August 08, 2025

275. How To Know Whether You Are Being Called To Be A Christian Dementia Caregiver

34 minutes

“For years I said it: I will never live with my dad.”

Episode 275 begins with Lizette’s confession—and the quiet, Spirit-led shift that changed everything after her mother’s death. If you’re wrestling with the same question—“Am I being called to be a dementia caregiver?”—this 30-minute solo reflection is your roadmap.

1. What is a calling?

Lizette defines it as a providential placement for God’s purposes, not limited to pulpits or mission fields. 1 Cor 7 17: “Only as the Lord has assigned to each one…”

2. Two dimensions

• External call—the stroke, the diagnosis, the empty chair at dinner.

• Internal call—the Holy Spirit aligning your desire with that reality.

They may not sync immediately, and that’s okay. Growth happens in the gap.

3. You can grow into it

Lizette recalls resisting her role as a pastor’s wife—until God’s timing married her external circumstances with internal readiness. Caregiving works the same way. Philippians 2 13 reminds us God supplies both desire and doing.

4. Biblical guideposts for discernment

• Honor father and mother (Ex 20 12)

• Leave and cleave—marriage covenants still matter (Gen 2 24)

• Station & providence—where has God already placed you?

Using the Think Different Dementia Method™ and Therapeutic Truth-Telling™, Lizette shows how these texts form a decision grid—moving you from guilt-driven duty to purpose-filled obedience.

5. Next right step

Seats are open for the FREE workshop “Three Unusual Mistakes That Keep Christian Dementia Caregivers Overwhelmed” on August 9 at 12 p.m. ET. Register at thinkdifferentdementia.com/WSL and bring your messy middle to the table.

Your caregiving journey isn’t a detour—it’s part of God’s story for you. Embrace the call, trust His timing, and steward today well.

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🤝 You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

Join other Christian caregivers who are walking this road too — and learning how to care with compassion, clarity, and faith.

👥 Join the free Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dementiacaregiversupportforchristians

🗣️ Ask Your Question Live — and Be Heard

Bring your real-life caregiving questions to Ask the Dementia Coach — our free monthly Q&A session. You’ll get support, clarity, and maybe even be featured on the podcast.

🗓️ Brought to you every month!

🎤 Register here: https://www.thinkdifferentdementia.com/ask

🎓 Want to Reduce Overwhelm Right Now?

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How to Immediately Reduce Dementia Caregiver Overwhelm and Stress — in 3 Simple Steps

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🧭 Still Feeling Stuck?

If you’re wondering what’s underneath your stress, the Caregiver Stress Assessment can help clarify what’s really weighing you down — so you can take your next step with peace.

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By Lizette Cloete, Christian Dementia Coach

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