She posted one screenshot and the internet lost its mind.

Joyce comes on the podcast to explain what dating as a woman in San Francisco actually looks like, the reality behind 1,000 plus likes, and why abundance often leads to worse outcomes. We talk dating apps, SF vs NYC, poly culture, and why Twitter outrage has nothing to do with real life dating.

Touch grass, then listen to this episode.

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January isn’t real life. It’s gym-in-January energy applied to your whole personality. Dating feels easier. Discipline feels natural. Everyone thinks they’re changing.

Then February hits, and people disappear.

This episode breaks down why January creates fake momentum in fitness, dating, and discipline, why February exposes who actually built habits, and how to use that short January window instead of wasting it.

Motivation is borrowed. Timing matters more than intention. And fake momentum still counts, if you move early.

Dating advice usually sounds good and works terribly.

In this episode, I sit down with Raq Is Right to talk about what actually works, what instantly kills attraction, and why modern dating feels broken. We get into why men shouldn’t post on Instagram or have TikTok, why dinner still matters on a first date, when texting backfires, how love bombing ruins things, and the three-month rule most people ignore.

We also talk NYC dating chaos, body count debates, dating apps, first date mistakes, and why being interesting matters more than being perfect.

If you’ve ever felt confused after a date that seemed to go great, this episode explains why.

What if the problem isn’t you, it’s your zip code?

In this episode, Murray Hill Guy changes his Hinge location and nothing else. Same photos. Same prompts. Eight cities. Eight dating ecosystems.

From Miami’s lifestyle marketing to Charleston’s sleeper wife potential, this episode ranks America’s dating scenes and breaks down what actually changes when you change cities, and what doesn’t.

Spoiler: moving won’t fix your dating life, but the data is still worth collecting.

The study continues.

This episode is about the 72-hour fantasy, the kind of perfect weekend that feels like a relationship and then disappears without explanation.

A Thursday night drink turns into three straight days together. Breakfasts, errands, meeting friends, inside jokes, future pacing. It feels real, fast, and intoxicating. Then Sunday ends. Monday comes. And the silence starts.

I walk through how intensity gets mistaken for compatibility, why alcohol and proximity accelerate false intimacy, and how loneliness after a breakup can turn excitement into emotional hallucination. We talk about ghosting, triple texting, dopamine crashes, and why fast weekends are more dangerous than slow bad dates.

This isn’t about blame or closure. It’s about learning to slow down, protect your pacing, and stop crowning people off chemistry instead of consistency.

If you’ve ever been ghosted after a great first date or weekend, felt confused by mixed signals, or wondered how something that felt real vanished overnight, this episode will make sense of it.

I break down the Triple Crown : overly political, overly online and the butterfly tattoo.

I walk through the Hinge date that went sideways over politics, how Instagram content farm girls slowly reveal their real vibe, and why guys keep confusing chaos for chemistry. I also talk about the Tea app, the dating safety app where people call out red flags, and how the loudest critics usually ignore their own.

If you want unfiltered dating stories, Hinge horror stories, and honest advice for guys in their 20s and 30s, this episode is your field guide for avoiding chaos and choosing peace.

The Triple Crown Of Chaos, Modern Dating Red Flags

Murray Hill Guy finally explains the Beautiful Mid Theory, why peace beats chaos, and how a Gem Saloon ten and an Upper East Side coffee date convinced him that a loyal seven is every man’s real dream.