In this conversation, Talia Bombola and Adam Luke explore the pitfalls of choosing a partner who enables and cosigns our unhealthy behaviors and patterns. They emphasize the importance of conscious growth and self-awareness in relationships. The hosts discuss the tendency to be attracted to partners who match our wounded inner child or unhealed parts, rather than choosing someone who aligns with our values and growth goals. They highlight the need for both partners to be committed to personal growth and development.