A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Sonya Weisshappel, a professional organizer, move manager, inventory expert, Founder and CEO of Seriatim, Inc., a New York-based company that provides organization and logistical solutions for businesses and individuals in transition. Sonya is a published author, with her recent book "Confessions of a Chaos Whisperer" released in May 2024.

Tune in to hear about:

• The importance of accurately valuing assets before a divorce to avoid significant financial loss.

• The value of creating a detailed inventory of possessions, listing items by room with values and ownership, for ensuring fair division and preventing disputes.

• Using a color-coded system to mark items owned by you or your spouse so movers know which items to take, reducing confusion and conflict.

• Downsizing effectively by identifying and taking personal and irreplaceable items while leaving behind what's unnecessary.

• Planning for a new life, including considering who you want to be in your next stage of life and what possessions will support that vision, whether it's taking up new hobbies or changing your living environment.

• How the assistance of professional organizers can ease transitions by inventorying and appraising belongings, ensuring a less stressful move.

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 43

In this episode of "A Better Divorce Podcast," Andrea Vacca is joined by family law attorney and mediator, Diana Adams. Diana is the owner of boutique LGBTQIA family law & mediation practice Diana Adams Law & Mediation, PLLC, founded in 2007, providing divorce & family transition mediation, collaborative practice, and when requested, conscious uncoupling. Diana specializes in divorce and family transition services through mediation and collaborative practice, with a focus on serving LGBTQIA clients, their platonic partners, polyamorous clients, and non-nuclear modern families. Diana is also the founder and Executive Director of Chosen Family Law Center, a 501C3 nonprofit providing family-building services to low-income LGBTQIA families & advocating for a more inclusive definition of family, as articulated in their popular TED talk released in 2022 "Why US Laws Must Expand Beyond the Nuclear Family".

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

* The benefits and emotional satisfaction of resolving divorce conflicts through collaborative divorce and mediation, especially over litigation.

* The specific challenges and considerations in same-sex divorces, particularly concerning the division of marital property and the negotiation of child custody.

* Diana’s insights on navigating open and polyamorous relationships within the context of marriage and divorce.

* The concept of conscious uncoupling and the use of positive divorce rituals to facilitate healthier transitions.

* Strategies for ensuring equitable solutions in divorces, particularly for non-traditional families, through creative and thoughtful negotiation.

Learn more about Diana Adams:

* Connect with Diana on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-adams-95675a23/

* Visit Diana Adams Law & Mediation’s website: http://www.dianaadamslaw.net

* Follow Diana on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/dianaadamsesq

* Follow Diana on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DianaAdamsEsq

* Follow Diana on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/dianaadamsesq

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with us!

• Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaFamilyLaw

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 42

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Larry Heller, Certified Financial Planner, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, and President of Heller Wealth Management, an independent, fee-based financial planning and investment advisory firm helping individuals, families, and business owners enhance the quality of their lives through complete financial advice.

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

* The Gray Divorce: Larry’s perspective as a certified CDFA, including the key differences he sees in a couple divorcing in their fifties and beyond versus a younger couple

* Retirement Planning Considerations During Divorce: Advice on what to do regarding retirement savings distribution when divorcing

* Post-Divorce Financial Planning: Larry walks through a checklist of financial considerations for after your divorce, including topics such as health insurance, life insurance, hiring new financial professionals, and investments

* The Financial and Emotional Decisions Around the Marital Home: What each spouse should consider when making decisions about the marital home and whether they should buy or rent next

Learn more about Larry Heller:

* Connect with Larry on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larryhellercfp

* Visit Heller Wealth Management’s website: https://hellerwealthmanagement.com

* Follow Heller Wealth Management on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/hellerwealthmanagement

* Visit Heller Wealth Management on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HellerWealthManagement/videos

* Follow Heller Wealth Management: https://www.facebook.com/hwmgmt

* Follow Heller Wealth Management on Twitter: https://twitter.com/hwmgmt

* Call Larry’s Office: (631) 248-3600

* Listen to Larry’s podcast, Life Unlimited on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/life-unlimited/id1250076316?mt=2&ls=1

* Listen to Larry’s podcast, Life Unlimited on Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e399ab45-b417-4928-b91a-3eab3bb458cd/life-unlimited

* Listen to Larry’s podcast, Life Unlimited on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Xo0Q47C84PJOlg77g8Oe8

* Check out Larry’s book, “RETIRE RIGHT: Lots of People Retire Wrong. Learn How to Retire Right” https://www.amazon.com/RETIRE-RIGHT-People-Retire-Wrong/dp/1795134550

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with us on social media!

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaFamilyLaw

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 41

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Sharon Pope, Certified Master Life Coach and International Best-Selling Author on love and relationships. Sharon works with couples and individuals, helping them navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Her seven-time best-selling books and renowned podcast, “The Loving Truth” have provided insight and support to countless people seeking clarity in their relationships.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

• Preparing for the Divorce Conversation: Learn Sharon's "Big Three" strategies (when, where, and what to say) to help you thoughtfully and compassionately discuss your decision to divorce with your spouse.

• Navigating Control and Fear in Divorce: Understand how fear makes it difficult to give up control and discover ways to release these fears to move forward.

• Shifting Resentment to Peace: Insights into how to move away from resentment and blame to create a healthier post-divorce relationship.

• Putting Kids First: The importance of being kind, gracious, and truly putting your children’s well-being at the forefront of your decisions.

• Co-Parenting Post-Divorce: How to transition to a positive co-parenting relationship where both parents feel empowered and capable of working together.

Learn more about Sharon Pope:

• Connect with Sharon on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon-pope-0705b28/

• Follow Sharon on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sharonpopecoach

• Visit Sharon’s Website: http://www.sharonpope.com

• Follow Sharon on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/SharonPopeTruthCoach

• Follow Sharon on Twitter: https://twitter.com/sharonpopetruth

• Follow Sharon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonpopetruth/

• Follow Sharon on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/sharonpopecoach/

• Follow Sharon on Tiktok: http://tiktok.com/@sharonpopecoach

• Check out Sharon’s podcast: https://sharonpope.com/podcast

• Check out Sharon’s book, “Stay or Go: How to Find the Confidence & Clarity You Need to Either Fix the Struggles in Your Marriage or Move Forward without Regret” https://stayorgobook.com

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with us on social media!

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaFamilyLaw

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/

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For YouTube and Podcast Platforms:

Connect with us!

• Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaFamilyLaw

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 40

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Dr. Risa Ryger. Dr. Ryger is a New York Clinical Psychologist, national and international speaker, and researcher with over 20 years of clinical experience. An expert in change, she guides and supports parents and families of all ages and stages before, during, and after divorce.

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

• The most common challenges Dr. Ryger helps her divorcing clients deal with when it comes to change

• Understanding the components of change and how our brains are built for it

• Advice for somebody considering divorce to ready themselves for the onslaught of change

• Advice for parents to help their children deal with the changes that divorce in the family brings

Learn more about Dr. Risa Ryger:

• Email: [email protected]

• Connect with Dr. Ryger on LinkedIn: http://bit.ly/DRRYGER

• Visit Dr. Ryger’s website: https://www.drrisaryger.com/

• Follow Dr. Ryger on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.risaryger (Don’t miss the live series, Disruptive Conversations with Dr. Risa Ryger)

• Follow Dr. Ryger on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drrisaryger

• Become an expert in identifying your stress with 2 free gifts, The Stress Checklist and The Stress Scale: http://eepurl.com/hhXT4r

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with us!

• Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/

A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 39

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Ginny Poleman, a writer, New York City tour guide, and owner of NYC Encounters. Ginny shares insights from her divorce journey, emphasizing the importance of preparation, self-advocacy, and leveraging resources. As a blogger for Better After 50, Ginny also reflects on the emotional and logistical challenges of navigating divorce, especially as someone who contributed significantly to her partner's career while managing household responsibilities.

Tune in to this episode to hear about:

• Ginny's proactive approach to her divorce, including extensive research and consultations with professionals and peers.

• The emotional journey and the significance of setting boundaries and finding support through friends, family, and therapy.

• The legal intricacies of spousal support and the impact of divorce conditions on Ginny's sense of independence and fairness.

• Ginny's strategies for maintaining a cordial relationship with her ex-husband, especially in the context of family events and co-grandparenting.

• Tips for individuals going through a divorce, focusing on preparedness, prioritizing key issues, and managing expectations during negotiations.

Learn more about Ginny Poleman:

• Connect with Ginny on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ginny-p-ba0baa148/

• Follow Better After 50 on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/better-after-50/about/

• Visit NYC Encounters’ website: https://www.nycencounterstours.com/

• Follow NYC Encounters on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NYC.Encounters/

• Follow Ginny on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginnyinprogress

• Follow NYC Encounters on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nyc.encounters/

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with us!

• Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/

A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Episode 38

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Beatty Cohan, a nationally recognized psychotherapist, sex therapist, author, national speaker, columnist and national radio and television expert guest.

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

* What Beatty tells couples who decide to get a divorce after going through couples’ therapy

* How Beatty helps people look forward after a divorce

* Beatty’s outlook on her continued work with those shifting from marriage to divorce

Learn more about Beatty Cohan:

• Learn more about Beatty: https://www.beattycohan.com/

• Follow Beatty on Twitter: https://twitter.com/beattymsw

• Connect with Beatty on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beatty-cohan-2551678b/

• Check out The Ask Beatty Podcast: https://askbeattypodcast.podbean.com/

• Check out Beatty’s book, For Better, for Worse, Forever: 10 Steps for Building a Lasting Relationship With the Man You Love: https://www.amazon.com/Better-Worse-Forever-Building-Relationship/dp/1886284229

Email: [email protected]

Call: 941-914-3063

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with us!

• Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

• Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq

• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/

A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Ep 37

Discover the role of Discernment Counseling in divorce with the latest episode of A Better Divorce Podcast featuring Kelley Hopkins-Alverez, LPC.

Kelley is a Licensed Professional Counselor who specializes in providing non-adversarial divorce support to divorcing partners, including Discernment Counseling, which helps couples decide whether to work on their marriage or proceed with divorce.

Tune in to this episode as we talk about:

• How mutual acceptance of the end of a marriage increases the chances of having a better divorce with less conflict and animosity.

• How Discernment Counseling helps couples evaluate their options when one spouse is uncertain about the future of the marriage. The process of Discernment Counseling, including understanding the dynamics of the relationship, exploring individual roles, and making a conscious decision about the future of the marriage.

• Healing separation, introduced by Dr. Bruce Fisher, an intentional and mindful approach that slows down the decision-making process and allows couples to navigate their emotions and find clarity before determining how to move forward.

Learn more about Kelley Hopkins-Alvarez LPC:

• Visit Kelley’s website: http://www.kelleyhopkinsalvarez.com

• Connect with Kelley on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelleyhopkinsalvarez/

• Visit and subscribe to Kelley’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoGaGLogaG1b7dhJjOj5rOw

• Follow Kelley on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KHAcounseling

• Follow Kelley on Twitter: https://twitter.com/KelleyHAlvarez

• Follow Kelley on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleyhopkinsalvarezlpc

A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with us on social media!

• LinkedIn | Andrea Vacca: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

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• Instagram | Vacca Family Law Group: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/

A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca, Ep 36

In this episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca is joined by Elise Pettus, Founder of UNtied, a community for women navigating divorce and life after. With an online community of almost 2,000 women, UNtied offers a nurturing, upbeat membership, meaningful education, and access to the best experts via its online events.

Tune in to the episode to hear about:

* The inspiration behind Elise founding UNtied and filling the void she saw in the divorce industry

* Why Elise believes UNtied’s number one impact on her community of divorcing and divorced women is vanquishing shame

* The power of simultaneous grief and gratitude

* The changes in women Elise has observed over the decade of running UNtied.

Learn more about Elise Pettus:

* Connect with Elise on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elise-pettus-a5aa8626/

* Visit Elise’s business website: https://www.untied.net/

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea VaccaA Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with Andrea Vacca:

* Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

* Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq

* Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca, Ep 35

In this episode of A Better Divorce, Andrea Vacca is joined by Wendy Behary, author of Disarming the Narcissist and Founder and the Director of The Cognitive Therapy Center of New Jersey and The Schema Therapy Institutes of NJ-NYC and DC.

Tune in to the episode to learn about:

* The definition of a narcissist

* What a person should expect when divorcing a narcissist

* How to handle co-parenting with a narcissist during and after a divorce

* The “When All Else Fails” strategy — what is it and how to use it

* How to help yourself when dealing with a narcissist

Learn more about Wendy Behary:

* Connect with Wendy on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wendy-behary-269a8a16/

* Check out Disarming the Narcissist: https://disarmingthenarcissist.com/

* Follow Wendy on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wbehary

* Follow Wendy on Twitter: https://twitter.com/donsanddivas

* Follow Wendy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donsanddivas/

* Follow Wendy’s business on Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/wtbehary/

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A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca

A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-divorce-podcast-with-andrea-vacca/id1676641631

Subscribe to A Better Divorce Podcast with Andrea Vacca Video Series on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChIbG7DkEZwKRiuy_ci4OuA

Connect with Andrea Vacca:

* Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com

* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/

* Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq

* Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw

* Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/