This week we're diving into The Gay Rulebook We Never Received — the completely unofficial handbook that apparently every gay person got except us.

After a listener asked if they've broken a gay rule by never watching RuPaul's Drag Race, we started wondering: is there actually a list of rules we're all supposed to know? From gym culture and drag shows to Palm Springs, circuit parties, fashion, hookups, and stereotypes, we're unpacking the gay expectations we never signed up for.

We also talk about selling the Out at the Fair trailer, saying goodbye to a huge chapter of our lives, whether Caleb should grow a skullet, and why body hair deserves a little more respect.

Plus, we answer multiple Throuple Hotline questions from listeners navigating relationships, age gaps, friendship dynamics, and life as a throuple.

📞 Is it a gay crime to never watch RuPaul's Drag Race?
📞 How do you handle judgment as a throuple with a large age gap?
📞 What happens when a potential third starts pulling away?

Plus:

🌈 The Gay Rulebook We Never Received
🏳️‍🌈 Gay culture stereotypes
💪 Gym culture & body image
👠 Drag culture & representation
🎧 Circuit parties & Palm Springs
📱 Hookup culture & dating apps
🦴 The Bowl of Chaos
☎️ Throuple Hotline
🔮 Sassy Astrology
😂 Dad Joke of the Week

Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you're driving to work, hiding from the summer heat, scrolling through Instagram instead of going to the gym, or wondering if your gay card is still valid, we appreciate every single one of you.

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We finally escaped for a much-needed vacation to Lake Tahoe and Reno… and honestly, it was exactly what we needed.

This week we’re breaking down our entire Tahoe trip, from beautiful hikes and lake days to family time, casino adventures, Lime scooter rides, giant pine trees, and the reason we ended up extending the vacation instead of coming home.

We talk about what surprised us most about Tahoe, why Reno felt different this time, our favorite meals, favorite memories, and why this may have been one of the most relaxing trips we’ve taken in years.

We also answer a new Throuple Hotline question from a listener in Montreal:

📞 Have any of you ever second-guessed becoming a throuple?

📞 And does Daniel really wear socks during sex?

Plus:

🌲 Lake Tahoe adventures
🏡 Airbnb review
🥾 Hiking with Rigsby & Zoey
🎰 Reno recap
👨‍👩‍👧 Family birthday memories
📚 Book 2 update
🎲 Tahoe Bowl of Chaos
☎️ Throuple Hotline
🔮 Sassy Astrology
😂 Dad Joke of the Week

Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you’re listening on a road trip, planning your next vacation, hiking a trail, or recovering from your own Fourth of July tequila decisions, we appreciate every single one of you.

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☀️ Episode 24 is here and we’re kicking off summer vacation season!This week we’re talking all things summer including vacations, road trips, beach days, pool life, fireworks disasters, camping stories, and the summer memories that still make us laugh years later.We also answer two new Throuple Hotline questions that immediately turn into chaos:📞 Are you supposed to arrive at 6:00 PM… or leave your house at 6:00 PM?📞 Is making a spreadsheet for vacation normal behavior?We also share some of our favorite travel stories, debate road trips versus flying, talk Fourth of July memories, and somehow end up discussing haunted swimming pools, exploding fireworks, and sex under a pier.Plus:☀️ Summer vacation memories🎆 Fourth of July stories🚗 Road trips vs flying📞 Throuple Hotline🏖️ Beach, lake, pool or AC?🔮 Sassy Astrology😂 Dad Joke of the Week🌽 Garden and corn updatesThank you for spending part of your summer with us. Whether you’re listening by the pool, on vacation, at work, or stuck in traffic like Caleb, we appreciate every single one of you.⸻🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com

🎉 Episode 23 is here and we’re celebrating Daniel’s 40th birthday!This week we look back at the last 15 years together, talk about what has changed (and what definitely hasn’t), discuss life lessons, aging, friendship, family, and what we’re most excited about for the future.We also dive into one of our favorite Throuple Hotline questions yet, wrap up Pride Month with a Pride-themed Bowl of Chaos, and share this week’s Sassy Astrology forecast.Plus:✨ Daniel’s 40th birthday questions🎂 Chosen family and life lessons🌈 Pride Month memories📞 A confusing Throuple Hotline situation🔮 Sassy Astrology😂 Dad Joke of the Week🐻 Alaska dreams and future adventuresThank you for joining us on this wild ride. Whether you’re listening from the United States, Canada, the UK, Australia, Vietnam, the Philippines, or anywhere else in the world, we appreciate every single one of you.⸻🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com

Remember when making friends was as easy as sharing crayons or sitting at the same lunch table?

This week, we’re talking about how friendships change as you get older.

From childhood best friends and high school friend groups to adult friendships that somehow survive years without a text message, we’re diving into what happens when life, careers, relationships, and responsibilities start pulling everyone in different directions.

We talk about:

👦 Why making friends felt so easy as kids

🎓 How friendships changed during our teenage years

🏳️‍🌈 How coming out impacted our friendships

📍 Why living in a city like San Diego makes friendships harder to maintain

❤️ The difference between friends, chosen family, and lifelong connections

🤝 Why quality matters more than quantity as you get older

😂 The friendships we’ve lost, kept, and unexpectedly found

Plus, we somehow end up discussing social media, sneaking out as teenagers, Summer House drama, Burger King in Hawaii, giant trucks, and why adult friendships require a lot more effort than anyone warns you about.

Whether you’re reconnecting with old friends, building a new circle, or wondering where everyone disappeared to after your twenties, this episode is packed with laughs, honesty, and plenty of throuple chaos.

If you like conversations about friendship, growing older, chosen family, LGBTQ+ life, relationship dynamics, reality TV tangents, and three gay men oversharing on the internet, you’ll probably enjoy this one.

🌈 Season Segments

👬 Friendship Through the Years

📞 Throuple Hotline

🎲 Bowl of Chaos: Friend Edition

🔮 Sassy Astrology

🤣 Daniel’s Dad Joke Corner

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What happens when the Bowl of Chaos goes on vacation and leaves us unsupervised?In Episode 21 of A Little Throuple Tea, three gay men in a real-life throuple turn Never Have I Ever into a full episode… and immediately regret it.What starts as a simple drinking game spirals into hookup confessions, relationship crimes, household secrets, Pride Month chaos, Summer House tangents, and one very important question:Does Daniel actually know what an Eiffel Tower is?We talk about:🍹 Never Have I Ever getting messy fast🏳️‍🌈 Pride Month chaos and fair season freedom😂 Daniel’s Eiffel Tower confusion🛏️ Why we do not sleep in the same bed🧦 Daniel sleeping in socks and a shirt🔥 Relationship bickering in real time🌿 Daniel’s Reiki volunteer work🎡 Out at the Fair at the San Diego County FairThis episode is loud, messy, slightly unhinged, and very much what happens when the game takes over the entire show.If you like queer podcasts that mix relationship dynamics, drinking games, chaotic honesty, throuple life, and three gay men arguing about absolutely nothing — this one’s for you.🌈 Season Segments🍹 Never Have I Ever — Full Episode Edition📞 Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology😑 Daniel’s Dad Joke Corner⸻🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Follow us on Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea

Have you ever wondered what would happen if a professional astrologer sat down and analyzed your entire personality?

This week, we found out.

After visiting a spiritual expo in Southern California, Daniel and Will had their birth charts professionally read while Caleb received his first-ever tarot card reading. What started as a fun afternoon quickly turned into a surprisingly accurate deep dive into our personalities, relationships, life paths, and future plans.

We talk about:

✨ The personality traits that were spot-on

🔮 Caleb’s tarot reading and the major life changes it revealed

🌙 Daniel’s emotional and spiritual connections

🤯 Why Will’s birth chart completely overwhelmed the astrologer

🏝️ The surprising predictions about our future

❤️ How all three readings seem to explain why our throuple works so well together

Plus, we compare our results, roast each other relentlessly, discuss spiritual curiosity, and somehow end up talking about aliens, reality TV, and dogs that can’t handle warm weather.

Whether you’re a believer, a skeptic, or just astrology-curious, this episode is full of laughs, unexpected insights, and plenty of throuple chaos.

If you like astrology, tarot readings, relationship dynamics, personality tests, spiritual conversations, and three gay men oversharing on the internet, you’ll probably enjoy this one.

🌈 Season Segments

🔮 Professional Birth Chart Readings

🃏 Caleb’s First Tarot Reading

☕ Throuple Tea

🌙 Spiritual Curiosity & Life Changes

🤣 Daniel’s Dad Joke Corner

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This episode starts with Vegas…and somehow ends with incest jokes, dragon fruit trauma, and an emotional goodbye to a huge chapter of our lives. 😭

In Episode 19 of A Little Throuple Tea, we talk about:

• ​Daniel surviving the Wizard of Oz Sphere experience in Vegas 🎰
• ​Why sitting FRONT ROW at the Sphere is a terrible idea
• ​The emotional moment we officially handed off Out at the Fair after 14 years 🌈
• ​Being recognized in public for the podcast for the first time 👀
• ​Foods we love, foods we hate, and the texture issues ruining our lives
• ​Mexican food addiction 🌮
• ​Why Will thinks dragon fruit tastes like boogers 💀
• ​Fast food scams & overpriced California living
• ​Childhood struggle meals
• ​Relationship food drama

This episode is chaotic, emotional, hilarious, deeply unserious… and somehow also one of the most personal conversations we’ve had about change, burnout, and letting go.

If you like:

🌴 chaotic LGBTQ+ podcasts

🌮 food debates & relationship chaos

👽 unhinged conversations

🎙️ real-life throuple stories

🍹 comedy podcasts with zero structure

…you’ll probably fit right in here.

✨ Season Segments:

🎲 Chaos Bowl™

🔮 Sassy Astrology

🌮 Food Trauma & Hot Takes

🌈 Throuple Hotline

🍵 Relationship Chaos

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One side of the bed got a perfect sleep score…The other side apparently VANISHED for almost 2 hours. 👽

In Episode 18 of A Little Throuple Tea, we spiral into one of the weirdest things that’s ever happened to us after Caleb’s Sleep Number data showed he disappeared from bed for 1 hour and 49 minutes — with ZERO memory of it happening.Was it sleepwalking?A glitch?Aliens?Honestly… we’re not ruling anything out. 😭

We also dive into:

* Weird sleep habits & night chaos

* UFOs, alien theories & paranormal stories

* Summer House obsession updates

* Birthday chaos for Will 🎂

* Corporate burnout & AI replacing jobs

* Hot takes on reality stars in politics

* Sassy Astrology for the week

* Memorial Day weekend energy & summer plansThis episode is chaotic, emotional, hilarious, slightly unhinged… and somehow one of our favorites yet.

If you like:🌴 chaotic relationship podcasts👽 alien conspiracies🍹 drunk conversations🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQ+ creators🎙️ unfiltered real-life stories…welcome home.

✨ Season Segments:🔮 Sassy Astrology🍵 Hot Takes & Tea👽 Alien Abduction Debate🎲 Truth or Sip🌴 Summer House Chaos

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Before the throuple, before California, before the chaos… we were just three very different kids growing up in very different worlds.

This week, we’re going all the way back — childhood memories, teenage chaos, first jobs, first relationships (yes… even the girl era), and the moments that shaped who we are today.

From desert lizard hunting to Midwest lake life… from religious upbringings to party years that probably should’ve gotten us arrested (okay, one of us actually did)… this episode is a full throwback.

We also get real about:
• Coming out (and not always on your own terms)
• Losing friends and finding yourself
• The messy path that led us here
• And what our younger selves would actually think about our lives now

PLUS… the Throuple Hotline is back with:
• 🚨 Relationship red flags (or are they?)
• 🍽️ The dish debate that almost started a war
• 💀 A petty Costco revenge story that… honestly… we respect

And of course:
🔮 Sassy Astrology is SERVING this week
😑 Daniel’s dad joke… exists

If you’ve ever wondered how three completely different lives somehow collided into one… this is the episode.

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If you like: real-life relationship stories, chaotic humor, LGBTQ+ conversations, and unfiltered life talk — you’re in the right place.

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🌴 Season Segments:

🎲 Life Before Us
📞 Throuple Hotline
🔮 Sassy Astrology
😑 Dad Joke of the Week

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