Welcome back to Problem Solved, we're back at it, first sharing thoughts on Jeff's recent social post that sparked some negative responses. Alex gives us a pretty awesome breakdown of Cincinnati chili, and we dive into solving problems!

6:38 Alex and Jeff discuss comments made on his recent social post about cheating.

13:08 Question 1: Classic Cincinnati. Alex, Do you like Skyline Chili? Where did you go to school?

24:19 What else do you put chili on?

26:05 Question 2: Fellow therapist asking for Jeff and Alex's take on boundaries and ultimatums.

29:40 Boundaries Vs Ultimatums Explained.

32:54 Personal examples of ultimatums, warning, and boundaries.

34:38 Boundaries and ultimatums can feel like control, or cause shame.

36:26 Boundaries are rather confusing. Talking in Circles.

37:20 Question 3: 50 years old and dating. Am I being too pragmatic?

43:06 Jeff shares a touching personal story about grief.

46:15 "I had the worst vasectomy" "Bring those interns in"

51:17 Back on track. Answering question 3.

Thank you for listening!

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When was the first time you ever saw an adult magazine? Jeff and Alex share their personal firsts.

Then we jump into a relational psychology listener question, or we should say "set of calculated questions that resemble a test", which we suspect was submitted by Teal Swan. This deep conversation on favorite things results in some surprisingly "big dog" action.

More listener questions this week

3:08 - Jeff Personal Story

10:36 - Alex Personal Story

19:11 - Question 1 - (Probably from Teal Swan)

34:22 - Question: 2 - Help! I fell in love whilst in an open relationship.

50:01 - Question 3 - I need top tips on how to go LOW contact with a family member.

Thank you all!

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Would you consider it cheating if your partner flirts in front of you? Alex and Jeff review some interesting statistics gathered from a bunch of different "is it cheating" scenarios.

Then on to exploring and solving some sex positive listener problems!

3:06 - Jeff's Statistic Review - Would you consider it cheating if........?

19:11 - Question 1 - Exploring my sexuality.

30:36 - Question 2 - A fellow therapist is debating the idea of having an Only Fans account.

40:58 Question 3 - Getting off on an abandonment wound. Is this a bad idea?

50:45 Question 4 - Using sex and pleasure as an escape.

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It's that time of the week again, and we're solving problems. Or at least trying to. This week, Jeff and Alex receive a request from a previous caller who's problem was in fact not solved. They dive into the follow up questions and provide thoughts and clarity. Another dilemma includes a man with an interesting tattoo name situation, and a relationship that has never seen an argument.... Ever..... Is that a green flag, or red flag? You decide.

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Welcome back to Problem Solved. This week, Alex explains the concept and importance of aftercare. Alex pushes Jeff to share his feelings and thoughts on what we'll refer to as WPB! Listener questions this week include a relationship dilemma, finding a social balance when sharing real personal feelings, and the interesting question of, "what would you do if you swapped genitalia for 24 hours".

DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

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If you've got problems, Jeff and Alex are here to help solve them. Answering questions this week, they’re diving into ways to bring super hot sex back and rekindle desire. Jeff and Alex then share thoughts on maintaining friendships with someone you dated or are attracted to. Donating sperm is the next topic. Plus, how do you deal with trust in relationships, when you're struggling with doubt. Let’s get into it.

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Have you ever heard of "Red Pilling"? Jeff shares his theory on how, if there were a way, Theo Vaughn would likely be the cause of his "Red Pilling". In true Problem Solved fashion, we dive into all kinds of interesting listener questions, from the taboo and controversial to relationships and daily life decisions. Whatever the topic, tiptoeing around is not how we navigate subject matter on this podcast. Alternatively, we rely on irreverent, sarcastic hilarity to fuel meaningful mental health conversions, thought experiments and interesting perspective. Creating simultaneously entertaining and educational whirlwinds of thought, we hope to broaden listener perspective with a laugh. Problem Solved. 

DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational and entertainment purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

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We're covering every topic under the sun this week on Problem Solved. Starting with Jeff and Alex's insightful Dungeons & Dragons tips and tricks. We dive into listener questions covering topics like: Should you tell another mans wife if he keeps reaching out to you? What do you tell people if you're not into having kids? & What's the best way to ease your kids into the idea of you dating again? Jeff also receives a question form an old favorite client.

It's a pink lemonade episode people. If you listen, you'll know.

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This week, Jeff and Alex tackle a lineup of very real, very juicy questions, from the guy who thinks society should destigmatize incest, to the boyfriend who loved a foot job but now can’t handle the truth. They also weigh in on falling for someone while in recovery, hating school so much you want to move to Barcelona, and how to respond when your boyfriend says he’s “too happy” for therapy.

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DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.

This week on Problem Solved, Jeff and Alex are diving into all the juicy stuff: shame, secrecy, shadow, and sex. They tackle listener questions about navigating a religious rift in marriage, integrating your sexual self into everyday life, handling ethically questionable non-monogamy, confronting a messy friend, and embracing a little post-divorce wildness. Along the way, they talk fingered flowers, cotton candy souls, and why sometimes you gotta show your shame a little love. 

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DISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.