In this episode, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke dive into the complex and often invisible emotional labor carried by “married single moms” — women who feel like they are parenting alone despite having a partner. They explore the inequities in household and childcare responsibilities, the societal pressures that reinforce traditional gender roles, and the emotional toll this dynamic takes on women and families.
Talia and Adam unpack how outdated expectations, a lack of co-parenting models, and the “helper mentality” among fathers contribute to modern relationship strain. They also discuss postpartum challenges, the difficult decisions some women face about staying or leaving, and how real systemic change requires shifting cultural norms — not just personal effort.
Whether you're navigating these dynamics yourself or seeking to understand them better, this conversation offers validation, clarity, and hope for creating more equitable partnerships.

In this conversation, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola explore the intricate relationship between past experiences and present dynamics in adult romantic relationships and parenthood. They discuss how unresolved childhood issues manifest in adult behaviors, the importance of emotional awareness, and the necessity of confronting one's past to foster healthier relationships. The dialogue emphasizes that healing is a continuous journey and that avoidance of emotional issues can lead to detrimental patterns in parenting and partnerships. In this conversation, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola explore the complexities of parenting, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation, presence, and authentic connections with children. They discuss the impact of emotional neglect, the necessity of healing past wounds, and the journey of progress over perfection in parenting. The dialogue highlights the significance of teaching values and morality, aiming to foster a secure attachment and a healthy relationship between parents and children.

In this episode, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke dive into the evolving dynamics of parent-child relationships, especially as children grow into adulthood. They explore the emotional shift from seeing parents as superheroes to recognizing their imperfections, and how this impacts boundaries, individuation, and family roles. The conversation touches on generational trauma, conscious parenting, and the complexities that surface during holidays and family gatherings. Packed with insights on communication, empathy, and emotional growth, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating adult relationships with parents or working to break unhealthy family patterns.

In this episode of Between Two Clinicians, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke discuss the complexities of parenting and the importance of repairing relationships between adult children and their parents. They explore themes of parental defense mechanisms, the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, and the critical role of attunement in early development. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to take accountability for their actions and the lasting effects of their parenting styles on their children's emotional well-being. The hosts provide insights into how parents can learn to be more attuned and supportive, ultimately fostering healthier relationships with their children.

In this conversation, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke explore the concept of the 'success tax'—the emotional and relational costs associated with personal growth and achievement. They discuss how outgrowing friendships can lead to feelings of loneliness and competition, and how personal development can change the dynamics of relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing seasonal friendships, setting boundaries, and the necessity of letting go of relationships that no longer serve us. Ultimately, they highlight the potential for friendships to evolve and adapt as individuals grow.

In this conversation, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke explore attachment styles and online dating. They explore how different attachment styles influence dating behaviors, particularly in the context of dating apps. The discussion covers secure and insecure attachment styles, the psychological impacts of dating apps, and the distinction between chemistry and compatibility in relationships. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they provide listeners with a deeper understanding of how attachment styles shape romantic interactions and the importance of self-awareness in dating

In this conversation, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola explore the intricate relationship between past experiences and present dynamics in adult romantic relationships and parenthood. They discuss how unresolved childhood issues manifest in adult behaviors, the importance of emotional awareness, and the necessity of confronting one's past to foster healthier relationships. The dialogue emphasizes that healing is a continuous journey and that avoidance of emotional issues can lead to detrimental patterns in parenting and partnerships. In this conversation, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola explore the complexities of parenting, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation, presence, and authentic connections with children. They discuss the impact of emotional neglect, the necessity of healing past wounds, and the journey of progress over perfection in parenting. The dialogue highlights the significance of teaching values and morality, aiming to foster a secure attachment and a healthy relationship between parents and children.

In this conversation, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke discuss the challenges and misconceptions surrounding New Year's resolutions. They emphasize the importance of mindset shifts, realistic goal setting, and the role of motivation and community in achieving personal growth. The discussion highlights that motivation is not a constant and that individuals should not wait for a specific time to start working towards their goals. Instead, they should take immediate action and create a structured plan to ensure success. In this conversation, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola explore the themes of goal setting, motivation, and the importance of realistic expectations in achieving personal growth. They discuss the difference between feeling entitled to success versus deserving it through hard work and planning. The conversation emphasizes the need for flexibility in pursuing goals, the impact of social circles on personal aspirations, and the significance of self-discovery in the journey towards achieving one's objectives.

In this conversation, Adam Luke and Talia Bombola discuss the complexities of navigating holiday stress, family dynamics, and the importance of setting boundaries during the holiday season. They explore how to create an ideal holiday experience, manage overstimulation, and implement self-care strategies to ensure a joyful and fulfilling holiday season. They emphasize the need for individuals to reflect on their holiday expectations and the impact of family traditions on their emotional well-being. The discussion shifts towards creating new traditions that resonate with personal values and family dynamics. They also highlight the significance of passing down traditions in a meaningful way, while encouraging listeners to redefine their holiday experiences to foster joy and connection.

In this conversation, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke discuss the importance of taking action in conjunction with awareness, especially in the context of mental health and family dynamics during the holiday season. They explore how awareness alone is insufficient if it does not lead to meaningful change and the potential pitfalls of using past traumas as excuses for current behaviors. The discussion emphasizes personal responsibility, the need for effective communication, and the complexities of navigating relationships, particularly in the aftermath of trauma. Talia and Adam's major talking points are: being aware of something doesn't mean you can use it as an excuse to behave or not take action on something; sometimes therapy can overemphasize emotion and coddle without encouraging or pushing client to make changes & also some clients resist action; and sometimes people use a diagnosis as an excuse or label to avoid their own role in something.