00:00 Introduction to the Topic of Relationships 06:44 Melissa Orlov's Journey into ADHD and Relationships 13:26 The Impact of ADHD on Relationships 19:57 The Hyperfocus Courtship Phase 27:05 Misdiagnosis and ADHD 32:18 The Impact of ADHD on Relationships 40:09 Managing ADHD in Dual-ADHD Couples 46:12 The Destructive Interaction 51:23 Intentions vs. Outcomes 56:21 Getting Treatment and Rebuilding Relationships 01:04:09 Building Accountability and Connection 01:09:28 Rekindling Emotional Connection 01:20:09 Key Takeaways: Communication and Individual Responsibility 01:25:09 Hope for Relationships Impacted by ADHD In this episode, Matt and Andrew discuss the impact of ADHD on romantic relationships with guest Melissa Orlov, an expert in ADHD and relationships. They explore topics such as the hyperfocus courtship phase, misdiagnosis of ADHD, and the challenges faced by couples where both partners have ADHD. Melissa emphasizes the importance of understanding ADHD and its impact on relationships, as well as the need for both partners to take responsibility for managing their symptoms. She also discusses the role of anxiety in relationships and offers strategies for managing ADHD in dual-ADHD couples. In this episode, Melissa Orlov discusses the impact of ADHD on relationships and provides strategies for managing the challenges. She emphasizes the importance of open communication, understanding intentions vs. outcomes, and addressing parent-child dynamics. Melissa also discusses the role of medication and the need for treatment and counseling. She highlights the need for multiple strategies and the importance of rekindling emotional connection. Overall, Melissa offers hope for couples impacted by ADHD and encourages individuals to take responsibility for their own actions and seek support. Open communication and understanding intentions vs. outcomes are key in managing the impact of ADHD on relationships. Addressing parent-child dynamics and building accountability are important steps in rebuilding relationships. Medication and treatment can play a role in managing ADHD symptoms and improving reliability. Couples may benefit from counseling and support to navigate the challenges of ADHD in their relationship. Rekindling emotional connection and engaging in new and interesting activities together can help rebuild intimacy. Multiple strategies and ongoing experimentation are necessary for managing ADHD and its impact on relationships. Individuals should take responsibility for their own actions and seek support to improve their relationship. Links to Melissa's work: ADHD & Marriage couples seminar, given by Zoom...next live session starts Feb 13, 2024 ADHDmarriage.com (for free treatment ebook download) Support groups for non-ADHD partners sessions open up at intervals across the year.

The ADHD Effect on marriage: (UK Link) https://www.amazon.co.uk/ADHD-Effect-Marriage-Relationship-Assertiveness/dp/1886941971/ref=sr_1_2?crid=2819D5BVJB0F9&keywords=melissa+orlov&qid=1705518672&sprefix=melissa+or%2Caps%2C58&sr=8-2

The Couples guide to ADHD: (UK Link): https://www.amazon.co.uk/COUPLES-GUIDE-THRIVING-MELISSA-ORLOV/dp/193776110X/ref=pd_sbs_d_sccl_2_1/262-1055712-9949067?pd_rd_w=GkckV&content-id=amzn1.sym.f5d177b3-9290-4c61-8b0e-06b08cdd933f&pf_rd_p=f5d177b3-9290-4c61-8b0e-06b08cdd933f&pf_rd_r=P27VDPZDE1FE76EKEDD2&pd_rd_wg=R8t2t&pd_rd_r=3354614a-0fdf-4469-88ba-152ab88d5326&pd_rd_i=193776110X&psc=1

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