Inside Job

83: We Used To Hang Out Now They're My Boss


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"Don't screw your friends over, especially at work." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt (or not)

Great friendships often develop at work, and usually this is a good thing. It's important to work with people we like and people we trust, especially given how much of our time and energy goes into our jobs.

So what happens when the power dynamic shifts between friends? What changes when a friend is suddenly the boss? Or when you hire a friend? What shifts when there is suddenly a significant shared outcome that requires input, effort, and accountability between buddies?

We tackle these questions and more on this episode of the podcast. We talk about:

  • How to recognize and process what is gained and lost
  • What to discuss when designing a new alliance, both as colleagues and as friends
  • What to do with the inside information already known about each other
  • How to handle the resulting shifts when getting together outside of work
  • How to avoid assumption traps by developing a beginner's mind
  • Not using friendships as an excuse to cut corners or deprioritize work
  • And more

We also get into the difficulties of seasonal allergies and nasal probes.

Inside Job is brought to you by Nayla Bahri and Eric Johnson.

To learn more about us and our work and to join our mailing list, visit www.insidejobthepodcast.com or email us at [email protected].

To learn more about the ideas and resources discussed in this episode, check out our show notes.

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