All The Wiser

77. The Incremental Steps of An Abuser


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When Tom asked Kate to move in with him after dating for three months, she was thrilled. He seemed really into her and wanted to make her life as a single mom easier. But once they were married and had a child together, things got dark. Her “too good to be true” husband became jealous, controlling, and ultimately, deadly. Kate Ranta shares the warning signs and red flags that just might save the life of somebody you know. 


In this episode:

  • Recognizing red flags in a relationship.
  • The incremental steps of an abuser.
  • Intentional isolation and possessive behavior.
  • The intoxicating effects of love bombing.
  • A broken system.
  • The role acceptance plays in the healing process.


Stay connected with Kate:

Websites: kateranta.com 

Book: Killing Kate

Charity Donation: www.lovelifenow.org


Additional resources:

https://ncadv.org/

https://www.thehotline.org/

https://www.bradyunited.org/

https://www.gunsdownamerica.org/

https://bocarecoverycenter.com/treatment/trauma-informed/

https://bocarecoverycenter.com/addiction/addiction-domestic-violence/


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