Are You Setting Your Boy Up To Fail During The Holidays?
Boys will be boys! Understanding the way boys have been created helps you make sense and allow for the expected activity a boy will naturally have during holiday gatherings. Boys produce higher Testosterone levels that is responsible for physical movement, spatial activities, while girls tend to be more social and quiet because the hormone called Oxyntocin.
Oxytocin is the hormone involved in social relationships, bonding, trust, and love.
How not to set your boys up to fail at family gatherings.
1. Understand that for a young boy sitting still will always be a challenge
2. Provide plenty of stimulation activities (games, physical activities, competition) to help boys enjoy gatherings
3. Limit sitting or being still time to 10 minutes.
4. Be prepared for activities that may produce bumps and bruises.
5. Monitor the interaction among the boy without hovering.
6. Allow for Aggression Nurturance among boys.