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What if a throuple isn’t actually one relationship — but four different relationships happening at the same time?This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we break down every pairing inside ours: what comes naturally between each of us, what we actually talk about when we’re alone, who brings out the lazy side, who starts projects before breakfast, and who gets dragged into the middle when two people start bickering.And apparently we’ve developed a very advanced conflict-resolution system:When we start arguing, somebody should just get naked.We also get into what happens when the third person becomes the relationship referee, why one pairing absolutely should not be trusted with the credit card, and why people asking if two of us are brothers gets a VERY quick clarification.Then the Bowl of Chaos makes everything worse. We expose who makes the worst food decisions, who would be a nightmare on a dating app, who can talk everyone into a terrible idea, who would flirt their way out of trouble, and which pairing is most likely to disappear from a party and come back pretending nothing happened.Also in this episode:- Is one throuple actually four relationships?- Why Caleb already knows when Will and Daniel are talking about each other- Our new “just get naked” argument rule- The pair who should never get the credit card- McFlurries ruining another “no bad decisions” night- Why two of us apparently look like brothers- The dream house where you can watch someone poop while making eggs- Fireball returns to the Bowl of Chaos- The Throuple Hotline takes a week off while everyone updates the app- Sassy Astrology gives the overthinkers 17 browser tabs and tells them not to invent option 18The Throuple Hotline is back next week, and with the newest Throuple Tea app update, you’ll be able to live chat with us while we’re recording. We’ll send a push when we go live, and your comments might make it onto the show.Download the FREE Throuple Tea app on Apple and Android, send us your questions and chaos, and keep up with everything happening in our world.Visit ThroupleTea.com and read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.Tell us in the comments: Do you think a throuple is one relationship — or several relationships happening at once?Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show.Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

What happens when three guys sit down to talk about podcasting and immediately lose control of the conversation?This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we somehow go from the episodes we actually remember to whether we interrupt each other more now, the ridiculous amount of work that happens after we stop recording, and why apparently none of us are actually listening when the other two are talking.Then things get considerably less productive.We invent an entirely new species called the pig frog, discover that our former “meat boy” may have become a flower boy, debate whether homemade cookies can be smuggled onto a cruise ship, and let Fireball make several decisions for us.We also get into something a little creepier: some of the haunting moments from Tres Amigos, Una Vida: Fault Lines were inspired by things that actually happened in our house—including a bedroom door mysteriously being wide open in the middle of the night.Then the Bowl of Chaos exposes who derails the show, who interrupts everybody, who tells stories the other two definitely did not approve for public consumption, and the uncomfortable realization that all three of us might just be waiting for our turn to talk.The Throuple Hotline asks where we actually record the podcast, which leads to the glamorous reveal that our “basement studio” is really a converted garage approximately one step below the rest of the house.Plus, Sassy Astrology comes for anyone overthinking their life, Zoe becomes our unexpected first podcast guest, and Daniel somehow finds an audiobook dad joke to close everything out.Also in this episode:• The Halloween episode none of us can forget• Why making one podcast episode can turn into three days of work• The return of completely unnecessary throuple arguments• Pig frogs and the science nobody requested• Our plans to eventually take the podcast on the road• The Bowl of Chaos + Fireball• Caleb from Nebraska calls the Throuple Hotline• Zoe crashes Sassy Astrology• The real-life haunting behind parts of Book Two• Daniel’s Dad JokeTell us: What is the most unhinged conversation you’ve ever had that started completely normally?Submit your questions, stories, relationship chaos and confessions through the Throuple Hotline.Download the FREE Throuple Tea app on Apple and Android to watch and listen, chat with us, leave a message on the Tea Wall, play Bowl of Chaos, enter Win a Book Wednesday and keep up with everything happening in our world.Visit ThroupleTea.com and read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with somebody who would absolutely help us breed a pig frog.Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

Do throuples have favorites—or just different partners for different parts of life?

This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we’re answering the question nobody in a throuple should probably discuss with microphones recording.

We compare the unique relationships between each pairing, who is easier to talk to, who gets things done, who needs the most reassurance and who apparently will not be getting laid this weekend.

Then Bowl of Chaos makes the conversation even messier with questions about jealousy, quality time, texting habits, keeping score and the fastest ways to piss each other off.

The Throuple Hotline also asks whether the three of us would ever create a spicy page. It sounds like a possible business opportunity—until worn underwear enters the planning process and the entire idea begins falling apart.

Plus, Sassy Astrology leads to a real conversation about careers, AI and knowing when it is time to stop forcing an old path and build something new.

Also in this episode:

• Do throuples actually have favorites?

• The different roles each partner plays

• Why being in the same room is not always quality time

• Bowl of Chaos relationship questions

• A questionable spicy-page business plan

• Alone time, jealousy and weekend priorities

• Sassy Astrology and career changes

• Daniel’s Dad Joke

Tell us: Do relationships have one favorite—or different favorites for different parts of life?

Submit your questions, stories, relationship chaos and confessions through the Throuple Hotline.

Download the FREE Throuple Tea app on Apple and Android to watch and listen, play Bowl of Chaos, enter Win a Book Wednesday and keep up with everything happening in our world.

Visit ThroupleTea.com and read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.

Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with someone brave enough to ask their partner who the favorite is.

Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

Hot Guy Court is officially in session!This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we’re putting 41 famous men on trial and rating them from 1 to 10—with no changed votes, no defense and absolutely no guarantee of good taste.Bad Bunny, Maluma, Glenn Powell, Oscar Isaac, Jason Momoa, Chris Evans and plenty more face three very different judges. Some men break the scoring system, some cause an unexpected age crisis and others leave us questioning what the internet considers hot.We eventually crown three different champions and discover the one man who somehow earned full throuple approval.Want to play along? Head to @ThroupleTea on Instagram, where we posted every hottie in the exact order we discussed them. Follow along while you watch, then vote for your favorite in the comments.Plus, Sassy Astrology tells us to stop clinging to what feels safe, celebrity dad jokes nearly get thrown out of court and the Bowl of Chaos skips the game—but still DoorDashes us three Fireball shots from vacation.Download the FREE Throuple Tea app on Apple and Android to watch and listen, send us a Throuple Hotline message, enter Win a Book Wednesday and keep up with everything happening in our world.Visit ThroupleTea.com and read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with someone whose celebrity taste needs to be investigated.Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

What happens when your new book is so massive it can’t even become a hardcover?

This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we’re celebrating Labor Day, revealing how Fault Lines became the 730-page “Throuple Bible” and explaining why formatting the book nearly broke us—or inspired us to build something completely new.

We also prepare for Southern California rain like a hurricane is coming, revisit one of the worst rescue plans in history and let Bowl of Chaos expose which one of us becomes dangerously confident after watching a single YouTube tutorial.

Then, the Throuple Hotline brings us a relationship problem involving a three-year boyfriend who is still being introduced to the family as “the friend.” How long do you keep the peace before it becomes disrespect?

Plus, Sassy Astrology, an emotional family tribute and one host ending the entire Labor Day episode with the wrong holiday.

Tell us: Would you read a 730-page Throuple Bible—and how long would you tolerate being called “the friend”?

Submit your questions, stories, relationship chaos and confessions through the Throuple Hotline.

Download the FREE Throuple Tea app on Apple and Android to watch and listen, play Bowl of Chaos, enter Win a Book Wednesday and keep up with everything happening in our world.

Visit ThroupleTea.com and read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.

Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show.

Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

What happens when we record an entire episode without choosing an actual topic?

This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we’re embracing the open format and talking about whatever happens to be floating through our minds—which apparently includes Big Brother, beach burns, free chips, reality stars ignoring us, travel plans, hurricanes, wildfires, book announcements, sponsorship rejections and several completely unnecessary shots fired.

We start by breaking down the current season of Big Brother, why the returning icons have survived for so long, whether the younger players are afraid to make a move and what the season is seriously missing: bromances, romances, flirtation and hot men.

Then we recap our first beach day in a very long time. Daniel and Caleb loved the water, William tolerated the experience, everyone got sunburned and Moonlight Beach was approximately four tents deep with people. Naturally, this turns into the ultimate beach-versus-pool debate, why sand becomes less appealing as you get older and whether having sex on the beach is ever actually worth the cleanup.

We also announce that Tres Amigos, Una Vida: Fault Lines officially arrives September 4 on Kindle and paperback. The sequel somehow became more than 700 pages, the cover features our actual backyard and the story continues whether seven people read it or seven million.

Of course, because this episode has no responsible adult supervising it, we also debate whether restaurants should be allowed to limit free chips and salsa, whether we should unfollow Kyle Cooke from Summer House for ignoring us, and what happens when a drink brand rejects your podcast sponsorship pitch while its product is still sitting directly in front of the cameras.

Yes. Shots were fired.

Plus, we play Chaos Bowl directly through the Throuple Tea app with Confess Your Chaos, Most Likely To, Mature Mode, Wild Mode and Slay Cards. The game exposes old crushes, fake emergencies, thirst traps, excessive selfie attempts and the fact that three people sharing one life still interpret basic instructions very differently.

Also in this episode:

• Why the current season of Big Brother feels different

• The SDSU mistake that foreshadowed our move to San Diego

• Our overcrowded and sunburned beach day

• The ultimate beach-versus-pool debate

• Why one free basket of chips is not enough

• The September 4 release of Fault Lines

• The Reno wildfire and hurricanes near our Big Island property

• Whether we should unfollow Kyle Cooke

• Chaos Bowl: Confess Your Chaos + Most Likely To + Wild + Slay Cards

• Two real Throuple Hotline questions

• How we choose our vacation destinations

• Foods we would happily erase forever

• Sassy Astrology for August 28–September 3

• Daniel’s Dad Joke

• And the sponsorship rejection that created our new drink-koozie rule

If this episode proves anything, it’s that we apparently do not need a topic. We just need three microphones and enough unrelated thoughts to fill an hour.

Tell us: Is this season of Big Brother actually boring? Are you choosing the beach or the pool? And should restaurants always provide unlimited chips and salsa?

Submit your questions, stories, shady neighborhood tea, relationship chaos, confessions, travel problems, or whatever else you need three gay men to have an opinion about through the Throuple Hotline.

Download the FREE Throuple Tea app now on Apple AND Android. Listen and watch the podcast, play Chaos Bowl, send us a Throuple Hotline message, enter Win a Book Wednesday giveaways, shop Throuple Tea merch and keep up with everything happening in our world in one place.

Visit ThroupleTea.com

And don’t forget to read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.

Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with someone who can also turn absolutely nothing into an hour-long conversation.

Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

What exactly belongs on the ultimate Gay Bucket List?This week on A Little Throuple Tea, we’re going through the gay experiences, destinations, milestones, events, and ridiculous adventures the internet says every gay should experience at least once.We’re talking our favorite Pride memories, the cities we still want to experience Pride in, Fire Island, Palm Springs, Key West, Puerto Vallarta, gay cruises, circuit parties, drag brunches, gay ski weeks, concerts, chosen family, holding hands in public, supporting LGBTQ+ businesses, and finding places where you can actually feel completely comfortable being yourself.Of course, because it’s us, that somehow turns into Daniel needing to plan something for once, disappearing on vacation, straight boys, bathhouses, robot fantasies, gay milestones, planning a giant house party and a conversation about whether straight men actually wash their buttholes.Yes. It goes very far off the rails.We also get into the more meaningful side of the Gay Bucket List — finding your chosen family, experiencing Pride, falling in love, supporting your community and finding that sense of belonging that so many LGBTQ+ people spend years looking for.Plus, we play Chaos Bowl directly from the Throuple Tea app again, this time with Most Likely To prompts, Mature Mode, Wild Mode and Slay Cards. And apparently the app knows us a little too well.Also in this episode:- The ultimate Gay Bucket List- Our favorite Pride memories and dream Pride destinations- Gay experiences we’ve somehow never had- Chaos Bowl: Most Likely To + Wild + Slay Cards- Two real Throuple Hotline questions- A completely unnecessary investigation into straight men's hygiene- Sassy Astrology for August 21–27- Daniel’s Dad Joke- And several conversations that absolutely were NOT on the Gay Bucket ListIf you’ve already crossed half of these off your list, congratulations. If you haven’t… apparently we all have some work to do.Tell us: What’s one gay experience you think EVERYONE should have at least once? And what’s still sitting on your Gay Bucket List?Submit your questions, stories, shady neighborhood tea, relationship chaos, confessions, or whatever else you need three gay men to have an opinion about through the Throuple Hotline.Download the FREE Throuple Tea app now on Apple AND Android. Listen and watch the podcast, play Chaos Bowl, send us a Throuple Hotline message, enter Win a Book Wednesday giveaways, and keep up with everything Throuple Tea in one place.Visit ThroupleTea.comAnd don’t forget to read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with someone whose Gay Bucket List could use a few more questionable additions.Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

Somehow… we made it to Episode 30 of Season 2 — which means this is officially our 40th episode of A Little Throuple Tea.

And honestly, we’re just as surprised as you are that we still have this much to talk about.

This week, we’re looking back at what’s changed since we first sat down behind the microphones, what we were nervous to talk about in the beginning, the running jokes that somehow became part of the show, what we’ve learned about each other after 40 episodes, and where we want to take this thing next.

Of course, because it’s us, that quickly turns into mosquito nets, Daniel “kneading,” crusty blankets, hot vampire brothers, blown-out holes, travel disasters and several conversations that probably explain why our show is marked explicit.

We also talk about some pretty huge milestones for A Little Throuple Tea — including our new partnership with the Los Angeles Blade and the launch of the official Throuple Tea app on BOTH Apple and Android!

Plus, for the first time on the podcast, we ditch the physical slips of paper and play Chaos Bowl directly from the new app, using Classic Mode on Wild with Slay Cards. Things get weird immediately.

Also in this episode:

• Chaos Bowl: Wild + Slay Cards

• Two Throuple Hotline messages

• Our goals for the next 40 episodes

• Who we’d love to have as our first podcast guest

• Sassy Astrology for August 14–21

• Daniel’s Dad Joke

• And approximately 47 conversations we absolutely did not plan on having

If you’ve been listening since Episode 1, THANK YOU. And if you somehow found us at Episode 40… welcome. You have a lot of questionable material to catch up on.

Tell us: What’s been your favorite Throuple Tea moment, running joke, or episode so far? And what do you want to hear from us in the next 40?

Submit your questions, stories, shady neighborhood tea, relationship chaos, or whatever else you need three gay men to have an opinion about through the Throuple Hotline.

Download the FREE Throuple Tea app now on Apple AND Android. Listen and watch the podcast, play Chaos Bowl, send us a Throuple Hotline message, enter Win a Book Wednesday giveaways, and keep up with everything Throuple Tea in one place.

Visit ThroupleTea.com

And don’t forget to read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.

Follow, subscribe, rate, review and share the show with someone who could use a little more tea in their life.

Throuple life. It doesn’t suck.

Can a throuple actually get legally married? 🤔🌈This week on A Little Throuple Tea, what started as a boring morning of estate planning quickly turned into a legal rabbit hole we never expected.After trying to create a joint living trust, we discovered that even after nearly 15 years as California Registered Domestic Partners, the system still didn't recognize our relationship the way we thought it would. That sent us down a Google-fueled spiral asking one simple question...Can a throuple actually get married anywhere in the world?Along the way we talk about:✨ Domestic Partnerships vs. Marriage✨ Living Trusts & Estate Planning✨ Why relationship laws still have catching up to do✨ The irony of reality TV celebrating unconventional relationships while the legal system often doesn't✨ And of course... complete wedding chaos, groomzillas, honeymoon debates, and who would absolutely forget the marriage license. 😂We also celebrate some HUGE news—A Little Throuple Tea has officially been syndicated by the Los Angeles Blade! Thank you to everyone at LA Blade for believing in our little show. Be sure to check out our weekly companion article on their website after listening!Plus:🎲 Bowl of Chaos: Wedding Edition☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology😑 Daniel's Dad JokeIf you've ever wondered how nontraditional relationships navigate marriage, legal paperwork, and commitment—or if you just enjoy listening to three idiots make each other laugh—this episode is for you.👇 We'd love to hear from you!Would you get married if three-person marriage became legal tomorrow?How do you introduce your relationship? Partners? Spouses? Domestic partners? Something else?Leave us a comment!📲 Download the NEW Throuple Tea app!Now available on Apple App Store, with Android coming soon!🎙️ Follow us everywhere you listen to podcasts.🌴 Visit: ThroupleTea.com📰 Read our weekly companion article with the Los Angeles Blade.☎️ Submit your questions to the Throuple Hotline—your story could be featured in a future episode!

This week, we’re talking about the little things that can instantly make someone more attractive—and the equally small things that can ruin it the second they open their mouth.From humor, intelligence, curiosity, and being good with animals to hygiene, trustworthiness, adventurousness, and simply making someone feel safe, we’re breaking down the qualities that matter more than just being hot.We also talk about whether attraction can grow over time, the difference between attraction and compatibility, what first attracted us to each other, and what we appreciate more after years together.Naturally, the conversation goes completely off the rails when Will’s white mustache makes another appearance, Caleb tries to defend Chuck Norris jokes, Daniel’s home-reorganizing habits start a full household argument, and one innocent Bowl of Chaos answer almost turns us into Joe Rogan.Then the shots start flowing, a six-pound dildo becomes a home-security weapon, someone goes down the “wrong throat,” and we discover that Throat Goat may actually be living among us.We also catch up on the never-ending heat, the chaos of running DCW Grows, our weekly signed book giveaway, and how close Book Two of Tres Amigos, Una Vida is getting to completion.Plus, we answer new Throuple Hotline submissions involving facial-hair requests, unexpected porn-star potential, and the celebrity hall passes we apparently never discussed as a throuple.📞 Should Daniel grow a thick mustache, shave the goatee, and explore his alleged porn-star potential?📞 Do we have celebrity hall passes—and who would make the list?Plus:🔥 First Impressions vs. Reality😂 Why Humor Is So Attractive🐶 Being Good with Animals🧠 Intelligence, Curiosity & Flat-Earth Gemini🧼 Hygiene, Bad Breath & White Tongues🚩 Attraction vs. Compatibility❤️ What First Attracted Us to Each Other🏠 The Great Household Rearranging Fight🚦 Bowl of Chaos: Green Flag, Red Flag or We’ll Survive🍆 The Six-Pound Dildo Story☎️ Throuple Hotline🔮 Sassy Astrology🌭 Dad Joke of the WeekThank you for spending part of your week with us. Whether you’re driving to work, trying to survive the summer heat, reorganizing a room nobody asked you to touch, or realizing someone became hotter simply because they made you laugh, we appreciate every single one of you.🎧 Full video on Spotify & YouTube🎙️ Audio everywhere you stream podcasts📲 Instagram: @throupletea🌴 Website: throupletea.com📚 Sign up for push notifications at ThroupleTea.com for your chance to win a signed copy of Tres Amigos, Una Vida: A Throuple Love Story.