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In this episode Steggy talks about the strange, quiet ways social media has changed how we trust, date, love, and connect. From DMs that blur the lines of loyalty to the pressure of performing a perfect life online. This is a blunt look at what it feels like to be human in a digital world.Steggy shares how social media has shaped her own relationships. How and how social media has made it harder to trust, and why she finds herself craving something simpler now: real presence and connections and a life that doesn’t live inside a screen.If you’ve ever felt lonely while being constantly connected, this one is for you!

Join us as we continue reading submitted red flags!

The coven has spoken!In this episode, we read and react to listener-submitted red flags straight from Instagram. We received so many submissions that we had to split this one up into 2 parts! Make sure to tune in for part 2!

*Apologies for the uneven levels for the first half of the episode. We're still learning!!

This episode dives into the celestial signs of a healthy partner...the green flags that feel like moonlight. From reciprocity to health communication, Steggy talks about what dating looks like when the universe finally sends someone who feels like peace instead of chaos.

This week, Mal and Steggy talk about what made them cry! Which leads into a discussion about gentle men vs violent men. We explore the difference between men who lead with tenderness and men who move through the world with volatility, and how that shapes our sense of safety and trust.And, in true us fashion, the conversation shifts into a fully serious breakdown of our roles in a hypothetical zombie apocalypse. From instincts to strategy to who actually survives, we unpack the gendered dynamics that show up even at the end of the world.

In this episode, I dive into the chaos of modern dating, where nonchalant DMs and bare-minimum effort somehow became the norm..yikes! I reflect on how that culture has shaped the way I, and most of society, interprets interest, why genuine intention can feel suspicious, and how being used to intensity makes healthy pacing feel unfamiliar. I briefly talk about unlearning old patterns, relearning what softness and trust look like, and navigating the tiny panic that comes with the very unfamiliar slow burn. Most importantly, I explore what it means to build a happy, healthy relationship with myself first so that whenever the right person shows up, I’ll be as ready as I can be!

In this episode, we revisit the "What Made You Cry This Week" segment and explore some of our favorite relationship theories; the weird ones, the oddly accurate ones, and the ones that make you question everything you thought you knew about timing and connection.

Everyone keeps asking if I’m alone… but honestly? The quiet of my own galaxy feels better than orbiting someone who doesn’t see me. In this brief episode, I (Steggy) talk about celestial solitude and how people tend to confuse my peace with loneliness.

Mal and Steggy dive into red flags, karmic lessons, and why every ex seems to be a Libra. Mix in a little K-pop, cosmic chaos, and self-awareness, and you’ve got another episode straight from the stars

In this episode, Steggy wanders through the constellation of her past red flags, the cosmic kind that look like “potential” until they burn you out. From rescuing the perpetually unlucky to mistaking chaos for chemistry, she unpacks the patterns that kept her orbiting the same lessons. It’s raw and hopefully funny as she turns her heartbreak into a healing spell (with a pinch of self-roast). This is for anyone who’s ever said “maybe this time it’ll be different”...and finally realized they were the magic all along.