11:45 and 12:35 were slip ups, I meant to say anxious needs the experience of being contained and having that super close closeness and misspoke again later. If you followed the first part you would of caught that, but it makes it confusing so I do apologize.
This video was created for you to be able to identify your own attachment style, understand how it is that you developed this style, as a coping strategy in childhood, and what your healing relationship and experience will be as an adult. There are 5 main types of attachment styles: Secure, Anxious-Preoccupied, Dismissive-Avoidant, Fearful-Avoidant, and Disorganized Attachment. In this video I describe the Anxious-Preoccupied and Avoidant relationship dynamic that can become an extremely addictive relationship pattern. I also explain how intermittent reinforcement ties into this addictive pattern and relationship pairing. I also explain disorganized attachment and how to heal all three of these attachment styles. For the sake of simplifying this information I do not distinguish the difference between Dismissive and Fearful-Avoidant attachment styles, because in both cases the partner is avoidant. Attachment styles are a learned behavior and can be unlearned. It is about having the healing relationships that will give you the opposite experience of what it was that caused your trauma in the first place. That will be different depending upon your attachment style.
Recorded: November 22nd, 2018
Rowan Garlow is a private practice trauma recovery practitioner. She sees clients 1:1 and in group settings for masterclasses and workshops. Click the website link below to see previous class recordings, meditations and explore options for 1:1 support.
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Rowan Garlow assists with recovering from symptoms of biological, psychological, emotional and spiritual disharmony caused by trauma and PTSD/CPTSD. She is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Voice Dialogue Facilitator (Parts Work) and Certified Completion Process Practitioner. Her focus in on trauma recovery and thriving after trauma, nervous system regulation and embodiment, re-parenting, healthy individuation and healing developmental trauma, developing healthy relationship with self and others, safety and authenticity, integration of the mind, body and spirit, creative expression, spiritual development and initiation, alchemy - transformation and energetic death and rebirth, mysticism, psychic self defense & education and assisting others in uncovering and embodying their original blueprint and essence.
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