Episode 9 - DEAR GIRL, WHAT ARE YOU?

So FIRST thing's FIRST.

NO BULLYING IS TOO SMALL TO BREAK YOU. EVEN WHEN YOU'RE THE BULLY & VICTIM.

Everytime you look down on yourself, you destroy your petals.

Hear ye! Hear ye! child.

It's funny how I'm torn between the two. Should a lady allow her man talk to other ladies? OR put a Ban on any relationship with the opoosite sex...especially because girls are now THIRSTY!

What is it about the Nigerian wedding that is so extra? The cost of the wedding, meeting the in-laws or even taking yhe girl home...OR....are they all intertwined? Join me this evening.

FYI, I posted at 6p.m, just for you...cos you 'SpeshuL'.

The attention I got was all fun on this particular day. But in the end, it became a nightmare...I was a bait!

Listen and lemme know what you think?

P.s, I have been scolded about my use of "word filler- "LIKE". I'd work on getting better. Please forgive! 😁

Sigh....dress the way you'd love to be addressed...also, never look down on people...here's what happened to me sha....

I'm sure you are irked by the frequent meetings that your organization seems to wanna hold every hour/day/week/month.

Some of these things are irrelevant and here's what to do about them this year... Tune in.

SEX! SEX! SEX! I was 17 or so...I promise, I felt my experience will be different from the stories of the other young ladies that already experienced their first time. LOL! It really WAS DIFFERENT from theirs. Hmmm...How was it different? Listen.

My presentation wasn't topnotch, but I promise to do better 🙏🏿. Thank you for sticking regardless.

#fallaces inluded.

The Nigerian party comes with a lot of expectation. If you fall below expectation, you'll be overlooked. When I thought I was slaying in my church mind...listen to hear what happened.

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The Nigerian Party comes with a lot of expectations...your dress, your hair, your attitude, it's a SHOWDOWN! I experienced it after a long time and here is my story.

The Nigerian Party comes with a lot of expectations...your dress, your hair, your attitude, it's a SHOWDOWN! I experienced it after a long time and here is my experience.