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Every marriage experiences annoyance, but understanding and communication are key to overcoming these challenges. This episode addresses the importance of perspective, encourages treating your spouse with grace, and emphasizes the necessity of friendship in strengthening the marital bond. 

• Discussing normalcy of marital conflicts 
• Exploring why spouses irritate each other 
• Importance of open communication 
• Power of choice in reactions 
• Strategies for self-care and personal reflection 
• Encouragement to treat spouse as best friend 
• Practical tips for maintaining harmony 
• Significance of grace and understanding in marriage 

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This podcast episode encourages married couples to embrace the beauty of sexual intimacy while confronting cultural taboos surrounding the topic. Ken and Tabitha share personal insights and experiences, introduce the concept of a Seven-Day Sex Challenge, and provide actionable steps to increase communication and pleasure in marriage.

• Importance of normalizing discussions about sex and intimacy 
• Godly purposes of sex: procreation, intimacy, and enjoyment 
• Overview of the Seven-Day Sex Challenge for couples 
• Addressing sexual health issues and personal insecurities 
• Encouragement to create regular space for open communication 
• Tips for sustaining intimacy beyond the challenge 
• Call to action for listeners to share their experiences and feedback

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In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of Grace to Self—a powerful mindset shift that encourages us to show ourselves the same love, kindness, and forgiveness we extend to others. 💛

So many of us struggle with self-criticism, negative self-talk, and the pressure to be perfect. But what if we learned to give ourselves grace instead? In this conversation, we share personal experiences, explore the connection between thoughts and physical health, and offer practical steps to help you break free from self-condemnation.

✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ What Grace to Self really means
✔️ How self-talk impacts your health and well-being
✔️ The difference between self-condemnation and self-grace
✔️ Steps to extend grace and forgiveness to yourself
✔️ Why embracing joy and delight is essential
✔️ How to let go of perfectionism while still growing

If you’ve ever felt like you’re your own worst critic, this episode is for you! It’s time to treat yourself as a friend and embrace the healing power of grace. ❤️

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#GraceToSelf #SelfLove #MindsetShift #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #Forgiveness #Grace #SelfCompassion #OvercomingPerfectionism #FaithAndMentalHealth

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The episode focuses on mastering your morning to unlock a fruitful and spiritually empowered day. With practical insights and biblical wisdom, we discuss five keys: planning for the next day, obtaining quality sleep, prioritizing God, engaging in exercise, and meal prepping, all aimed at eliminating excuses and setting a purposeful tone for daily life. 
• Preparing the night before for a smoother morning 
• Understanding the importance of quality sleep 
• Prioritizing God through dedicated morning time 
• Incorporating exercise into your morning routine 
• Meal prepping to fuel your body for the day ahead

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The episode explores the profound effects of relationships on spiritual growth, emphasizing the need for discernment in choosing one's company. We discuss boundary-setting, the challenges posed by misunderstandings, and the call to prioritize spiritual families over blood ties. 
• The impact of friends on decisions and behavior 
• The duality of positive and negative influences 
• Discernment in new relationships after conversion 
• Misunderstandings from friends and family 
• Emphasis on spiritual families 
• The importance of setting healthy boundaries 
• Prioritizing God’s approval over others’ opinions

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What if your relationship with God could transform not just your spiritual life, but every aspect of your existence? We're Ken and Tabitha, and today we're offering you an insightful journey into deepening that divine connection. Just like sporadic workouts can't give you a six-pack, attending church occasionally won't build a robust spiritual foundation. Tune in as we promise to equip you with tools for daily spiritual engagement, using our 60-day devotional, "Living at a Nine," as your guide to grow closer to Jesus. Our 25-year marriage is a testament to how a strong bond with God enhances every relationship, and we're here to share those insights with you.

Reviving intimacy with God is not just a resolution for the new year; it’s a profound transformation waiting to happen. Inspired by Matthew 6:33, we discuss the critical importance of prioritizing God's kingdom and how this focus can elevate every other aspect of your life. Whether you're facing depression, illness, or life's inevitable challenges, these moments can be fertile ground for spiritual renewal. By engaging with a supportive church community and maintaining a personal connection with God, you'll discover the strength to navigate life's toughest trials. Let our personal stories be a beacon of hope that even when God feels distant, those challenging times can be when He is closest.

Listen on: Apple Podcasts   Spotify

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A strong marriage thrives on creating spaces that nurture both partners. This episode discusses practical ways to make room for husbands in the home, emphasizing collaboration and mutual respect in household rules, the importance of personal downtime, and actions that make them feel honored. 

• Discussing the balance of rules and personal freedom in the home 
• The importance of mutual buy-in for household decisions 
• Encouraging husbands to engage with the podcast 
• Setting up welcoming environments within the home 
• Honoring the need for personal space and quiet time 
• Practical tips on building relaxation time into daily life 
• Celebrating your husband with thoughtful gestures 

Make sure to subscribe for more actionable insights that can help you in your marriage journey!

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Discover the profound spiritual rewards that come from fasting and prayer as we embark on a 21-day journey to start the new year with renewed faith and purpose. Through heartfelt personal stories from our own marriage, we reveal how fasting has helped us prioritize God's will, break strongholds, and enhance our spiritual intimacy. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like Esther and Daniel, this episode will guide you toward preparing for a fast, setting meaningful parameters, and ultimately, ending your fast in a way that nurtures both body and soul.

We delve into the dual dimensions of fasting—spiritual and physical—highlighting its power to discipline the flesh and heighten spiritual sensitivity. By examining scripture from Romans and Galatians, we explore how fasting can clear barriers to divine connection. Alongside spiritual insights, we discuss the natural benefits of fasting, such as detoxification and healing, illustrating the divine design of our bodies for renewal. Our conversations touch on different fasting types, offering practical tips and real-life anecdotes to inspire your fasting practice.

As we explore various methods like the Daniel fast and six-to-six fasting, we also discuss the importance of selecting a fast that aligns with your personal challenges and spiritual goals. Learn the art of breaking a fast wisely, and consider how fasting can be integrated into your lifestyle for lasting growth. To top it off, we invite you to join an unforgettable experience in Orlando, where a transformative encounter and equipping conference awaits to potentially alter the next 30 years of your life. Secure your spot and prepare for a life-changing journey with us.

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We’re taking a much-needed break to focus on family and faith, but we promise to return in January with fresh content that aims to enrich your life. We believe 2025 is a year of growth, and we want to make it inclusive by inviting you to share your thoughts and questions with us. Your involvement is key to helping us create content that genuinely resonates and inspires.

Moreover, we're thrilled to share our church's cherished tradition—Super Sunday, a celebration focused on giving as the year winds down. For 24 years, this has been a way for us to offer something meaningful to God and now we’re extending this tradition to our online family. We're encouraging you to join us in this beautiful act of generosity and faith. As we stand in love and faith, let's remember the joy that comes from giving and how it can multiply blessings not only in our lives but in the lives of others. 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from our family to yours, and we can’t wait to see what the new year brings!

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Ever wonder how unwrapping gifts can spark a lively debate during Christmas morning festivities? Join us, as we recount our personal tales and unique traditions that make Christmas an extraordinary time every year. From the peace that Christmas offered Tabatha during a turbulent childhood, to Ken's family's amusing tradition of not wrapping gifts, we explore how these experiences shape our holiday spirit. We promise you'll walk away with a renewed appreciation for how diverse and meaningful holiday customs can be.

Our conversation isn't just about the past; we delve into the profound significance of Christmas as a celebration of Jesus's birth, adding layers of meaning to cherished family gatherings and festive feasts. From homemade sausage gravy and biscuits to the essential Christmas sugar cookies, we share the flavors and aromas that make our holiday tables unforgettable.

The holiday magic doesn't stop there. We invite you to experience the warmth and joy of our family traditions, from classic Christmas movies and candlelight services to the playful innocence of Santa Claus stories. 

Merry Christmas!! We love you all and appreciate your support. 

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