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Can a throuple actually get legally married? 🤔🌈This week on A Little Throuple Tea, what started as a boring morning of estate planning quickly turned into a legal rabbit hole we never expected.After trying to create a joint living trust, we discovered that even after nearly 15 years as California Registered Domestic Partners, the system still didn't recognize our relationship the way we thought it would. That sent us down a Google-fueled spiral asking one simple question...Can a throuple actually get married anywhere in the world?Along the way we talk about:✨ Domestic Partnerships vs. Marriage✨ Living Trusts & Estate Planning✨ Why relationship laws still have catching up to do✨ The irony of reality TV celebrating unconventional relationships while the legal system often doesn't✨ And of course... complete wedding chaos, groomzillas, honeymoon debates, and who would absolutely forget the marriage license. 😂We also celebrate some HUGE news—A Little Throuple Tea has officially been syndicated by the Los Angeles Blade! Thank you to everyone at LA Blade for believing in our little show. Be sure to check out our weekly companion article on their website after listening!Plus:🎲 Bowl of Chaos: Wedding Edition☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology😑 Daniel's Dad JokeIf you've ever wondered how nontraditional relationships navigate marriage, legal paperwork, and commitment—or if you just enjoy listening to three idiots make each other laugh—this episode is for you.👇 We'd love to hear from you!Would you get married if three-person marriage became legal tomorrow?How do you introduce your relationship? Partners? Spouses? Domestic partners? Something else?Leave us a comment!📲 Download the NEW Throuple Tea app!Now available on Apple App Store, with Android coming soon!🎙️ Follow us everywhere you listen to podcasts.🌴 Visit: ThroupleTea.com📰 Read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.☎️ Submit your questions to the Throuple Hotline—your story could be featured in a future episode!

This week, we’re talking about the little things that can instantly make someone more attractive—and the equally small things that can ruin it the second they open their mouth.From humor, intelligence, curiosity, and being good with animals to hygiene, trustworthiness, adventurousness, and simply making someone feel safe, we’re breaking down the qualities that matter more than just being hot.We also talk about whether attraction can grow over time, the difference between attraction and compatibility, what first attracted us to each other, and what we appreciate more after years together.Naturally, the conversation goes completely off the rails when Will’s white mustache makes another appearance, Caleb tries to defend Chuck Norris jokes, Daniel’s home-reorganizing habits start a full household argument, and one innocent Bowl of Chaos answer almost turns us into Joe Rogan.Then the shots start flowing, a six-pound dildo becomes a home-security weapon, someone goes down the “wrong throat,” and we discover that Throat Goat may actually be living among us.We also catch up on the never-ending heat, the chaos of running DCW Grows, our weekly signed book giveaway, and how close Book Two of Tres Amigos, Una Vida is getting to completion.Plus, we answer new Throuple Hotline submissions involving facial-hair requests, unexpected porn-star potential, and the celebrity hall passes we apparently never discussed as a throuple.📞 Should Daniel grow a thick mustache, shave the goatee, and explore his alleged porn-star potential?📞 Do we have celebrity hall passes—and who would make the list?Plus:🔥 First Impressions vs. Reality😂 Why Humor Is So Attractive🐶 Being Good with Animals🧠 Intelligence, Curiosity & Flat-Earth Gemini🧼 Hygiene, Bad Breath & White Tongues🚩 Attraction vs. Compatibility❤️ What First Attracted Us to Each Other🏠 The Great Household Rearranging Fight🚦 Bowl of Chaos: Green Flag, Red Flag or We’ll Survive🍆 The Six-Pound Dildo Story☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology🌭 Dad Joke of the WeekThank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you’re driving to work, trying to survive the summer heat, reorganizing a room nobody asked you to touch, or realizing someone became hotter simply because they made you laugh, we appreciate every single one of you.🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com📚 Sign up for push notifications at ThroupleTea.com for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story.

This week we're talking about all the random things we were convinced meant someone was rich growing up... and looking back, we couldn't have been more wrong.

From two-story houses and homemade lemonade to Gateway computers, deli meat from the grocery store, and Sleep Number beds, we're reminiscing about the childhood "luxuries" that made us think someone had officially made it.

Naturally, the conversation goes completely off the rails when Daniel accidentally says "Poke Your Anus" instead of Pocahontas, Will pretends to know what Cap Rock is, and somehow decides they're the hottest accessory of the season.

We also catch up on Daniel becoming a Reiki Master, the launch of our new website, this weekend's Out at the Fair® at the Orange County Fair, and our signed book giveaway.

Plus, we answer new Throuple Hotline questions from listeners navigating relationship drama, family obligations, and protecting your own peace.

📞 How many times can your friends break up before you stop pretending to be surprised?

📞 Is it selfish to skip family events when your social battery is completely drained?

Plus:

🏡 Things We Thought Meant You Were Rich

🍋 Homemade Lemonade Memories

💻 Gateway Computers

🥪 The Deli Meat Upgrade

🛏️ Sleep Number Beds & Aging

😂 "Poke Your Anus"

🪨 Cap Rocks Are Apparently In Style

🦴 Bowl of Chaos

☎️ Throuple Hotline

🔮 Sassy Astrology

😂 Dad Joke of the Week

Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you're driving to work, hiding from the summer heat, reminiscing about your childhood, or still convinced a two-story house means someone's rich, we appreciate every single one of you.

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📲 Instagram: @throupletea

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📚 Sign up for push notifications at ThroupleTea.com for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story.

This week we're diving into The Gay Rulebook We Never Received — the completely unofficial handbook that apparently every gay person got except us.

After a listener asked if they've broken a gay rule by never watching RuPaul's Drag Race, we started wondering: is there actually a list of rules we're all supposed to know? From gym culture and drag shows to Palm Springs, circuit parties, fashion, hookups, and stereotypes, we're unpacking the gay expectations we never signed up for.

We also talk about selling the Out at the Fair trailer, saying goodbye to a huge chapter of our lives, whether Caleb should grow a skullet, and why body hair deserves a little more respect.

Plus, we answer multiple Throuple Hotline questions from listeners navigating relationships, age gaps, friendship dynamics, and life as a throuple.

📞 Is it a gay crime to never watch RuPaul's Drag Race?
📞 How do you handle judgment as a throuple with a large age gap?
📞 What happens when a potential third starts pulling away?

Plus:

🌈 The Gay Rulebook We Never Received
🏳️‍🌈 Gay culture stereotypes
💪 Gym culture & body image
👠 Drag culture & representation
🎧 Circuit parties & Palm Springs
📱 Hookup culture & dating apps
🦴 The Bowl of Chaos
☎️ Throuple Hotline
🔮 Sassy Astrology
😂 Dad Joke of the Week

Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you're driving to work, hiding from the summer heat, scrolling through Instagram instead of going to the gym, or wondering if your gay card is still valid, we appreciate every single one of you.

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📲 Instagram: @throupletea
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📚 Sign up for notifications at ⁠ThroupleTea.com⁠ for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story

We finally escaped for a much-needed vacation to Lake Tahoe and Reno… and honestly, it was exactly what we needed.

This week we’re breaking down our entire Tahoe trip, from beautiful hikes and lake days to family time, casino adventures, Lime scooter rides, giant pine trees, and the reason we ended up extending the vacation instead of coming home.

We talk about what surprised us most about Tahoe, why Reno felt different this time, our favorite meals, favorite memories, and why this may have been one of the most relaxing trips we’ve taken in years.

We also answer a new Throuple Hotline question from a listener in Montreal:

📞 Have any of you ever second-guessed becoming a throuple?

📞 And does Daniel really wear socks during sex?

Plus:

🌲 Lake Tahoe adventures
🏡 Airbnb review
🥾 Hiking with Rigsby & Zoey
🎰 Reno recap
👨‍👩‍👧 Family birthday memories
📚 Book 2 update
🎲 Tahoe Bowl of Chaos
☎️ Throuple Hotline
🔮 Sassy Astrology
😂 Dad Joke of the Week

Thank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you’re listening on a road trip, planning your next vacation, hiking a trail, or recovering from your own Fourth of July tequila decisions, we appreciate every single one of you.

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🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts
📲 Instagram: @throupletea
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📚 Sign up for notifications at ThroupleTea.com for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story

☀️ Episode 24 is here and we’re kicking off summer vacation season!This week we’re talking all things summer including vacations, road trips, beach days, pool life, fireworks disasters, camping stories, and the summer memories that still make us laugh years later.We also answer two new Throuple Hotline questions that immediately turn into chaos:📞 Are you supposed to arrive at 6:00 PM… or leave your house at 6:00 PM?📞 Is making a spreadsheet for vacation normal behavior?We also share some of our favorite travel stories, debate road trips versus flying, talk Fourth of July memories, and somehow end up discussing haunted swimming pools, exploding fireworks, and sex under a pier.Plus:☀️ Summer vacation memories🎆 Fourth of July stories🚗 Road trips vs flying📞 Throuple Hotline🏖️ Beach, lake, pool or AC?🔮 Sassy Astrology😂 Dad Joke of the Week🌽 Garden and corn updatesThank you for spending part of your summer with us. Whether you’re listening by the pool, on vacation, at work, or stuck in traffic like Caleb, we appreciate every single one of you.⸻🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com

🎉 Episode 23 is here and we’re celebrating Daniel’s 40th birthday!This week we look back at the last 15 years together, talk about what has changed (and what definitely hasn’t), discuss life lessons, aging, friendship, family, and what we’re most excited about for the future.We also dive into one of our favorite Throuple Hotline questions yet, wrap up Pride Month with a Pride-themed Bowl of Chaos, and share this week’s Sassy Astrology forecast.Plus:✨ Daniel’s 40th birthday questions🎂 Chosen family and life lessons🌈 Pride Month memories📞 A confusing Throuple Hotline situation🔮 Sassy Astrology😂 Dad Joke of the Week🐻 Alaska dreams and future adventuresThank you for joining us on this wild ride. Whether you’re listening from the United States, Canada, the UK, Australia, Vietnam, the Philippines, or anywhere else in the world, we appreciate every single one of you.⸻🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com

Remember when making friends was as easy as sharing crayons or sitting at the same lunch table?

This week, we’re talking about how friendships change as you get older.

From childhood best friends and high school friend groups to adult friendships that somehow survive years without a text message, we’re diving into what happens when life, careers, relationships, and responsibilities start pulling everyone in different directions.

We talk about:

👦 Why making friends felt so easy as kids

🎓 How friendships changed during our teenage years

🏳️‍🌈 How coming out impacted our friendships

📍 Why living in a city like San Diego makes friendships harder to maintain

❤️ The difference between friends, chosen family, and lifelong connections

🤝 Why quality matters more than quantity as you get older

😂 The friendships we’ve lost, kept, and unexpectedly found

Plus, we somehow end up discussing social media, sneaking out as teenagers, Summer House drama, Burger King in Hawaii, giant trucks, and why adult friendships require a lot more effort than anyone warns you about.

Whether you’re reconnecting with old friends, building a new circle, or wondering where everyone disappeared to after your twenties, this episode is packed with laughs, honesty, and plenty of throuple chaos.

If you like conversations about friendship, growing older, chosen family, LGBTQ+ life, relationship dynamics, reality TV tangents, and three gay men oversharing on the internet, you’ll probably enjoy this one.

🌈 Season Segments

👬 Friendship Through the Years

📞 Throuple Hotline

🎲 Bowl of Chaos: Friend Edition

🔮 Sassy Astrology

🤣 Daniel’s Dad Joke Corner

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What happens when the Bowl of Chaos goes on vacation and leaves us unsupervised?In Episode 21 of A Little Throuple Tea, three gay men in a real-life throuple turn Never Have I Ever into a full episode… and immediately regret it.What starts as a simple drinking game spirals into hookup confessions, relationship crimes, household secrets, Pride Month chaos, Summer House tangents, and one very important question:Does Daniel actually know what an Eiffel Tower is?We talk about:🍹 Never Have I Ever getting messy fast🏳️‍🌈 Pride Month chaos and fair season freedom😂 Daniel’s Eiffel Tower confusion🛏️ Why we do not sleep in the same bed🧦 Daniel sleeping in socks and a shirt🔥 Relationship bickering in real time🌿 Daniel’s Reiki volunteer work🎡 Out at the Fair at the San Diego County FairThis episode is loud, messy, slightly unhinged, and very much what happens when the game takes over the entire show.If you like queer podcasts that mix relationship dynamics, drinking games, chaotic honesty, throuple life, and three gay men arguing about absolutely nothing — this one’s for you.🌈 Season Segments🍹 Never Have I Ever — Full Episode Edition📞 Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology😑 Daniel’s Dad Joke Corner⸻🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Follow us on Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea

Have you ever wondered what would happen if a professional astrologer sat down and analyzed your entire personality?

This week, we found out.

After visiting a spiritual expo in Southern California, Daniel and Will had their birth charts professionally read while Caleb received his first-ever tarot card reading. What started as a fun afternoon quickly turned into a surprisingly accurate deep dive into our personalities, relationships, life paths, and future plans.

We talk about:

✨ The personality traits that were spot-on

🔮 Caleb’s tarot reading and the major life changes it revealed

🌙 Daniel’s emotional and spiritual connections

🤯 Why Will’s birth chart completely overwhelmed the astrologer

🏝️ The surprising predictions about our future

❤️ How all three readings seem to explain why our throuple works so well together

Plus, we compare our results, roast each other relentlessly, discuss spiritual curiosity, and somehow end up talking about aliens, reality TV, and dogs that can’t handle warm weather.

Whether you’re a believer, a skeptic, or just astrology-curious, this episode is full of laughs, unexpected insights, and plenty of throuple chaos.

If you like astrology, tarot readings, relationship dynamics, personality tests, spiritual conversations, and three gay men oversharing on the internet, you’ll probably enjoy this one.

🌈 Season Segments

🔮 Professional Birth Chart Readings

🃏 Caleb’s First Tarot Reading

☕ Throuple Tea

🌙 Spiritual Curiosity & Life Changes

🤣 Daniel’s Dad Joke Corner

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