What does it take to guide a boy into healthy manhood? In this profound conversation, Adam Gornow returns to explore the challenges facing teenage boys and the crucial role fathers play in their development.

Adam begins by highlighting perhaps the most overlooked yet powerful tool in parenting: genuine attention. "One of the best things we can do for our sons is just pay attention," he explains, describing how truly listening creates space for authentic connection in a world demanding constant speed and immediate responses. This simple practice—slowing down, pausing before answering, being fully present—lays the foundation for meaningful relationship.

We dive deep into how modern society has abandoned the "village concept" critical to raising well-rounded children. Historically, boys weren't raised solely by parents but by a community of adults providing diverse examples of healthy masculinity. Without this structure, parents face unrealistic expectations while boys lack clear guidance on the transition to manhood.

The conversation explores the hero's journey as a universal pattern for healthy masculine development across cultures. Traditional rites of passage separated boys from the known world, guided them through challenges, and returned them to society as recognized men. Modern substitutes like military training provide partial initiation but fail to develop the complete masculine archetype, leaving many men trapped in what Adam calls "the Peter Pan effect"—emotionally immature and avoiding responsibility.

Adam offers practical insights for fathers wanting to create meaningful challenges for their sons—pushing them to the edge of comfort zones while maintaining safety. He emphasizes this cannot be done by individual parents alone but requires collective effort.

Whether you're raising sons, working with young men, or simply interested in the psychology of healthy masculinity, this conversation offers powerful guidance for nurturing the next generation of integrated, responsible men. 

Connect with Adam on LinkedIn or through his organisation Save A Warrior 

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