and why she kept it to herself.

• A surprising disconnect around how much they contribute—and who’s really paying more.

• Ramit’s reality check about going month to month on a six-figure income.

• Why Dominique’s overthinking makes her feel in control—but leaves them stuck in place.

• The false sense of security that’s masking a dangerous truth: They have just two months of savings.

• The emotional cost of living reactively—and what it will take for them to finally plan ahead.

Chapters:

(00:00:00) “My friend sold it to me…” — the truth about whole life insurance

(00:09:05) Investing, saving… or just surviving?

(00:14:58) Problem-oriented vs. solution-oriented

(00:22:11) Ramit breaks down their numbers

(00:26:14) He’s living for his son—but what about himself?

(00:38:32) What if selling your house meant losing money?

(00:43:13) “I thought I’d be co-parenting by now”

(00:52:38) Dominique & Chris 2.0: Confident. Open. Together.

(01:03:30) Where are they now? Dominique and Chris’s follow-ups

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