A Sip and A Shot

SHOOTER ALERT: Raise your hand if you like massages? Good massages… not the 15 min for $15 massages you can get at the mall, but the spa ones that take relaxation to another level. Now, couple that with the hidden benefit of improving your self-confidence – sounds like a win-win! In conversing with some male friends, we discussed a professional massage therapist they discovered on IG and how his ‘sensual’ massages can be……. Crossing a line. Now VJ, vehemently disagreed while Jame could see where they were coming from. It made us asks some questions: How thick is the line between intimacy and professional massages, at what point is this massage pushing the boundaries on professionalism, and What’s the decision on sensual massages and relationships (is it disrespectful)? Does the end outweigh the means? Tell us what you think! Cheers!

The Sip: Hot Peach Fuzz & The Shot: Peach Death

SHOOTER ALERT: Raise your hand if you like massages? Good massages… not the 15 min for $15 massages you can get at the mall, but the spa ones that take relaxation to another level. Now, couple that with the hidden benefit of improving your self-confidence – sounds like a win-win! In conversing with some male friends, we discussed a professional massage therapist they discovered on IG and how his ‘sensual’ massages can be……. Crossing a line. Now VJ, vehemently disagreed while Jame could see where they were coming from. It made us asks some questions: How thick is the line between intimacy and professional massages, at what point is this massage pushing the boundaries on professionalism, and What’s the decision on sensual massages and relationships (is it disrespectful)? Does the end outweigh the means? Tell us what you think! Cheers!

Oxford Dictionary defines a 'red flag' as a symbol or actual flag used as a warning of danger... little things that need to be noticed because they can turn into big things. These last couple of weeks, we have seen so many posts regarding red flags, whether it's within a romantic relationship, professional relationship, familial relationships, friendship, and/or personal growth for self. Now we had to discuss some of them to see: A. if it was a true red flag B. if folks were being sensitive and C. if we have been the cause of a few flags. Some of them were funny, some of them were true, and some were red flags if someone thought this way ie: "she's a foodie" no you're just cheap LOL. We did give our personal ones - one dealing with mamas and the other dealing with professional athletes ... well former ones LOL. Tell us what red flags you have! Cheers!

The Sip: Full Moontini & The Shot: Phoenix

SHOOTER ALERT: There's one question we never thought we would contemplate when it coming to bringing a new life into the world! That question is: Is the woman birthing the baby a requirement at a baby shower? This week we saw a Facebook post of a motherless baby shower. The fathers mother, or soon-to-be-grandmother, hosted a baby shower only for her son...sans the mother. One of us chose a narrative that would understand why the future mom wasn't invited while the other didn't agree one way or the other ... it will surprise you the sides that were chosen lol. The fact that there was a baby shower for that dad only led us to think about the show about mamas boys and their moms and how ... INSANE both of them can be LOL. Like purposefully not inviting the mother of your future grandchild to a baby shower. Let us know your thoughts! Cheers!

The was a rendition of a social media week because we found some wild stories on Beyoncé’s internet this week! Between some interesting AITA, IRL, WWYD stories, and some IRL spooky stories - it was kinda fun lol! Jame found haunted stories that happened right in our backyard. Like insane asylum and the Goatman story that happened around the corner … so we thought! VJ found some Reddit stories like can you be mad at a dog dad or can you swat an unknown child for trying to eat off your plate? Like we said, this was a wild ride lol! Please tell us who’s right ! Cheers!

The Sip:Posion Apple and The Shot:Vampires Kiss

SHOOTER ALERT: Some ladies have a love-love, some have a love-hate, but VJ has a HATE-HATE with the gaming systems. This week we dive a bit into why she does and Jame tries to convince her "maybe they're not that bad." Jame gives the 'stress reliever,' 'better than in the streets' reasoning to no avail - VJ still ain't having it, she didn't want to be logic's friend this week lol. Tell us whose side are you on: VJs or James? Cheers!

"Please Stop” “Bish Whet” & “Truuueee” are some of the reactions we have while on social media. See what got those reactions this time!

This week we kicked off our Spooky Season with a good balance of all 3 categories! We started out with Cardi B - she killed Fashion Week and we had to talk about the encouragement she was giving while slaying! Being petty is an art form but one situation had us saying “Bish Whet?!” You know men and their hairlines are nothing to mess with! But we did give you some other options that include Mashed Potatoes and fire lol. VJ realized she too can play into double standards with finances but Jame helped her with a "Please Stop" and "Truuuee" all wrapped into one. Let us know your thoughts! Cheers!

The Sip: Black Widow & The Shot: Bite of the Iguana

SHOOTER ALERT: we’re testing home training this week! If you brought a bottle to a function/kickback/get-together, and it was never opened, are you taking it back with you or leaving it there? Now, we all thought there was going to be one answer… there wasn’t! Well more like exemptions lol! Tell us what you’re doing!

This week we finally had JAMIE’S BOYS!!!! Since the beginning of ASAAS, they have supported us and given us a lot of topics! We’ve wanted them on for so long and they finally agreed! Thanks to a few cocktails lol. We discuss more guy talk! When it’s time to introduce significant others to family and friends, the 90% success rate for women approaching men, body image for men and women. Y’all we had to let them know not everything is transactional lol! Thanks Guys! Cheers!

The Sip: So Long Summer Lemonade & The Shot: Creamy Sex on the Beach

SHOOTER ALERT: The best shooters are ones that we find within our episode and this is no different! Jame said “some folk are looking for love while in relationships” which reminded VJ of a TikTok about how some men don’t marry their true love, they marry their available love. Now we just had to discuss whether this is true, is this considered settling, men’s bio clock, and working with what you got lol! Give us your thoughts! Cheers!