A Fine Time for Healing

Free Advice Friday

As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues. The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE! The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801. This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous. All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me. Please send your emails to [email protected] with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

Countless people grapple with persistent, perplexing, self-sabotaging patterns, from compulsions to commitment issues to irrational fears and prejudices. Countless people have remarkable "natural-born" talents, uncanny flashes of perception, and mysterious memories of distant places and times.

In her work as a therapist, today's special guest Ann C. Barham specializes in delving into a common source for confounding problem behaviors, incredible gifts, and an intimate sense of events that happened decaded, centuries, or even millennia ago: past life experiences.

In her book, The Past Life Perspective: Discovering Your True Nature Across Multiple Lifetimes, Ann demystifies the practice and power of past life regression therapy. An internationally certified regression therapist, the author has dedicated nearly twenty years to a professional discipline increasingly recognized for its potential to help clients work through troubling issues and overcome haunting demons. By opening the files of her most fascinating and insightful therapy sessions, Barham opens a window into how traumatic and pivotal experiences from past lives seldom stay in the past but continue to affect our perspectives, temperament, relationship, and even physical body.

Through dozens of actual client stories, Ann Barham reveals how accessing, analyzing, and acting on past lives has helped diverse men and women overcome all kinds of baffling, continual challenges.

Ann C, Barham, MA, LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist with an international certification as a regression therapist. She lives and practices in California.

The title of today's special guest, Layne Dalfen's new two-book set-Have a Great Dream-is telling. That is because renowned Dream Analyst Dalfen believes all dreams are great-even nightmares! That is because they hold the key to solving the problems and challenges that are currently plaguing you and to become who you were intended to be.

With a 45-year deep background in dream study on the works of Freud, Jung, Perls and Adler, Dalfen shows the process that enables you to understand what your subconscious is trying to reveal to you while you sleep, how that applies directly to some issue that is stressing you, and then the way to use the information presented therein to find the solution. It's right there-just waiting to be unpacked. But your dreams can do much more than that!

Oftentimes, you are stuck in a situation because you are continuing to react based on the beliefs and habits that were instilled in you from childhood. Lifelong patterns are your default behavior. This is often your "shadow" side holding back out of fear. But your dreams show you new possibilities-new ways to respond-that would never have occurred to you under the old paradigm, opening you up to your full creative expression--unlimited by past repetitive constructs.

Dalfen doesn't subscribe to the idea that certain types of dreams mean the same thing to everyone. "The associations our unconscious develops are as unique to each person as their fingerprint, "she says.

Layne Dalfen came to her work after entering Freudian psychoanalysis for depression resulting from giving birth to a daughter suffering from Down Syndrome and subsequently being advised to give her up into the care of others. She continues to be an active member at the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD).

Is your mind residing in The Past Room, where regrets, past hurts, painful memories, grudges or other memories are impacting you today? Or perhaps you are hanging out in The Future Room where worry, anxiety or fear haunt you daily?

Today's special guest, Kevin Murphy, has a powerful new book, called The Three Rooms: Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life  that actually shows you a roadmap to The Present Room, the one where all of that fades away and you can fully blossom into your highest potential, greatest success and a love-filled life.

While Eckhart Tolle and others have extolled the value of living in the present moment, many people have found that philosophy a challenge to implement. But the genius of Murphy’s new book is how easy and simple he makes it to realize when you are NOT—and how you can shift back into The Present Room. The premise behind The Three Rooms is simple, but profound. It explains that our experience of life is not based on what we have or what we do, but rather, it is based on what we think, and our thoughts can only be in one of three places: the past (Past Room), the future (Future Room), or the present (Present Room), and whichever room your thoughts are in determines your experience of life in that moment. Kevin explains how observing which room your thoughts are in, can change your experience of life.

The Three Rooms invites you to start the process of better monitoring your thoughts—while providing you the keys to transform your life by doing so. As Kevin notes, those thoughts merely affect our health, our wealth and our relationships.

Kevin Murphy, a former Wall Street managing director, high school and collegiate wrestling champion, community activist, speaker, coach stepped away from the corporate world to write  The Three Rooms.

Are you willing to take risks and support yourself and your family like never before?

Today's special guest, renowned speaker, life coach, and author Hayley Hobson offers you the way to do this in her book Get It Done. Moving away from mainstream mediocrity to live an exciting and fulfilling life sounds like an amazing promise, and this book will help motivate you to make it come true. In Get It Done,

Hayley Hobson teaches you the secret that lies between a holistic heart and passion with an attitude. Each chapter points out areas of life that can be chaotic, and then gives you the secret to overcoming the noise. Hobson shares personal fixes you can apply immediately as you go from madness to mindfulness. From time management and organization to prioritizing and task management, Hayley illustrates specific scenarios and personal life stories that detail what things look like when they are out of balance and then follows up with plans ready for you to implement.

Hayley's journey started with knowing there was something more for her in her life. It started on the cusp of intention. She teaches that by consciously monitoring our thoughts, we are in control of the results we are looking for in our personal or business lives.

Hayley Hobson is an internationally known author and inspirational speaker. As a life coach, she passionately empowers others to create lifestyle transformations by supporting them in becoming the best possible WHOLE versions of themselves.Hayley teaches that by consciously monitoring our thoughts, we are in control of the results we are looking for in our personal or business lives.

Free Advice Friday

As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues. The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE! The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801. This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous. All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me. Please send your emails to [email protected] with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

Whether you realize it or not, most of modern society’s thinking is based upon a philosophy known as “materialism”—the notion that physical material, known as “matter,” is fundamental in the universe. In other words, it’s the basis of all reality. Everything is comprised of matter, and everything can be reduced to matter.

Today's special guest, Princeton magna cum laude grad Mark Gober's book, An End to Upside Down Thinking:Dispelling the Myth That the Brain Produces Consciousness, and the Implications for Everyday Lifemarshals the clear evidence and makes the case that consciousness is the force that precedes matter—and upends the scientific and popular belief that the brain (matter) creates consciousness. Science dismisses any evidence to its contrary position—a position it can’t prove—relegating the “matter-produces-consciousness” argument to nothing more than unfounded belief and faith—just another a form of religion, Gober argues.

Gober has built a nearly unassailable case. Most of all he calls for more research to get to the truth of our consciousness-driven existence unbiased by traditional scientific skepticism.

Mark Gober's worldview was turned upside down in late 2016 when he was exposed to world-changing science. After researching extensively, he now introduces the general public to these cutting-edge ideas in an effort to encourage a much-needed global shift in scientific and existential thinking. Mark is a senior member of Sherpa Technology Group. He previously worked as an investment banking analyst in New York. Mark has been quoted for his opinions on business and technology matters in Bloomberg Businessweek and elsewhere, and he has authored internationally published business articles.

Free Advice Friday

As a survivor of Narcissistic abuse myself I know how frustrating, helpless, and confusing this disorder can be to deal with. As an experienced counselor I know that issues dealing with this problem are always arising. I am fully aware that many of you cannot afford the out of pocket expense of paying for counseling, but do have important questions you would like answered. I can and want to help all of you work through these sensitive issues. The second Friday of every month my internet radio show, A Fine Time for Healing, will be entirely devoted to taking to your calls and answering your questions about NPD. The advice is FREE! The show airs at 11 a.m. EST and runs for 45 minutes. The number you will call to connect with the show and speak to me is 424-220-1801. This time will not be a convenient one for everyone so there is another way for you to get your questions answered. Just email me ahead of time and I will read your questions on air and answer them. I assure you that your identity will be kept anonymous. All shows will be recorded and archived after broadcasting. They can be listened to at your convenience by clicking on the link I will provide you when you email me. Please send your emails to [email protected] with “Radio Show Question” in the subject heading.

Feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and like there isn't enough time or energy to get everything done? Today's special guest Dr. Tamsin Astor, the author of the book Force of Habit: Unleash Your Power Through Healthy Habits.teaches how to create a life of joy and freedom by making connections in your daily habits, thereby reducing your decisions.

Dr. Astor utilizes a broad array of both Eastern and Western skills from her extensive training. She blends her scientific background and awareness with her Yoga, Ayurveda, Meditation & Coaching training to give a unique approach to mastering your daily habits and gaining control over your day. Using tools from Health and Executive Coaching, Dr. Astor provides a plan to help you navigate from a multi-tasking, low energy, time-deprived existence to one of abundance, nourishment and fun! You will learn about:the “Shoulds” and why they don't serve you;what stress is secretly doing to you; a new way of thinking about everyday habits and how you need to change them; and how to think about your relationship with yourself – are you falling into learned helplessness.

Tamsin Astor, PhD helps busy professionals organize themselves so they have time for what they need and want – and time for fun. She is your Chief Habit Scientist, wrangling your habits around sleep, exercise and eating through a lens of mindfulness and relationship management.

Honored guest, Laura Lee, popular professional and "radio-medium" is back on the show by popular demand. 

Laura will be taking your calls and giving free readings. Please call 424-220-1801 to speak live with Laura. Laura Lee has the incredible gift of being able to access the link between the physical and spiritual worlds. She can see, feel, hear, and know what the other side needs to communicate with the living. Laura Lee, popular, loved and enjoyed by many listeners every time she comes on the show, has partnered with Randi Fine, the host of A Fine Time For Healing, to be a monthly guest.

Save the date and call in early for a chance to speak with Laura. For more information about Laura Lee, please visit her website http://www.MediumLauraLee.com