Advanced planning isn’t always possible because if the decision to divorce wasn’t yours then you have had no time or opportunity to prepare. And this is true for so many of life’s challenges as these tend to land into our lives with us not being ready.   

But that’s life right? As John Lennon said - Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans.  

Today I want to talk about some of the specifics around planning around and preparing for your divorce, your healing and your new life.   

You are here, so this is happening and whether you wanted it or not. Dwelling on that you didn’t want this is counterproductive. Understandable but not helpful. If you just want me to tell you that you don’t have to do anything then you have chosen the wrong episode.  

Did you notice that I mentioned planning your divorce, your healing and your new life?  

Yes - this is not just a financial and legal road map.  It is important to focus on all areas of this journey. And while the financial and legal can feel the most daunting and also the most important - it is likely the easiest as there are so many who can help you and there are specific steps that need to be taken.  

The scary factor is the unknown results, the potential emotional chaos and hostility and our own fear of working our way through these legal and financial avenues that most of us had no understanding of leading up to this time.  

Let’s start with the financial and legal.  If you are listening to this then you likely are going through or have gone through divorce. If you are done then you might want to skip ahead to the part about planning your healing and your new life starting at 16:50.  

Legal and Financial Planning 

Plan to heal 

Plan for your new life 

The focus tends to be so heavy on the scary stuff and the negative things that happen and may happen. So few talk about the good. It’s like we are afraid to feel good or feel guilty feeling anything positive at all. Enough of that!  

This is all within your control so make it happen.  

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