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So you’re at a party when you notice a very attractive individual is looking your way. You’re not the best at conversation starters and pick-up lines. Deep down you just wish the person you admire would make their way over to you. Well, how can you grab their attention and attract them to do so? There are a few ways. Watch along to find out.

We also made a video on the behaviors that make someone chase you: https://youtu.be/ZztSyORzWJc

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References:

Walker, D., & Vul, E. (2014). Hierarchical Encoding Makes Individuals in a Group Seem More Attractive. Psychological Science, 25(1), 230–235. https://doi.org/10.1177/0956797613497969

Moore, M. M. (2002). Courtship Communication and Perception. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 94(1), 97–105. https://doi.org/10.2466/pms.2002.94.1.97

McGinley, H., McGinley, P. & Nicholas, K. Smiling, body position, and interpersonal attraction. Bull. Psychon. Soc. 12, 21–24 (1978). https://doi.org/10.3758/BF03329613

Cottrell, Catherine A., Neuberg, Steven L., & LI, Norman P..(2007). What Do People Desire in Others? A Sociofunctional Perspective on the Importance of Different Valued Characteristics. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 92(2), 208-231.

M, B. (2020, April 16). How to Attract Women Without Talking. The Art of Charm. https://theartofcharm.com/art-of-dating/attract-women-without-talking/.

Edwards, V. V. (2021, April 2). How to Be More Attractive: 7 Rules to Increase Attraction. Science of People. https://www.scienceofpeople.com/attraction/.

“Cocktail Party Effect.” Psychology Wiki, psychology.wikia.org/wiki/Cocktail_party_effect.

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