Are you suffering in silence with pelvic pain or painful sex, believing it’s “normal” or something you just have to tolerate? This episode shatters the stigma and reveals why pleasure—not pain—should be your expectation.

Join Stacey Roberts and pelvic health pioneer Heather Jeffcoat for a raw, uplifting conversation packed with practical strategies and science-backed hope. Heather shares what most doctors and patients miss about chronic pain, why specialized pelvic PT matters, and the real roadmap to reclaiming intimacy and vitality.

From misunderstood diagnoses to empowering tools, you’ll leave knowing how to advocate for your health and demand better care. Don’t wait for relief. Tune in now to uncover the proven formula for healing that too often gets overlooked.

Your breakthrough starts inside this episode. Don’t miss what every patient, partner, and provider deserves to know.

Timestamped Highlights

[00:00:00] The anxiety-depression-pain loop: how Covid changed everything (and pelvic PT’s explosive growth)

[00:05:18] Why Heather gave up sports medicine: the “mill clinic” dilemma and hunger for real connection

[00:09:13] Quick fixes aren’t enough: Heather’s early patient struggles and what she wishes she knew

[00:11:14] Sex Without Pain: the radical message (and why Heather had to go beyond a pamphlet)

[00:14:10] Common doesn’t mean normal—breaking generational silence around intimate pain

[00:16:29] Kegels, biofeedback, and why most PT clinics simply aren’t enough

[00:19:10] The glute-jaw-pelvic floor connection (yes, jaw tension may fuel your symptoms)

[00:22:15] SoftWave breakthroughs: how a single device transformed pelvic therapy (and saved Heather’s hands)

[00:29:06] The real next steps if you’re struggling: tools, team, and empowerment

Heather Jeffcoat, DPT is a nationally recognized pelvic health physical therapist, author, and founder of Fusion Wellness & Femina PT in Southern California. She served as President of the Pelvic Health Academy at the American Physical Therapy Association (2022–2024) and sits on advisory boards for the International Pelvic Pain Society. With two decades’ expertise, Heather’s evidence-based care and book Sex Without Pain: A Self-Treatment Guide are changing lives for patients and reshaping the field itself.

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1. Sex Without Pain (book & resources)
2. SoftWave Therapy
3. American Physical Therapy Association (Pelvic Health Academy)
4. International Pelvic Pain Society
5. Medical vaginal dilators (dilator kits) – see Heather’s recommendations in her book/website

1. Pain-Free Formula Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-pain-free-formula/id1802518411
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3. Free eBooks - https://newyouhealthandwellness.com/ebooks
4. Biomechanics: When Movement Matters
5. Heal Your Gut, Heal Your Pain - The Gut Joint Axis: A Missing Link to Joint and Muscle Health
6. Hormones: A Missing Piece in Pain Relief
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8. Stacey’s Book on Amazon - https://www.amazon.ca/Pain-Free-Formula-Solving-Injections/dp/0998183717
9. New You Health and Wellness Website - https://newyouhealthandwellness.com

Stacey Roberts, PT, MBA, MSN, RN, is an Amazon bestselling author, physical therapist, registered nurse, and functional medicine specialist with 30+ years of experience. She founded and runs New You Health and Wellness in Wauwatosa, Wisconsin. Her program, detailed in her book, The Pain-Free Formula; Solving The Puzzle of Muscle and Joint Pain Without Surgery, Drugs or Injections, has helped thousands overcome chronic pain and reclaim their vitality.

The Pain-Free Formula Podcast is brought to you by Stacey Roberts. Production and editing by Podcast Your Brand.

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