EPISODE 39: Interview with Pour Votreplaisir. Pour Votreplaisir is an educator, erotica author, jester, & joyous pansexual polyamorist, reveling in all life’s wonder. In a polyamorous relationship for nearly three decades, Pour is one of the moderators of the “Polyamory Discussion” group on Facebook, with over 29,000 members. He’s a sought-after speaker on polyamory, and a regular feature at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, where he presents on legislative aspects of non-mainstream lifestyles. He is also active in the kink community, but mostly because it just gives another audience for his many bad puns. Follow his adventures at pourvotreplaisir.net and the Facebook group Polyamory Discussion.