How to break the loop of reactive thinking—replacing guilt, fear, and limiting self-talk with a trainable mindset so you can perform under pressure in sport, business, and life. 

In today’s conversation Todd Stottlemyre explores what it really takes to win—first in your head, then on the field and in life. He shares formative lessons from growing up around the Yankees, the identity-shaking lows of being sent to the minors, and the all-in decision that saved his MLB career. Todd opens up about the loss of his younger brother, the burden of self-blame, and the breakthrough that came from learning to observe thoughts and emotions rather than react to them. We connect those practices to everyday performance—journaling, movement, and presence—so listeners leave with a clear playbook to change their inner game. 

You will learn how elite environments expand belief and capacity, and why failure is a non-negotiable part of getting great. You will learn Todd’s “observer” method—document thoughts, name emotions, delay reaction—and how a 7-day journaling challenge builds awareness fast. You will learn practical strategies to convert adversity into agency (forgiveness, reframing, accountability partners) and why presence—being all in where you are—is the only real “balance.”

You will discover that the gap between stimulus and response is trainable—and mastering that gap is the unlock for consistent performance. You will discover how letting go of old narratives creates the psychological space to go “all in” on the next chapter.

Feeling stuck in repeat reactions—anger, doubt, self-criticism—that sabotage goals. Todd’s tools show you how to observe, reframe, and choose a response aligned with who you want to become.