#168: Here are two reasons why you may want to upgrade the porn you consume:

1. You kinda hate yourself after watching what you just watched
2. You've started to realize the porn aggregators (like Pornhub, RedTube and YouPorn) are platforms where abuse of women – and the potential for underage videos to surface without recourse – runs rampant, and you demand better

Since porn is here to stay – it can still play a healthy role in our sexual development and exploration – and we don't want you to loath yourself…

…Bryan and I want to provide you with better options.

Here are 4 of them:

#1. Ethical Porn Sites

Think of these porn sites as grass-fed, free-range organically sourced porn.

Lustery.Com – Amateurs who love filming and sharing their experiences with you.

Bellesa.co – Female porn stars get to pick their scenarios, scripts and sexual partners.

#2. OnlyFans

www.OnlyFans.com – Individual content creators share themselves directly with you: porn stars, dominatrixes (what's the plural of dominatrix?), and regular people with a wild streak.

We like this site because it keeps the power in the hands of the individual – safety, working conditions, boundaries and money.

OnlyFans has been around a while but blew up during quarantine as exotic dancers and adult film stars couldn't perform during a pandemic…so they went online.

#3. Literature Porn

www.LitErotica.com – 100% free sex stories, erotic audio and erotic fiction.

We like this site because it requires you to bring your imagination (versus typical porn where your imagination is completely offline as you're flooded with overstimulating video) and to slow your self-pleasure sessions down a notch.

#4. Erotic Audio Porn

www.AnnaWinters.com – One of our dedicated listeners of the show produces erotic audio for men. Speaking from personal experience…the listening experience is pretty damn spicy.

We like this option because Anna is very clearly sex positive and creates shame free experiences for her listeners.

Most of the audio is 8 to 12 minutes long.

Some of her episodes include:

• Keep your eyes closed as I'm riding you
• Sexy time by the fireplace
• Teasing your cock with my mouth

-DQ