Parenting ADHD is messy, imperfect, and full of mistakes you wish you could undo. In this raw, unfiltered episode of Chaos & Caffeine, host Danielle Kelly shares the biggest ADHD parenting fails she regrets—impatience, homework wars, punishment flops, diet traps, comparison spirals, bribery gone wrong, and more.

This isn’t about shame. It’s about honesty, solidarity, and learning together. From meltdowns in Target to failed screen bans and creating a “tiny mob boss” through too many bribes, Danielle opens up about the mistakes that made her a more compassionate, informed ADHD mom.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I screwing this all up?” this episode is for you. You’ll laugh, cringe, and most importantly—you’ll feel less alone. ADHD parenting doesn’t need perfect parents. It needs parents willing to try again.

☕ Tune in for relatable ADHD parenting stories, hard-earned lessons, and tips you can actually use—because laughter is cheaper than therapy, and solidarity is everything.

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