Oh, my dear friend, there is no need to have a guessing game as to the way forward. I am hearing so many reports especially from young people: 
Must we start a new business?
 Do we start homeschooling our children?
 Do we sell or do we buy?
 Do I marry that person or do I not marry that person?
 Do I vote for this political party or do I vote for that one?
 Do I join that church or do I leave this church?