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This week’s episode is all about how less talking and more listening can transform you into a powerful, sought-after advisor. I shared how impactful advisory isn’t about dazzling clients with insights—it’s about creating space for them to hear themselves think.
I reflected on my work with advisors who believed their value came from being the smartest in the room. But the truth is, real connection comes from deep listening, not non-stop advice.
When advisors shift from expert mode to guide mode, they create safety, trust, and momentum. I shared James’ story—how he went from burnt-out expert to trusted guide simply by making space for his clients to speak.
I walked through how to become a better listener: choosing presence over performance, managing internal interference, using subtle signals to show engagement, and honouring silence as sacred space.
Listening is not passive—it’s leadership. And when you master it, your clients don’t just listen to you. They open up, lean in, and take action.
Key Takeaways:
1. Your value as an advisor comes from how well you hold space, not how much you say.
“Your value isn't how much you say; it's how well you hold the space.” – Amanda C. Watts
2. Listening is not passive—it’s a form of leadership that builds deep connection.
“Clients don’t need more noise and more to-do lists. They need someone who will really see them.” – Amanda C. Watts
3. Internal distractions during conversations prevent true connection with your client.
“Whilst your client is talking, if your attention is even slightly elsewhere, they will feel it.” – Amanda C. Watts
4. Small, intentional signals of listening create trust and open doors to deeper insight.
“It's about the subtle signals, the micro moments that tell your client, ‘I'm here; I'm with you.” – Amanda C. Watts
5. Silence is where breakthroughs happen, so resist the urge to fill every pause.
“Silence is where the gold lives… Some of the most powerful moments came after a long, quiet pause.” – Amanda C. Watts
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This week’s episode is all about how less talking and more listening can transform you into a powerful, sought-after advisor. I shared how impactful advisory isn’t about dazzling clients with insights—it’s about creating space for them to hear themselves think.
I reflected on my work with advisors who believed their value came from being the smartest in the room. But the truth is, real connection comes from deep listening, not non-stop advice.
When advisors shift from expert mode to guide mode, they create safety, trust, and momentum. I shared James’ story—how he went from burnt-out expert to trusted guide simply by making space for his clients to speak.
I walked through how to become a better listener: choosing presence over performance, managing internal interference, using subtle signals to show engagement, and honouring silence as sacred space.
Listening is not passive—it’s leadership. And when you master it, your clients don’t just listen to you. They open up, lean in, and take action.
Key Takeaways:
1. Your value as an advisor comes from how well you hold space, not how much you say.
“Your value isn't how much you say; it's how well you hold the space.” – Amanda C. Watts
2. Listening is not passive—it’s a form of leadership that builds deep connection.
“Clients don’t need more noise and more to-do lists. They need someone who will really see them.” – Amanda C. Watts
3. Internal distractions during conversations prevent true connection with your client.
“Whilst your client is talking, if your attention is even slightly elsewhere, they will feel it.” – Amanda C. Watts
4. Small, intentional signals of listening create trust and open doors to deeper insight.
“It's about the subtle signals, the micro moments that tell your client, ‘I'm here; I'm with you.” – Amanda C. Watts
5. Silence is where breakthroughs happen, so resist the urge to fill every pause.
“Silence is where the gold lives… Some of the most powerful moments came after a long, quiet pause.” – Amanda C. Watts
Want more? Join THE FREEDOM TRIBE
Here's all the FREE BONUSES you'll receive when you join our exciting community on Skool; The Freedom Tribe
PLUS: There are a few other surprise bonuses that can be UNLOCKED once you are inside the community: Get Clients Course and 5 Day LinkedIn Challenge. Super excited to see you there, and looking forward to helping you achieve all that you want in life.
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