A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 54

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Lora Cheadle, former attorney and betrayal recovery coach.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

• Defining betrayal, its impact on individuals, and the importance of properly addressing those feelings to avoid long-term negative consequences

• The FLAUNT Method — the five actionable steps that you can take to address the feelings of betrayal

• The necessity of grounding and centering techniques to stay present and make conscious, thoughtful decisions during challenging times

• Lora’s personal story of rebuilding her marriage after betrayal and the crucial role of staying open-minded, present, and trusting in one's truth during recovery

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 53

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca discusses the question many people in unhappy marriages are facing: Should you wait until after the holidays to start your divorce?

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

* How the typical “Divorce Month” has shifted in recent years

* The pros and cons of starting a divorce before and after the holidays

* Financial and emotional considerations for making this decision

* How to co-parent effectively during a stressful time

* Legal and financial steps you can take to prepare for divorce even before announcing it

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 52

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca speaks with Steve Schleupner, a divorce transition specialist with over 20 years of financial planning experience. Steve helps financially complex couples navigate divorce, focusing on aligning their decisions with long-term goals.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

* Challenges faced by business owners during divorce

* The dynamics of jointly owned businesses in divorce and the importance of recognizing shared history and equity for collaboration

* Options for you and your spouse’s business ownership status during divorce, such as buying out a share, co-owning, or selling the business

* The necessity of an operating agreement for establishing and enforcing clear roles post-divorce and the advantages of hiring a business coach

* The importance of long-term business goals to help shift focus from emotional turmoil to collaboration as co-owners

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 51

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Anthony Damaschino, an expert on empty nesting and author of The Empty Nest Blueprint and The Empty Nest Blueprint for Single Parents, published on June 18.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

* The Gray Divorce Phenomenon: A consistently rising trend with people living longer, couples are reconsidering their marriage in their forties and fifties, asking themselves, “Do we still connect, and do we want to remain married for another 30 years?”

* The Empty Nest Syndrome: How emotions, priorities, and needs change for parents’ relationships after their children have left the home, a key transitional life point for many

* Managing Emotions and Logistics of an Empty Next: Anthony offers strategies for managing the emotional and logistical challenges of transitioning to an empty nest

* Divorce During the Empty Nest Phase: How best to plan for a divorce before or during the transition to an empty nest, keeping the children in consideration

* Self-care & Personal Growth Post-Divorce: Anthony emphasizes the importance of divorced people with children no longer in the home to re-prioritize their life with them at the center — rediscover hobbies and travel plans and find new interests to explore and enjoy

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 50

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Mara Bernstein, a family and matrimonial lawyer who provides customized solutions for clients who want to divorce privately, efficiently, and cost-effectively. Mara is the founder and principal of Mara Bernstein, P.A., a family law firm in Boca Raton, Florida that offers streamlined, confidential, and respectful processes for divorce, prenuptial agreements, postnuptial agreements, and pre-divorce planning.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

* Planning Before the Divorce: The importance of pre-divorce planning and how early decisions can set you up for success

* Divorce Emotions, Finances & Legality: How to effectively address the emotional, financial, and legal aspects of divorce

* Avoiding the Courtroom: How to navigate divorce non-adversarially, avoiding prolonged litigation battles.

* Managing Expectations: The difference between reasonable and realistic expectations in divorce and how understanding this distinction can help you move forward with less frustration

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 49

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Karen McMahon, a Certified Relationship and Divorce Coach and Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce. Karen leads a national team of divorce coaches in supporting men and women around the world to become calm, clear and confident as they navigate divorce. She is also host of the Journey Beyond Divorce podcast with over one million downloads.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

* Navigating the Early Stages of Divorce: The importance of clarity and empowerment before even deciding to divorce

* A Divorce Coach’s Role: The critical role of divorce coaching in managing emotional turmoil and making informed decisions

* Effective Communication: Practical strategies for communicating effectively with a spouse during the separation process

* Overcoming Fear & Uncertainty: How personalized coaching can help overcome fears and uncertainties associated with divorce, enabling a smoother transition.

* Comprehensive Support: The benefits of a comprehensive support system, including legal, financial, and emotional guidance, to ensure the best possible outcomes in divorce.

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 48

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Brenda Bridges, Author of “Oh Sh#t! I'm Getting Divorced.” Brenda is a Divorce Coach, Mediator, Collaborative Divorce Financial Neutral, Financial Advisor (CDFA®, RICP®, MAT, CDC®) at Bridging Wealth Solutions, LLC.

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

* The Emotional and Financial Aspects of Divorce: With emotions feeding into financial decisions, Brenda’s unique combination of being a CDFA® and coach enables her to help her clients on a broader scale.

* The Three P's of Divorce Preparation: Born from seeing what not to do during a divorce, Brenda shares what she calls the three P’s for going through a divorce.

* The different types of divorce: Brenda walks us through the different divorce processes and how to determine which one is best for your circumstances.

* High Stakes Divorce: Brenda explains how each age group experiences divorce differently with distinct challenges and stakes, but they should all approach it in a future-focused, needs-based manner.

* Reclaiming Joy and Moving Forward: Drawing from personal and professional experience, Brenda emphasizes the importance of identifying what brings you joy and reintroducing those activities or passions into your life, especially if they were lost during the marriage.

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 47

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Debra Boulanger, CEO of Life After Corporate and founder of the Launch Lab for Women Entrepreneurs. Debra also runs the Reliable Revenue Mastermind and hosts the Life After Corporate podcast. She specializes in helping accomplished women leaders transition from corporate roles to entrepreneurship, providing tools and strategies to launch and grow their own businesses effectively.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

• Debra's personal journey through divorce and how it catalyzed her career transition from corporate leadership to entrepreneurship

• Insights on how divorce can be an opportunity for personal and professional reinvention

• Strategies for women to navigate career transitions effectively, leveraging their corporate skills in entrepreneurial ventures

• The importance of mindset and self-worth in overcoming challenges associated with starting a new business after a significant life change like divorce

• Practical tips for establishing a new business, including testing business ideas and managing the fear and uncertainty that come with stepping into new roles

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 46

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca discusses how Divorce Mediation works in New York and the importance of transparency, advocacy, and managing emotions during the process. As an established Collaborative Divorce attorney and Mediator in New York City, Andrea has seen first-hand what to do (and what not to do) to have a successful divorce mediation.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

* Understanding Mediation in New York, including how the process involves the divorcing parties meeting with the mediator alone without attorneys in the room.

* The need for complete honesty about finances and future plans, and the ability to advocate for oneself during mediation.

* Role of a Mediation-friendly lawyer who supports the mediation process and helps find mutually agreeable solutions.

* Focusing on interests, not positions: How effective Mediation requires focusing on the hidden reasons driving parties’ positions on the issues at hand to make it easier to find common ground and arrive at mutually-beneficial solutions.

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 45

In this episode of "A Better Divorce Podcast," Andrea Vacca is joined by Olivia Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner®, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, and Psychology of Financial Planning Specialist. Olivia specializes in guiding affluent women toward financial independence during and after divorce. She offers her expertise in navigating the complex financial landscapes that often accompany high-net-worth divorces.

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

* Defining High-Net-Worth Divorce: Understanding what qualifies as high-net-worth from a financial perspective and how it varies by location

* First Steps in High-Net-Worth Divorce: The importance of aligning personal values with divorce objectives and ensuring decisions reflect long-term goals

* Choosing the Right Attorney: Insights into selecting attorneys who align with collaborative and mediation processes rather than adversarial approaches

* The Importance of a Collaborative Divorce Team: How assembling a team, including financial analysts and consulting attorneys, can lead to more effective and less contentious divorce proceedings

* Maintaining Privacy and Addressing Complex Issues: Strategies for high-net-worth individuals to handle sensitive matters discreetly and efficiently outside of court

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