Real compassion breaks down the barriers that divide us. It's not just about doing nice things, it's about creating a safety net of care. True compassion blurs the lines between "me" and "you." It's about understanding that we're all connected and that looking out for each other is what really matters.

Today, I welcome Alok Vaid-Menon, a writer, performer, and advocate known for their activism in the LGBTQ+ community. They're recognized for their insightful discussions on gender, identity, and social justice. Alok's work often challenges societal norms and perceptions, aiming to promote acceptance and equality for all genders. Their powerful storytelling and performances resonate with audiences worldwide, sparking important conversations about inclusivity and self-expression.

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Alok and I talked about how they were able to live authentically and how they found confidence through writing. We also explore finding beauty in the little things and how we connect in this digital world. Alok shares insights on dealing with hate using compassion and where all that hate might actually come from.

Make sure to sit back and relax as you listen to this insightful and inspiring conversation with Alok! 

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:29 Living authentically
• 02:15 Finding confidence through writing
• 06:17 Growing up different in Texas
• 08:24 Cultural influence on parenting
• 14:20 Appreciating parent’s sacrfices
• 16:34 The beauty in the mundane
• 20:24 Connection and community in a digital age
• 24:35 Handling hate with compassion
• 29:44 Where does hate come from?
• 33:33 What is true compassion?
• 39:38 Embracing every emotion in our growth
• 48:27 The intersection of religion, spirituality, and gender
• 52:19 Balancing masculine and feminine energies
• 55:52 Living your truth
• 58:12  Love across religious divides
• 1:01:14 The last time Alok had a good cry
• 1:04:12 What kind of crier is Alok?

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Ever heard of the saying, “Listen to your gut?”

Your gut health plays a pivotal role in your overall well-being, influencing everything from digestion and nutrient absorption to immune function and even mood regulation.

It's like a second brain residing in your abdomen, communicating with your body in ways we're only beginning to understand.

Today, let's dive deep into simple yet effective ways to maintain a healthy gut. We'll cover practical tips for improving digestion and highlight common foods that can naturally enhance your gut health. We'll also touch on recognizable signs that might indicate if you're experiencing any gut-related issues.

By following these tips and incorporating digestion-friendly foods into your diet, you're taking a positive step towards a healthier gut and a happier version of yourself.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Everything is linked to our gut
• 01:07 What is gut health?
• 02:01 Signs of gut issues
• 05:56 Your body cleanses your insides at night
• 07:22 Tip #1: Control your sugar intake
• 13:54 Tip #2: Eat the rainbow - have a variety of natural foods in different colors
• 21:38 Tip #3: Stop drinking cold water
• 25:10 Tip #4: Incorporate spice in your food
• 29:10 Tip #5: Avoid eating raw foods
• 32:13 We have a responsibility to look after our health

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30, flirty, and single??

Today, Radhi welcomes two of her amazing best friends to A Really Good Cry, Francia Raisa and Deepica Mutyala! 

In this episode they openly discuss the joys and challenges of their friendship, highlighting the importance of genuine connections and the power of sisterhood. Francia and Deepica also share their personal journeys of defying these expectations and finding happiness in their own paths, proving that life doesn't always follow society's timelines.

Tune in to this captivating episode and witness the magic that happens when authentic friendships and personal transformations come together.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 04:18 Being single-shamed
• 11:08 Choosing not to have kids
• 13:08 It’s okay to change your mind
• 14:14 Growing on your own first
• 18:09 Changing the social norms 
• 20:38 Trusting yourself first, gain confidence after
• 22:51 Handling negative comments
• 24:40 Embracing every season of your life
• 29:40 “Don’t set yourself up for failure…”
• 33:12 Having a community and surrounding yourself with good people
• 40:22 Fear of doing something first
• 41:17 Masculine and feminine qualities in relationships
• 45:27 Definition of man and masculinity in dating
• 49:07 Financial responsibility in relationships
• 51:33 Be okay with your partner’s vulnerability
• 54:04 What makes a woman?
• 1:00:05 Qualities of a good friend
• 1:12:27 Check up on all your friends
• 1:14:44 How to handle unrequested opinions
• 1:20:18 Gossiping in relationships
• 1:27:12 Things to work on to become a better friend
• 1:34:03 Communicate with your friends better
• 1:39:53 Be open to new friendships
• 1:48:36 What type of crier are you?

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Have you always been feeling tired recently? 

Feeling tired is something we all deal with—it's like running on empty, trying to keep up with everything on our plates.

But what if there are simple ways to avoid that drained feeling without making things overly complicated? In this episode, we're diving into eight easy tricks to sidestep that overwhelming tiredness.

From small adjustments in your routine to proven strategies, we'll uncover these simple yet effective ways to shake off that tiredness. No need for complex routines—just straightforward steps to get back your spark and enthusiasm.

Here are the 8 ways you could do to avoid feeling tired:

• Get a full-body check-up
• Understand your hormones and cycles
• Take care of your gut
• Make sure to get enough sleep and rest
• Start exercising
• Connect with other people
• Avoid relying on sugar and coffee
• Do meditation and breathing exercises

Join us as we explore these eight practical techniques, helping you bid farewell to feeling worn out and greet each day feeling energized!

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:26 Your body is asking for a break
• 04:45 Get a full-body check-up
• 06:45 What are the vitamins that you need?
• 13:37 The two main minerals 
• 17:58 Effects of processed foods on our body
• 18:38 Hormones and cycles
• 24:40 Take care of your gut
• 28:45 How to solve your gut issues
• 31:29 Sleep and rest
• 35:22 Get moving and start exercising
• 37:23 Connect with other people
• 39:07 Sugar and coffee won’t give you energy
• 41:40 Meditation and breath work
• 43:01 Why you need to stay hydrated
• 44:09 Energy vampires and leaks

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You've heard the saying, 'You are what you eat.' But how true is that really?

On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry,  I had the pleasure of speaking with Jessie Inchauspé, a biochemist and author widely known as the Glucose Goddess. She's revolutionized how we think about diet, glucose, and overall wellness.

In this episode, Jessie dives into the science of glucose management and its profound impact on our daily lives. She shares her own story of figuring out how to feel better by changing what she eats.

Don't miss this episode with Jessie as she talks about her easy hacks for managing glucose, discusses the misleading world of food labels, and the personal breakthroughs that have made her a champion of change in nutritional science.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:06 Jessie’s backstory
• 04:11 You are what you eat
• 05:27 What is glucose?
• 08:19 When should you get your glucose levels checked?
• 13:35 Sugar is addicting
• 15:09 The correct order of eating your foods
• 20:34 Dress your carbs
• 22:10 Exercise after your meal
• 24:36 Why you should add vinegar to your foods
• 27:26 Have a savory breakfast
• 31:06 Find the right diet for you
• 35:50 Do you want to start wearing a glucose monitor?
• 36:45 Symptoms are messages from your body
• 38:10 Food labels red flags
• 41:54 The role of diet in fertility
• 51:11 Sugar and dementia
• 53:28 Can sugar make you depressed?
• 56:36 Fast round with Jessie

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Breathe in positivity, exhale negativity. 

Ever caught yourself looking in the mirror and just feeling, well, not great about what you see? We all have those moments, and they can lead to us being super hard on ourselves.

When we see a distorted image of ourselves, especially about our body and how we look, we tend to become self-critical and resort to negative self-talk. 

Today, we are going to focus on breaking out of that kind of mindset and focusing on giving ourselves so much love. Let's talk about how to get out of this distorted mindset and focus more on self-appreciation. We start by discovering three things we truly love about ourselves and how to be in a space where societal expectations and opinions no longer hold sway over your authenticity.

There is a profound impact in changing the way we talk to ourselves. Positive self-talk isn't just about words; it's about nurturing inner dialogue that ignites joy and self-compassion. 

But it doesn't end with self-love. Compliments are more than words; they're a gift of affirmation that uplifts not just the recipient, but also the giver.

Let's celebrate the magic of being unapologetically ourselves and embrace the beauty we hold within us.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Surprise energy work with a stranger
• 02:20 The 3 things you love about yourself
• 07:50 It’s so freeing to not just care
• 10:57 Change how you talk to yourself
• 12:59 Appreciate your body
• 15:09 Compliment other people
• 18:04 Negative relationship with the concept of being skinny
• 18:42 Take social media breaks
• 20:02 The truth about comparison
• 24:40 The clothes for when I…
• 26:16 You are the soul and not the body

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Remember the feeling of excitement as a child when you spotted someone who looked like you on TV? That rush of validation and connection is at the heart of why representation matters. 

On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I had the pleasure of speaking with Tan France, a prominent fashion designer, television personality, and author. He’s best known for his chic style and groundbreaking role as a fashion expert on the Emmy-winning series, "Queer Eye." 

In this episode, Tan delves into how his unique background has shaped his perspective on fashion and identity, and he shares his journey of overcoming cultural barriers to become a voice of change in the fashion industry.

Don't miss this episode with Tan France, as he opens up about his life challenges, cultural influences, and the personal evolution that has shaped him.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:42 From pain to purpose
• 03:38 Moving out of the UK
• 09:56 Finding freedom in love
• 14:15 Relationship between race and self-acceptance
• 20:03 The burden of minority representation
• 24:55 Fame and responsibility
• 28:07 Embracing the duality and maintaining happiness
• 32:56 What determines a real friendship?
• 41:26 Is Tan a member of the Illuminati?
• 44:34 Building confidence and overcoming imposter syndrome
• 51:59 Wanting to walk away from fame
• 58:11 Maintaining positivity online
• 1:01:55 Practicing gratitude
• 1:04:37 Dealing with rudeness
• 1:06:23 Rapid fire questions with Tan
• 1:13:41 What type of crier is Tan France?

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When was the last time you cried?

For some, crying can be seen as a sign of weakness or vulnerability. Society often teaches us that showing our feelings, especially by crying, should be avoided or suppressed, especially in certain situations or if we want to appear strong.

But it's crucial to understand that crying is a natural and healthy way to release bottled-up emotions and stress. It's a physical response that helps us deal with different situations and emotions. Trying to hold back tears can negatively affect our mental and emotional well-being, possibly making us more stressed, anxious, or even physically unwell.

Today, let's talk about the positive effects of crying and releasing our emotions. Crying is not a sign of weakness, but rather an essential aspect of being human. It provides an avenue for emotional release, stress relief, enhanced mood, mental clarity, and deeper connections with others.

So, the next time you feel like shedding a tear, don't hold back. It's perfectly okay and can be quite beneficial for your overall well-being.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:39 Story behind ‘A Really Good Cry’
• 03:34 Crying and emotional release
• 05:32 Embracing and processing emotions
• 07:54 Emotions are signs from our body
• 10:20 Recognizing and understanding your emotions
• 14:02 Why do we suppress emotions?
• 18:01 Signs and symptoms of trapped emotions
• 22:19 Where do you carry your emotions?
• 24:56 “Learn how to see people in the gray and live in the gray…”
• 29:15 Other types of emotional release
• 34:00 Be equanimous
• 36:36 Different kinds of criers

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In a world where everyone keeps telling us who we should be, finding the courage to love ourselves authentically can be a breakthrough.

Today, I had the great opportunity to speak with Tia Mowry, an actress, producer, author, and television personality, best known for her role on the sitcom "Sister, Sister," which she starred in alongside her identical twin sister, Tamera Mowry. 

Discover how Tia, known for her vibrant energy and magnetic personality, sets out on a path of self-discovery and healing From the highs of fame to the challenges of personal growth, Tia shares her candid experiences with learning to prioritize self-care, embraces her inner strength, and find joy in the solitude of her own company.

Tia's story is a powerful testament to the importance of self-love in a world that often pushes us toward external validation. Whether it's through meditation, journaling, or simply taking a moment to acknowledge her accomplishments, Tia's journey is a reminder that self-love isn't just about self-care rituals; it's about creating a life where you are the source of your happiness and fulfillment.

So, tune in to be inspired by Tia's journey and learn how to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love in your own life. It's a conversation that promises to uplift, inspire, and empower you to embrace the beauty of being your own best friend.

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 00:58 Learning to choose yourself
• 03:03 Positive affirmations and being present
• 06:12 Finding courage in the unknown
• 10:47 Being comfortable in an unhappy place
• 15:16 Going to therapy
• 20:34 Letting go of your past self
• 24:09 Breaking free from approval
• 30:45 Coming back home to yourself
• 35:09 Nurturing spiritual curiosity in children
• 40:17 Taking responsibility for your life
• 46:18 Building confidence 
• 49:53 Overcoming negative self-talk
• 55:37 Going on a solo trip for the first time
• 1:01:50 Being okay with change
• 1:05:17 Tia’s go-to self-care products
• 1:07:57 Dealing with anxiety and anger
• 1:09:10 What type of crier are you?

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A Really Good Cry with Radhi won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. A space to feel it all: laugh, cry and everything in between. As you go through the seasons of life, the emotions, the uncomfortable, the good stuff and even on those days you ‘just don't want to’, these conversations will have something for you. Whether it's vulnerable moments with friends, discussions with experts, or the wisdom, research and experiences that Radhi learns herself and shares with you; this podcast will be the bridge between you and the person you’re becoming. 

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