Are you in a controlling relationship? Controlling relationships can be hard to spot, especially when you're in one. Control is actually a form of emotional abuse that can cause permanent damage to the person's psyche and mental health, as well as the relationship itself. Being in a controlling relationship for a long amount of time can also increase the likelihood of depression, low self-esteem, and anxiety, so it's important to identify the signs. Think you might be controlled or controlling? In this video, we will be talking more about the things controlling partners do in relationships.