Join Nikki this week for an extremely powerful solo episode that will help you understand why you keep yourself stuck, even if what you’re currently doing makes you unhappy!
This is a topic that affects everyone as we all go through times in our lives that change is a necessary thing. Yet, we keep ourselves in toxic and unhealthy relationships, in jobs we hate, engaging in self-sabotaging behaviors, and even addicted to negative self-talk about ourselves.
The question is: why do we continue to engage in unhealthy relationships, behaviors, and thoughts when we know we shouldn’t be? Why can’t we make change even when we hate the current things we’re doing in life?
You will learn about the Familiar Hell, which is associated with what feels safe and comfortable, versus the Unfamiliar Heaven, or uncertainty, which the brain does not like. Nikki provides detailed examples of each, how your nervous system is interconnected with your brain that seeks control, and how these keep you in a state of feeling stuck, or not making the changes you know you should.
Nikki shares examples that you’ll resonate with in your life, helping to give you clarity on why you haven’t been able to see results you desperately want. This is a fascinating topic based on neuroscience and psychology.
Listen and learn:
- The difference between the Familiar Hell and Unfamiliar Heaven
- Why change is so hard, even though you know what to do
- How the brain is hardwired for certainty and control, which can lead to addictive thoughts and behaviors
- Why the Unfamiliar Heaven is scary to step into, no matter how much you want it
- Steps to take in order to escape your own “hell” and enter a peaceful “heaven” (aka, the results you want in life)
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