Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

The Art of Dating: Five Essential Do's and Don'ts


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Struggling with dating in today's confusing landscape? Ken and Tabatha draw from their marriage to deliver straight-talking wisdom about what actually works in relationships. 

"You got to be friends first," Ken emphasizes, highlighting how many couples rush into relationships without genuinely liking each other. This foundation of friendship—actually enjoying each other's company—creates the energy that sustains love through challenging seasons.

The hosts don't shy away from addressing physical attraction, timing important conversations, and maintaining standards while dating. "Know your worth and don't give discounts," becomes their rallying cry against settling for less than you deserve.

Their practical advice extends to relationship red flags too—like being "pressed" or desperate, looking for someone to complete you, giving too much too fast, playing house before marriage, and putting yourself in compromising positions. Each point is illustrated with relatable stories and insights from their ministry experience.

Most powerfully, they address the spiritual foundation necessary for lasting relationships. "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers," they caution, explaining how mismatched spiritual values can create lifelong challenges that even the most devoted partner can't overcome.

Whether you're navigating the early stages of dating or preparing for marriage, this episode provides a blueprint for building relationships that stand the test of time. Ready to transform your approach to dating? This conversation might just change how you view relationships forever.

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