In this conversation, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke discuss the challenges that arise when one partner finally goes to therapy and starts making changes in the relationship. They explore the emotions that come up for the other partner, the desire for control, and the fear of accepting the changes. They also discuss how to navigate this situation, whether to stay in the relationship and encourage the changes or to leave without sabotaging it. The conversation emphasizes the importance of redefining success in a relationship and being honest about one's desires and needs.