Alive and Active Life

It was the final episode of a TV series, and I’d been waiting for weeks for find out what would happen. So, with a cuppa and my TV glasses, I sat in my favorite chair with eager expectation. About half-way through, I thought – “What?! Surely not! I know it’s going to end better than this!” Incidentally – it didn’t. And I was so disappointed. Over weeks of anticipation, I really did hope for more than that! In a similar way of hope, we can live for more – and have more – each day.

To live for more is an interesting concept. In many ways each day, you and I live for more. From a small event like a closing TV show, to a large investment, to a commitment in a career or ministry, and so on. We simply always live for more. And we hope for more.

In actuality, this is part of our human design. It’s sort of “inbred” to live for more. And we’re wired to hope. There is a really wonderful component to this longing – and a horribly frightful component at the opposite end.

Simply knowing it’s within reach to live for more gives you hope and drive to launch out. This launch can often improve your situation, your conditions, and your future. So, in this way, to live for more is really wonderful. In fact, it’s an invitation to discover and be you, to reach for your full potential, to make a difference in this world.

Consequently, this is critical to your community, your country, and the world. Your life matters – and even makes it possible for others to live for more. What a gift to give someone! And incidentally, don’t underestimate your influence. It reaches far beyond what you might imagine.

Really Wonderful is the gift Jesus came to give people. He wants you – and everyone – to live for more. He came to give life abundantly! Jn. 10:10 says, “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.”

At the other end of really wonderful is horribly frightful. What does this mean? Well, when a person becomes self-focused, in-grown, and stunted by a mis-interpretation of “live for more,” bad things can happen. Horribly frightful things –

Sadly, this is when a person becomes very unhealthy. Bitter. Resentful. Actually, living for more – but only for self – is an implosion waiting to happen. This has never represented God’s nature, His creation, or the human race as He designed it.

And, of course, this means God has more for you. Why not find how to live for more?

People are healthier when they look upward to God – and outward to others and world realities. Even when things don’t look good, this honest look can bring perspective and change.

What if the world is unhealthy? Well, it is! We already know that part. However, Jesus had purpose coming into this world. Lk. 9:56 says, Jesus ” . . . did not come to destroy men’s lives. He came to save them . . .”

So we can conclude – Jesus came to do away with what is horribly frightful. And bring a lot more really wonderful into people’s lives.

Reasonably, a question is – “how to live for more without being self-focused?” There are several helpful tips to live for more. And interestingly, most tips are simple things that influence your approach to life. Without these tips, you would not have a shot at really wonderful in a broken, sinful world. You’d be confined to horribly frightful every day.

Because we live in challenging current world conditions, we need simple, helpful tips. From war-torn countries, to hunger, to the tragedy of society’s fabric being ripped apart by lies and self-focus.

So, let’s look at three helpful tips.

It’s true!

God loves you.

He promised to love you no matter what happens. No matter what you choose. No matter what circumstances fill your life. He says, “I have loved you with an everlasting love.” (Jer. 31:3)

When life threatens you with horrible stuff, fall back into Him. He is your strong fortress. (Ps. 31:2) Similar to a force field around you, His Spirit keeps you safely hemmed-in with a reach far beyond the dimensions of this world.

God’s love is so practical. In fact, it fills you with joy and confidence to rise up no matter how harsh things become around you. As time passes into what the Bible calls “the end times,” life will get increasingly challenging. How assuring to know in your heart – God will never leave or forsake you in these times. (Deut. 31:6)

He also knows your limitations. Ps. 103:14 says, “For He knows what we are made of; He realizes we are made of clay.” He knows we are made from the dust of the earth. And He is the one who formed us.

Because God has given you the “heads-up” about living in this broken world, you can live for more with –

Generously, God provides critical instructions in His Word. So, you have everything needed for every developing situation. (2 Pet. 1:3-4) Consequently, you can “live forward” with confidence even when crossroads of life are filled with turmoil, confusion, fear, threats, and hurt.

If you cling to God’s instructions, then you’ll be filled with a “can-do” perspective.

God has gone before you to every crossroads you will experience. Anticipating your arrival, He has stock-piled supplies, rest-stops, and refreshment just for you. But you have to trust Him for those things, or they won’t be yours.

Interestingly, it’s the person who adopts God’s principles that lives a healthy life – even in troubled times. Even in end times. So, take in God’s Written Word (Scripture) to engage a rich, meaningful relationship with the Living Word (Jesus)! In other words – KNOW GOD!

Build a strong relationship with Jesus using Scripture in these ways:

It’s impossible to separate the Written Word from the Living Word. They are one and the same. If you try to separate them, you end up with legalism on one end or shallowness on the other. Keep in mind – people have died to get Scripture into people’s hands because it connects them to Jesus.

If you take In God’s Written and Living Word, then you will live an Alive and Active Life!

God transforms you as you trust His love and obey His instructions. He literally changes your character to be like His own.

It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been a Jesus follower. Even with a wealth of experience, there’s always more transformation needed to be like Christ. Personally, I’ve been stunned to realize how much “more” is right around the corner when I get there. Walking life out with Jesus always opens a door to live for more.

I’m certain you’ve discovered life isn’t always really wonderful. There is way too much that’s horribly frightful. Subsequently, in each difficulty, pause and remember what you already know.

You are designed to participate in transformation! 2 Pet. 1:5-8 gives an excellent short list what to aim for.

Transformation always takes place in the moment. Not in the next moment. It’s in the current moment. God blesses responses of faith even when you can’t see it.

Living with Jesus each day is a process of learning, growing, discovering. Consequently, it also means thriving. This is because 1. God loves you, 2. provides instruction, and 3. transforms you – more, and even more. 

God wants you to be who He created – increasingly. And enjoy what’s still good in life, even in end times. Things like –

When tempted to give up – or take a dip into ungodly decisions, it’s time to be stubborn about trusting God’s love. Be stubborn about honoring His instructions when tested, tired, hurting, discouraged. And be stubborn about letting God continually transform you.

Through surrender, you discover more, and even more. God has for you. Remember – He’s waiting for you to arrive at each crossroads with supplies, rest-stops, and refreshment for the next part of your journey.

Be assured of your life and future. Live for more that’s really wonderful.

Conversely, the person who is near-sighted, blind, and forgetful of what matters most – gets more of what’s horribly frightful. (2 Pet. 1:9)

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We live with boundaries every day. Some examples: Your yard ends, and the neighbor’s yard begins. Countries have boundaries to define territory. Speed limits keep traffic in check to prevent accidents. The zoo has walls, cages, and glass to keep children safe as they enjoy animals. Walls and doors form rooms – helpful when you need to sleep or take a shower. Banks with safes protect money. Oceans caress the beach only to a certain distance. If boundaries are so common all around us, then why is it hard to place and keep boundaries to protect our hearts and minds? Afterall, boundaries help.

Simply put – boundaries keep the bad out and the good in. By defining lines, they help people manage physical life properties, inner issues, and relationships. Healthy, mature people spend time putting good boundaries into place. They also respect other’s boundaries. Subsequently, this is the reality of healthy boundaries.

On the other hand, some boundaries keep good out and bad in. How tragic! For various reasons, some people live with this reality and suffer unnecessarily. Since this is both avoidable and unhealthy, you can create a new scenario to keep good in and bad out.

So, if you have unhealthy boundaries, there is hope for change with a little strategy. 

When God told the Israelites to build a tabernacle, He was very specific with building blueprints. There were specific boundaries to the structure. Outer and Inner Courts of the tabernacle allowed access to many people. The Holy Place only allowed priests to enter. And the Holy of Holies (Most Holy Place) allowed only the high priest to enter only once a year. It was a very sacred place, not to be trespassed. Exodus 26:32-34 talks about the actual boundary between The Holy Place and The Most Holy Place.

The tabernacle gives a model for setting godly boundaries in your life. It’s especially helpful with relationships. God, Himself, set clear boundaries of who could access sections of the tabernacle – His dwelling place among men. And since He now lives in the hearts of those who trust Him, His tabernacle is now YOU!

Have you established Outer and Inner Courts in your life? Do you have reasonable boundaries for your Holy Place? And have you set thoughtful limits to who is allowed into your personal Holy of Holies? Remember: boundaries help.

If God was so precise and careful with the boundaries of His tabernacle, why would you not be equally careful with boundaries of your life? Especially considering you are God’s temple. 1 Cor. 3:16 says, “Don’t you know that you are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit lives in you?”

What specific actions do you need to implement to set up healthy boundaries in every section of your life?

Because your Life Courts allow many people access during your day, you must pensively set appropriate expectations. People come and go as activities and responsibilities are carried out. A variety of relationships is enriching. It’s community. Yet, careful awareness is always critical.

Consequently, the Holy Place of your life funnels access to only people who are faithful and trustworthy. These relationships encourage you and provide growth opportunities. They support and challenge you, providing sharpening and enrichment. The “general public” of the courts, the Outer and Inner Courts, is not allowed in this place of your life.

Since the Holy of Holies is a very special place of your life, it is strictly reserved for God and a few intimate relationships that are safe and healthy. This is the place where those who love you deeply and without condition are allowed free access. Because they want you to fully be who God created, they help you live creatively and artfully.

Subsequently, as God’s sacred dwelling, give thought and prayer to boundaries of your life and relationships because you are the one who sets your boundaries.

Since you are manager of your life, frequently ponder what needs boundaries. Is it hard for you to set boundaries?

Sometimes poor boundaries result from a low self-image. Better said – from an inaccurate picture of who you are. God’s picture of you is the right picture of who you are.

Wanting approval from others – or – feeling “less than” – or – thinking “like a victim” can cause compromise. A simple reminder of who you are in Christ helps you graciously say “no” to others trespassing in your life.

People who have poor boundaries often invite bad in and push good out, as we already mentioned. They also may struggle with confidence. Incidentally, they get hurt more than people with good boundaries. Lack of boundaries “invites” more hurt instead of deflecting it. This observation is critical to your well-being.

Everyone should regularly inspect and evaluate their boundaries – like a farmer inspects and evaluates fences around a pasture.

Identifying priorities is essential to setting boundaries. Notably, it takes energy to start the process of setting healthy boundaries. However, it takes a lot less energy than cleaning up messes caused by poor boundaries!

Noteworthily, poor boundaries block growth and authenticity. This limits your freedom and confidence. So, identify priorities that please God, value your life like God does, and start to set good boundaries.

Identifying priorities helps you set healthy boundaries. They define what pleases God and benefits you.

      Example:  Other people’s feelings are their responsibility, not yours. You are responsible for your feelings.

When Jesus refers to Himself as Shepherd, He uses an illustration common for people in Bible-time culture. The sheepfold is built in a large circle or rectangle with only one opening. The shepherd constantly guards that opening. At night, he literally lays his body down across the only opening so nothing can enter and harm the sheep. He also keeps the “roamer” in. Anything crossing that opening would pass through him first. Indeed, he keeps the good in and the bad out.

To be a healthy person, you need to become a gatekeeper to your life.

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I have a few short stories referencing “at your edge.”

When I was a child in gym class, we practiced walking on a balance beam. It was a bit nerve-racking! Apparently, if you walk a beam only two or three inches off the ground, it’s easier. But walking a beam four feet off the ground takes a bite out of your confidence. I tried to be confident four feet off the ground. But it was still tricky.

When I was a young mom with little ones, we visited a state park. We climbed a high cliff and came to an edge with a very long drop. It was roped off – but ropes don’t stop little kids. They started right for the edge! As my stomach turned somersaults, I quickly intervened and pulled them back from the edge.

During another season of life, I experienced being at my edge when difficulties and losses piled high. I was at the edge of my endurance. Incidentally, it was terribly uncomfortable. And it was at this edge I learned some critical skills and maneuvers. I grew into a “new maturity” as I realized from God’s point of view – life’s beam is only a few inches off the ground. He stabilizes my balance, closely spots my walk, and keeps me safe. This gave me hope.

Do you know how it feels to be at your edge? Have you ever been there? Perhaps you’ve been living at your edge a long time. It’s scary to live at the edge of what you think you can manage and cope with, not knowing what’s beyond.

To be “at your edge” is often an “up – down” phenomenon – a “come – go” experience. Some days you feel you can’t take any more, and the next day you’re more “OK.” Sometimes in one day you can bump up and then down again.

There are people in this world who do daring performances. From self-video of dangerous maneuvers on a mountainside ledge to share on social media (and a plunge to that person’s death) to a tight-rope over Niagara Falls (with someone on their back) to trapeze stunts in a circus.

Some people like living at the edge of what is safe – or flaunting their ability to endure with nerves of steel and a dare-devil lifestyle. And I have to add – living at the edge of God’s warnings.

Living at the edge of all you can endure is something most people don’t want to do. It’s not only scary. It’s also heart-breaking. Why do I say that? Because if you continue to live at the edge of what you can endure – you’ve likely endured a lot.

People who have gone through losses and severe grief know the edge well. This is the place where hope is either lost – or re-discovered. It could be a death, betrayal, severe illness, divorce, financial ruin, or even a huge pile-up of too-many-little-things!

If you stay on the edge, frozen in fear or perhaps imprisoned in grief, gazing at the drop below, you feel hopeless. You may feel frustrated. Maybe even angry. Sometimes you lose focus in this predicament.

Face to face with reality, at your edge, you don’t see a way across to better days, to renewed hope. In fact, it seems impossible.

But you’ve been told God’s power can make a difference in your life. You’ve also heard the next step is a leap of faith.

But what if! Yes, what if the beam is only a few inches off the ground. If Jesus is all around on every side, underneath, over, and inside you . . . then you are truly less than inches away from support and safety! Right? Even if you are suspended on a precarious precipice. Right?

That’s Right! Don’t give up!

Change your perspective to this thought – by faith. Incidentally, taking up this kind of thinking puts your hand back into the hand of hope. If you choose to grab onto hope through Jesus – hope is yours!

Jesus promised never to leave or forsake you. (Deut. 31:6) He also promised to redeem all things – make all things new. (Rev. 21:5) And He says all things work together for good to those who love God. (Rom. 8:28)

These promises and so many more, give you a beam to walk on. Though it seems so narrow, keep remembering that in Christ, it’s only a few inches from safety. Jesus will catch you. It’s time to step forward.

Rom. 5:3-5 says, “. . . we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.” 

This Scripture talks about deeper, richer, “good stuff” that happens at your edge. But you must participate to re-connect with hope. In Christ, you can do all things! (Phil.4:13)

Apparently, you have everything needed to live confidently, safely, and with hope at your edge. 2 Pet. 1:3 says, “His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.” This verse is saying . . . at your very edge, you still have what you need! In fact – everything you need!

Will you choose to accept this and think like this? Change your perspective at your edge. Please – just come near God and He promises to come near you. (Jas. 4:8) He will help you at your edge. You will get to know Him. Truly, He will keep you safe at your edge.

When you stay hidden with Christ in God (Col. 3:3) – God’s power changes you. Your character becomes rich, stable, strong, and full of hope. You become more like Jesus – with courage and confidence.

So, you have a choice. Trust Jesus and take a leap of faith. Or remain incapacitated at your edge. So, why not trust God fully? Let go at your edge, and fall less than a few small inches into His great provisions. It’s a very good place to be.

So, how can you remember basic action steps when you are at your edge?

If you follow these actions steps, you will g-r-o-w tremendously in the following ways:

Why does hope in God accomplish so much? Remember what we explored earlier from Rom. 5:5? “And hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

Hope does not disappoint us! Why not? Because God’s love is literally poured into your heart. His very own Spirit lives inside you. God wants you to succeed – His way. He is at your edge with you – very invested in your safety, growth, development, and training.

When you are at your edge, staring at threatening emptiness and a possible fall in front of you, PAUSE! Take a moment to reflect on these Scriptures – from your heart – with resolved faith in God who loves you!

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Pause with me and ponder stories of people who have overcome circumstances. History is filled with these heroes.

These previous life summaries are only a few of many examples of people who overcome circumstances. Even regular people are heroes in life when they develop noble character and rise up to address challenges that seem insurmountable. Incidentally, you and I are in that group. Haven’t you overcome circumstances you were overwhelmed with. I know I have.

People overcome circumstances every day. In fact, having problem-solving abilities and higher functioning capacities marks humanity more than any other creatures on the earth. God created mankind to rule His beautiful creation. And so, He gave men and women – and even children – the ability to overcome circumstances.

It may surprise you to consider – circumstances don’t dictate or limit character. Something else does.

Since circumstances do not dictate character, what does? By exercising diligence, discipline, and courage to trust and obey God even in the most challenging times – this wields character. This kind of investment is worth every effort. So, don’t skimp about proactively getting to know God, getting into His Word, and including Him as your Friend and Companion each day.

It is more accurate to say that character is both forged and practiced. The person who invests in these two practices develops noble character which prepares them to overcome circumstances.

You’ll never be sorry you put energy and focus into relationship with God. Conversely, you will regret forever if you decide God is not for you. Please don’t make the miscalculation so many have about God. And please don’t miss what God created you for. He loves you deeply and has unique purpose for your life.

Consequently, you have power over your character. The only thing that limits character is if you refuse to exercise this power.

From real history to fiction stories to superhero movies – we just love hearing how others have overcome circumstances. Perhaps that’s because we also must overcome.

There are helpful ideas that empower people to become strong, courageous, disciplined, and persistent. Let’s explore some.

You have choices – just like everyone. God made people with free will. Choices are a responsibility more than a right. When people choose well, then life goes better.

Good choices can change the course of your life. Thankfully, God provides resources to help.

Patterns of good choices filter down into the smallest components of life: your private thoughts, a spoken word, a sent email, an attitude, a deed carried out.

Every time you invoke your ability to choose well, you solidify excellent skills and patterns to overcome circumstances.

Thankfulness links directly to a more mature perspective. Additionally, when you are thankful, it’s harder to sin.

Being grateful is a character quality that supports a peaceful contentment and assurance God is working on your behalf.

The person who practices thankfulness has learned the secret of inner peace. Incidentally, it’s like practicing cheer – sincerely from your heart.

A thankful person is aware of blessings and beauty all around them. They dwell on these gifts from God. Furthermore, they are also aware of special ways God shows Himself each day. It’s easier for a thankful person to enjoy intimacy with God.

1 Thess. 5:18 says, “Give thanks in all circumstances because this is God’s Will for you in Christ Jesus.” Thankfulness makes you like Jesus.

Every time you invoke thankfulness, you solidify the character of Christ in you to overcome circumstances.

Faith is the bedrock of knowing God. And – yes – it is definitely possible to know Him a bit more each day. When you exercise faith, it’s like exercising a muscle. The more you work that muscle, the stronger it gets.

Faith is sincere trust in God for – –

Scripture strongly announces – “Without faith, it is impossible to please God!” (Heb. 11:6a) That statement is astounding!

Every time you invoke faith, you solidify the privilege and power to please God!

Hope flows from God’s mercy and loving kindness. It’s a strong marker of God’s power and His deep commitment to your life. Incidentally, it’s hope that assures you Jesus is actively –

And you? Be radical! Have the audacity to hope in God, alone.

Every time you invoke Hope, you solidify that God is Alive and Active – AND – intimately involved in your life!

God loves you deeply. Therefore, you can relax into your life, knowing your Creator designed you uniquely from every other person. In other words, you can know your individual purpose as you remain in God’s love. And you can share His love with others.

God’s love changes people. God’s love is powerful. Consequently it transforms you. And as you share God’s love with others, it starts doing the same thing for them.

Since love has a unique power, you are able to accomplish things you couldn’t otherwise. Love drove Jesus to the cross. If you love another person, then you can serve them and endure many things on their behalf.

Every time you invoke Love, you pattern your heart and life after the heart and life of God, Himself. You partner with Him to overcome circumstances!

Incidentally, do you know what the word “invoke” means? Here are some definitions:

SO – As you invoke each of these qualities, you earnestly declare your involvement is binding – and your confirm you will bring about what is needed to overcome circumstances.

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Narrative is a word that has “ticked up” in usage recently. We’ll explore that. But this content is about God’s narrative of you. What is that narrative? Because you hear many different messages daily about your life and value, it’s tricky to determine which narratives are true and which are lies. So – do you know the truth? Comfortingly, God’s narrative about you is based in truth – and love.

What you think about what God thinks about you – matters! God is interested in you, in blessing you, and in your friendship.

Let’s get to this word. Have you noticed an increase in the use of the word – narrative? Recently, this word is heavily used when describing accounts of events or experiences, especially in journalism, news reporting, and editorials. So, what – really – is a narrative?

We need language to communicate. Because language brings meaning to commonly-used expressions, it’s a tool we need each day. Still, we must communicate clearly.

A narrative involves artful descriptions to an audience. It uses various techniques to slot a message into a particular point of view. Further, it involves a kind of sculpting process to convey what happened or what is. Subsequently, this word has become rather popular and powerful in modern times. Listen for this word in the news.

I am limited to know what and how God thinks. It seems impossible to think like God. Afterall, Scripture says, “Just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so My ways are higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts.” (Is. 55:9)

But Scripture gives pieces of information about God and His thoughts. Do you think like God – about you? Others? His world?

I suggest this approach to think like God:

This pattern is good communication. Coincidentally, good friends interact like this.

As we dig further into this content, I pray you will hear God’s narrative of you in a nurturing, refining, and refreshing way. Since we already suggested three strong ideas in the first couple of paragraphs, let’s explore them.

God is interested in you much more than He’s interested in your track record of righteousness. Although your choices do matter on another level, that’s a different discussion. It’s not your unique skills set, personality, or experiences that impress God – although they add to your identity and effectiveness. It’s not your rituals or patterns that catch God’s attention – although they may add meaning and order to your daily life.

God sees you, and He wants you. God loves you. Since it’s not your righteousness, abilities, or rituals that hit His radar, you need not be concerned or afraid. You don’t have to perform for Him. And since your life is precious to Him, you can know God is genuinely interested in you, simply for who you are. Incidentally, He’s had a purpose for you since before He created anything.

Do you know God’s purpose for you? Did you know God has been thinking about you all this time?

You are precious to God. You have eternal purpose.

Other people are precious to God, too. You have purpose directly related to this. It’s part of God’s narrative of you.

It is amazing and undeserved! God is interested in blessing you (and me). Jer. 31:3b says, “I have loved you with an everlasting love.” Zeph. 3:17 also reports God takes great delight in you. 1 Jn. 3:1 says, “Consider what great love the Father has lavished on you that you should be called children of God – and so you are!”

When you love someone deeply, delight in them, and have dear relationship with them – you want to bless them. God sees you with –

God’s special attention elevates you to beneficiary. And what do heirs receive? Everything that is their father’s. Would this not also include deep affection, strong investment, best intentions, and every blessing that could possibly be given to you?

Good fathers do this. Some people don’t have this kind of father. The good news is this. God extends His fatherly love and blessings to all who accept His narrative of them. Indeed, He is father to all – but many don’t want Him. They choose a different father – the father of lies. Check out a recent article – “Been Lied To?”

Why not live inside God’s narrative of you? God’s thoughts of you are accurate, loving, and filled with hope. No one else thinks as knowledgeably about you as God. No one else offers blessings God is eager to give you.

This is an unbelievable statement! But it’s true. God is interested in your friendship. Jas. 2:23 says, “Abraham believed God and it was credited to him as righteousness. And he was called God’s friend.” 

God wants you to be His friend. Instead of relating to you as His servant – which, indeed, we are – He prefers to relate to you in friendship. He is still God. Yet, He lifts you up to the undeserved position of friend. Companion. Even confidant.

God has already stated His interest in this undeserved arrangement. And through Christ’s cross, it is possible. But what about you? Are you interested in being God’s friend back?

Earlier in this content, I mentioned how good friends interact:

If this is how good friends interact, then shouldn’t this guide you in all your relationships?

You must respond to God’s narrative of you. What will it be? Incidentally, God’s desired response from you starts with being forgiven. There’s no other way to interact with holy God. However, what you think about what God thinks about you – matters! Because God’s narrative of you starts at the cross, start there.

In order to exercise faith in God, apply four basic, helpful action steps:

Miraculously these basic faith steps strengthen you. Just as eating food sustains your body each day, so basic, continual faith-practices sustain you through life. Subsequently, you can live sincerely and authentically. Since obedient faith brings consistency to your life, it’s a most valuable resource. Above all, faith in Christ’s provision through His cross gives you God, His blessing, and His friendship. And it gives peace and joy.

Agree with God’s Word. Seal your life in a favorable way. Become the heir we talked about. So, what you think about what God thinks about you – truly matters! God is interested in you as a person. He is interested in blessing you. And He is interested in your friendship. He wants you to know Him. Why would you not respond?

Accept God’s narrative of you. Build a strong narrative of God.

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I remember a season a couple decades ago when I felt things were falling apart. By that time in my life, I’d already noticed an interesting development. Despite a lot of hard work, regardless of best intentions, even after applying good counsel and working to apply Scripture – things don’t always turn out. That’s when you discover the value of a fresh start.

Every day, everything has a starting point. Beginnings fill our lives. Sometimes we look forward to them, and other times we don’t. Still, with each new start is the possibility for something fresh and productive to build into. Even sufferings, losses, and other hard things bring opportunities to learn and grow. A fresh start is always welcome!

Everything has a starting point – except God, Himself.

Even our salvation has a starting point. Interestingly, however, salvation has no end point! Fascinating!

Where would we be if we never got a fresh start? New beginnings allow us to plant good seeds for tomorrow. A fresh starting point opens doors that lead to surprising developments. A fresh start also gives hope.

Life is a vibrant pulsating existence. New beginnings benchmark what is normal. Still, we often get blindsided by a loss. Many times it takes years to pull out of some losses. And often there are no good answers.

In these challenging times, call on God who brings miraculous fresh starts.

One thing I’ve experienced in hard seasons – God’s ever-watchful, loving involvement carries you through. But for that observation to bring fruit, one must look to Him with a receptive heart. I’ve also learned – holding tightly to God is when hope is fulfilled. But it always looks differently than you picture.

Uniquely, a fresh start takes on value every day. Each moment can bring something new – even if only a changed perspective. Blessed is the person who has eyes to see and ears to hear. Even sin, failure, or unhealthy patterns can bring a fresh start for change.

Jesus joyfully said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible!” (Mt. 19:26) Life is filled with opportunity and new beginnings.

I want to go back to something I talked about early in this article. I said, “Despite a lot of hard work, regardless of best intentions, even after applying good counsel – things don’t always turn out. That’s when you discover the value of a fresh start.”

Let’s take that thought and explore another idea with rich hope and creative options.

OK, first I have another memory to share with you. When I was a little girl, we lived in a farming community. My family often visited farm families in the area. One time, a friend was in the barn milking cows. This was before milking machines.

I was given opportunity to try milking a cow. Oh, brother! I had troubles. You have to pull and squeeze a certain way. I just couldn’t get it to work. I think I got a couple drops of milk. But as I remember the story now, I actually feel sorry for the cow who patiently put up with my under-par skills.

So, I concluded as a young girl – milking takes hard work! I was right – but not just about cows. Learning how to milk it in life is also hard work, but it’s both practical and satisfying once you learn how. Why?

Milk it is a concept that helps redeem difficult seasons or tragic developments. It’s a personal management tool. When things don’t go well when you’ve done all you know to do, when you’ve prayed, and even gone the extra mile – the next thing you do is – milk it! You learn to pull every drop of good out of your situation. Drop by drop.

God will train you how to milk it – to see any trickle of good. This training develops excellent character – integrity, patience, kindness, discipline, faith, obedience, perseverance, and so on. In fact, I would now say – decades later – my tough seasons provided the very territory for life training and developing maturity in Christ. I would not trade what I’ve learned – how God taught me to milk it – for anything!

Learning how to milk it gives you treasure that you can never gain any other way!

Beginnings establish everything – even your very life. Some are big and really stand out. Many are smaller, but you need them to make a difference. Because that difference is often unnoticed at the time, we often don’t think of regular activities as starting points. But they are! This is where –

All from fresh starts.

Beginnings also provide second chances. Everyone needs those.

To choose well – is something you adopt. Looking at starting points a certain way not only states facts about life. It also completely changes your course and gives you power as you live.

The above list of tools nurtures a fresh start.

Perspective is the ability to keenly see, understand, and line your thinking and choices up with what’s best in the big picture. Interestingly, perspective shapes everything. With just a slight tweek in perspective, life looks completely different. In fact, this is a quick “off-ramp” into a fresh start.

Wisdom is a quality of knowing what is true or right “married to” the insight to apply the action. A wise person listens more, speaks less, pays attention, is alert to their surroundings and the state of the world, and is gracious. They are “God-and-other-person-focused” rather than “self-focused.” Consequently, a wise person makes less mistakes.

Discernment is the ability to develop and apply life responses. It uses discipline, physical and spiritual senses, skillsets, healthy patterns, and knowledge of truth. This person can distinguish the difference between good and bad. They have an uncanny ability to differentiate what is healthy and helpful – and what is unhealthy and detrimental.

Consequently, having discernment, because of its very nature, means you are also open and receptive to God.

Attitudes help shape the essence of who you are. Just watch people. You can learn a lot about someone by noticing their attitudes – a visible peek into someone’s heart.

The person who aligns attitudes with Scripture has learned how to be mature, disciplined, and relevant – with powerful insight.

Alertness becomes a normal practice when you stop looking inward and start looking outward. Self-focus is a slow, painful kind of “self-death.” Being God-focused and then other-focused breathes fresh life into your soul. Look around. Notice starting points and data points that go into issues.

Desire to please God stabilizes you as you choose God as your First, Most, and Best – AND by adopting His principles. When you choose to trust and obey God completely, life makes more sense and relationships with others are enhanced.

Jer. 29:11-13 says, ” ‘ For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.‘ “

The person who trusts God’s intentions are good and loving – and settles into His love – finds a deep, satisfying relationship with God. It can’t be explained to mockers. And it seems like foolishness to the natural man because a natural man doesn’t have the ability to spiritually discern. (1 Cor. 2:14)

When you find yourself consciously caring for others’ needs, you can know your priorities have shifted to run closer alongside God’s priorities. Eph. 4:29b says to speak “only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” So, care for others.

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Have you ever been lied to? I’m guessing you have. I have, too. It’s a devastating experience. You don’t know who to trust going forward. Consequently, that’s the power of a lie. It tears down trust and ruins what could otherwise be healthy and dependable. Although it’s become more common – even normal – to lie, all lies come from one place. Jesus identifies that source.

The father of lies is not a myth or fairy tale. Rather, he’s one of God’s created beings.

The Bible says this being was created with perfection, blameless, a guardian cherub – “till wickedness was found in you.” (Ez. 28:15b) 

Before there was a “tempter,” this guardian cherub possessed great power and was very beautiful. So much so, that he filled up with something not true to his created self. He filled up with himself! Since he focused more on himself than God (who created him and gave him power and beauty), he changed and became the tempter. All because of a lie in his own heart.

At this point, he was filled with violence, became proud, adopted corrupted wisdom (lies), and was driven by God out of His glorious realm. (Ez. 28:16-17) And so, the father of lies began his work of utter destruction of the human race.

Jn. 8:44 says, “You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires . . . there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” Whoever does not follow Jesus, follows the father of lies . . . by default (not being true to one’s created self). And so, there’s conflict.

We have no hope in our fallen condition. Because of this, the cross is our only hope to be reconciled to God and our true identity. Jesus makes it possible for you to be the glorious person He created. Additionally, He demonstrated God’s deep love for you and His desire for reconnection.

A person identifies with either truth or lies, all based on choices. So, it’s wise to be exceedingly careful in big things and small details. Have you been lied to? Are you being the “true you?” Or are you filled up with something not true to your created self?

Life patterns matter. Consequently, what you think, say, and do – matters. Because choices normalize things, they affect your life and others’ lives. You have a choice: normalize truth or normalize lies. How can you do this?

Pursue truthful ideas, honest interactions, and honorable character to normalize truth. Truth is found in Christ.

Although lies are often thought of as “what people say,” it’s much greater than that. It’s “how people live.” Subsequently, the life people choose – determines who they become. A person who believes untrue things increasingly becomes part of the lies. However, if they believe and act on true things, they increasingly become more “true!”

Jesus is true. Believe Him.

What do weeds have to do with being lied to?

In Mt. 13:37-43, Jesus tells a parable. After He identified good and evil, He also identified the source of evil, the source of lies – using weeds. Jesus used an example people understood. He described what went wrong with the harvest in a certain field.

Here’s a bullet list of things Jesus explained when His disciples asked for clarification of the parable:

Weeds are something you get rid of, right? How many hours do you spend in your gardens pulling out weeds? So, why not just leave them?

Those unwanted plants compete with tender, young, “wanted” plants. Because weeds grow big and spread quickly, they take over the entire area that would bring a harvest. Quite literally, weeds change the landscape of a garden from beauty to disarray, from glory to destruction, from a true harvest to a faux harvest.

Lies grow big and spread quickly. Sadly, they take over large territory and change the landscape of humanity, nations, communities, history, and the glory God gave man. This tragic reality means individuals suffer – all because of lies. When lies are spoken, they normalize what is not true. Since this happens, it’s best to “pull them out!”

A faux harvest will not sustain healthy life. Faux harvests in people bring humanity down from the glory God created them with. It changes their intended essence, choices, and influence. No longer is humanity true to the original design. Rather, it is false from God’s created form. It is a lie.

Incidentally, rebellion against the Creator (not being true to one’s created self) changed the glorious cherub guardian into the father of lies. In the same way, living or speaking a lie changes people.

Each day’s labor produces life harvest. As a result, when you sow anything less than high-quality seeds in your character, you plant a faux harvest. This planting of weeds fails. It’s not God’s design. Rather, it’s the crop and design of the father of lies.

This enemy sows false seeds in lives that change people. He, himself, changed – poorly. Therefore, his passion is to poorly change people, who were created in God’s image. It is noteworthy that God’s enemy hates you – all people – and works through lies to drag you down and undo you.

If you believe you are:

– – – you’ve been lied to!

Jesus corrects all this falsehood. He proclaims truth! Furthermore, He came to take-up-and-away all “falseness” of the human heart. Even if you’ve been lied to – or lied about – Jesus makes it possible to speak and live in truth.

Since there’s nothing too hard for God’s brilliant strategy and wisdom, God established a plan where truth would expose lies. Consequently, another name some translations give the Lord is “Extraordinary Strategist.” Father and Son agreed on an unthinkable solution to normalize things again. “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” (Jn. 1: 14)

The Living Word spoke, lived, died, and resurrected. He normalized God’s ways again. Tragically, many people still believe lies.

Jesus’ example, ministry, and faithfulness all the way to the cross, redeemed man’s worth. Jesus salvaged the eternal value He’d sculpted into each person . . . before anyone was born. Subsequently, since He saw what the lie would do to His children, He normalized truth again. He freshly pronounced His original design over humanity by speaking and living truth.

Because Jesus calls things what they are (everyone is fallen, lost, sinful, trapped in wickedness), He also pro-actively develops good responses (action steps) to help us. Since, He knew exactly how to eliminate the power of the lie, He put a plan of redemption into motion. If you accept God’s intervention, your future is to live inside the normalcy of truth. The big picture changes then. Details are opportunities.

Similarly, Jesus knows exactly who you are created to be. You are part of His glorious plan. Live in joy and freedom!  Even in a broken, sinful world. Christ’s work on the cross made it possible to pull all the weeds. Instead, sow seeds of a true planting again. Why not accept the glory of your life?

Since you’ve been lied to, take up your options.

By the way, the father of lies is not your true father. Walk away from him. You are free.

Jesus gives a great exchange:

Application Thoughts And Questions

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Some days you need a newspaper. Other days, you need money from your bank. Still other days, you need a prescription for illness. More than not, you need your phone – or some other form of technology. Then there’s the day you need a good friend to talk to. But more often than you might expect, are days when you need something sharp – like a sword! For protection, accuracy, carving away, cutting a path, and making a point.

I hope to provide a word picture you can take forward into daily challenges. Let’s face it. In today’s world, you need a practical tool that’s reliable, effective, safe, and strong. And it needs to be applicable and versatile with current life issues. So – you need something sharp. You need a sword.

It seems a bit odd to talk about needing a sword in most of today’s world. “When you need a sword” is different thinking – unless you’re exploring some kind of decorative relic, a form of recreation, or a look into history.

I’m also not talking about attractive letter openers on your desk or in a top drawer. In my China cabinet, I have some cool-looking hors d’oeuvre swords. They provide conversation at a snack table. But I’m not thinking about those, either. I’m certainly not talking about strapping a twenty inch blade with sturdy-grip handle onto your side – safely tucked inside a jeweled sheath.

So, what am I talking about? A sword – today? Really?!

I’m talking about God’s Word. Heb. 4:12 says, “For the Word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.”

When you need something sharp, Scripture is a great option.

Today’s world is increasingly full of challenges and unknowns. People get tired, weary, discouraged, directionless, filled with grief, and ready to quit. Some also get mad and frustrated – often for good reasons. So what people need – what you need – is sincere time in God’s Word – eagerly expecting to hear from Him.

Scripture has a miraculous power to renew and rebuild your heart, clear your perspective, and provide options.

In today’s introduction, we said you need a sword for –

Let’s look at these.

God’s Word provides protection on every side of your life. I like to think of a “force field.” If you stay inside the principles of Scripture, you are protected – even when you suffer. It’s a shield and a shelter.

Ps. 18:30b says, “. . . The Lord’s Word is flawless; He shields all who take refuge in Him.” God’s Written Word (Scripture) is flawless to protect your mind and heart – if you take refuge in Him.

Ps. 31:20 says, “In the shelter of Your presence, You hide them from all human intrigues; You keep them safe in Your dwelling from accusing tongues.” God’s Living Word (Jesus) covers you with protection from all assaults.

YOUR PART? “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” (Prov. 4:23) Also, Heb. 10:22a says, ” . . . draw near to God with a sincere heart . . .”

GOD’S PART? “The peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Phil. 4:7)

So, stay under the protection of the Written and Living Word of God. Enjoy His faithfulness in this impenetrable force field.

Scripture overflows with practical guidance, history, and truth. It’s an accurate document for both study and practical living.

You get strength and insight from God’s Word to live effectively in peace. So, it’s like a super-powered battery, a plumb line, a compass, and a scale – ALL contained inside Scripture. This resource connects you to who you were created to be and your purpose. You can be accurate to God’s design for your life.

God’s Word also calls it like it is! It’s an accurate assessment of each individual. So, thoughts and attitudes you didn’t know were present become more clear. You have opportunity to change thoughts and attitudes – your very perspective – to align with God’s.

Is. 55:9 says, “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.” So, choose to be accurate to God’s ways and thoughts.

In a world where everything is upside-down from what God set upright, you must daily carve away things that are unhelpful, wrong, unimportant platforms, and energy-sucking issues.

Gain discernment to sort, identify, and expose tangled-up stuff that fills much of daily life. The Bible helps you carve away unhelpful data and identify “treasures” to hang onto.

God’s Word delicately carves into people’s hearts and carves through messes. It gives action steps that make each day successful.

Scripture carves away everything that interferes with your hope, peace, and joy. That’s another reason to be in your Bible. Nothing renews like Scripture. God’s Word carves away debilitation when you’ve been wounded.

Scripture changes the course of your life. It quite literally cuts a path to go forward. God’s Word has boundary-markers and protective rails. It powerfully cuts a path through curves, slopes, and dangers of life.

The path Scripture cuts passes through otherwise unseen beauty, adventure, and delight. You find doors opening and closing because you are in God’s Word each day. Plus, it cuts a path through what seems impossible or impassible. And it cuts a path through disbelief.

You connect directly to God’s life when you spend time in His Word. As a child of God, you belong to Him. So Scripture makes a point about God, who loves you deeply. It also makes a point about the value God has placed over your life.

Scripture makes a point as it exposes motives and convicts of sin. This book should be your “go-to” life manual.

Because life is fast-paced, complicated, challenging, disappointing, and demanding – God’s Word makes a point of giving you:

You get all this from God’s Word – if you believe and obey it. To believe and obey, you need to be in it.

Earlier, we mentioned Scripture is God’s Written Word. But – Jesus is God’s Living Word. Think of Scripture as “God on paper – Jesus in written form.” Jesus is referred to as The Word before He was named Jesus. And then the Word became flesh. (Jn. 1:1 and 14)

The Bible is the power of God’s life, which explains how this book is bursting with resources and glory. It’s always applicable, relevant, and practical – Alive and Active! (Heb. 4:12)

God wants to connect and share His love and power with you – to help you live well. You will lack nothing as you spend time in your Bible with an eager, believing heart. Further, God invites you into daily relationship and meaningful conversation with Him.

Eph. 6:17b says, “. . . the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.” When you need something sharp – a sword, you have God’s Word – both Written and Living!

How can one book be so helpful? It’s just one of many books on earth. Yet, it certainly is special!

Since these things are true, it becomes critical to make decisions about your Bible:

This article is largely developed from Shadows of Things to Come: 56 Days in the Book of Hebrews. This Bible study book – and more wonderful resources in our bookstore – help you get into God’s Word.

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I remember as a kid how excited I was when school let out for summer. That meant – freedom and fun. Then there’s the happy childhood memory of when I received a beautiful “Little Girl Lotion-Perfume” set from my grandmother at Christmas. As an adult, I’ve been thrilled when I owe less taxes than I thought – or get an extra bonus day off work. And at any age, there’s the joy of seeing new daffodils, tulips, and lilacs starting to share color and fragrance in spring. But nothing compares to how thrilled I was when I discovered a “Thinking Grid” in my Bible – a resource for better thinking!

So, I’ve told you about some situations when I have been excited – and there are many more of those little stories. And you have some, too. But, discovering this timeless tool in Scripture has provided guidance and training in a whole new way for each day.

As I began to apply it, this “Thinking Grid” started transforming:

The day I discovered this powerful resource, I realized I’d read it – somewhat mindlessly – many times through the years as I studied Scripture. I even memorized it! But I hadn’t realized its incredible value in practical ways, or how much it would change me, when I actually followed it. This day, things “clicked.” And something shifted permanently inside me.

As I used this tool in earnest, it began to impact my perspective, as well as my relationship with Jesus. As I already hinted, I’ve affectionately named this resource the – “The Thinking Grid.” It’s taken from Phil. 4:8 – “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”

What I didn’t realize is how excited I’d be to share this resource for better thinking. Some of you may be well-practiced using it. But others of you are on the cusp of an exciting, life-changing discovery.

The Thinking Grid defines what kinds of thoughts to practice. But it also defines what kinds of thoughts to eliminate because of the inverse message. Knowing what not to pursue is just as important as knowing what to pursue.

Another Scripture lends help in interpreting this grid. Eph. 4:29 says, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths [or use bad language – TLB], but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”

The word “unwholesome” includes anything unhelpful to one’s own or another person’s well-being. In contrast to unwholesome, the grid gives words that promote well-being. So, this tool gives the very action steps needed to be healthy and godly. And it starts with what you allow to dwell in your thoughts. In other words, this small passage from Philippians literally sets boundaries in which to run a strong, accurate, practical daily race.

Words have power. They can heal or wound. Words can change both perspective and beliefs, which directly influence your thoughts. Whether words are lies or truth, the power of speaking them normalizes how you think and what you then practice. 

At the same time, thoughts have significant power. They directly influence words – like a light gives away what’s hidden in a box.

Since words and thoughts influence each other, the best place to start is with God’s words and thoughts. Is. 55:9 says, “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.” Mt. 24:35b says, “My words will never pass away.”

So, adopting God’s thoughts and words empower and enable you to reach higher.

Adopting the “Thinking Grid” as a resource for better thinking affects what you think and say! Let God pour His power into your thoughts and words. And He does this in whatever is:

These are the defining markers of the “Thinking Grid.”

If you’re like me, it helps to grab onto specific action steps to know how to think and speak. Here are some helpful pointers.

The more you practice being authentic, honest, kind, and professional (especially in your home and private life), the more credible you are to speak truth and hope to others. So, practice God’s character through application of the defining markers of the Thinking Grid – admitting where you need growth and accountability.

If you pray before speaking or acting, your choices will be better – if you are listening to God’s Spirit. The goal is not to say or do what you think. It’s to say and do what God desires. It’s not to help you feel better. It’s to help you be better. Praying for wisdom helps you apply the defining markers in practical ways.

Practicing good character in struggles, temptations, and sufferings pulls you closer to Christ’s daily conduct. Jesus had a great approach when He lived on earth. He only said or did what the Father told Him to. (Jn. 8:28) That’s a powerful statement. So, the defining markers are a kind of magnet that pull you into Christ’s character.

Jesus practiced everything we’ve explored so far. Yet, He also exercised accountability, which starts in your own heart first, then ripples outward to hearts of people around you. In other words – you go first. Then add others. It’s especially needed and required in order to live like Jesus. But accountability has wounding power if you don’t also apply the defining markers of the Thinking Grid.

If there is any bitterness, rage, anger, arguing, or “put-down” talk – step away! Pause. Pray. Surrender your heart in that moment. Quickly review the defining markers of the Thinking Grid. It only takes second, and those seconds train your responses so God can partner with your obedience to transform you into a new creation. Transformation happens in the moment – by applying the defining markers!

Malice is any desire to injure, harm, or hurt another person. To get back at them – even if in a small or mild manner. It still happened in your heart. Consequently, small or strong, malice is something God detests in His children. It’s an automatic “get-rid-of” practice. When handling malice, always aim for the trash can outside your mind.

Sometimes it’s hard to remember exactly what you are supposed to do, let alone what you are not supposed to do. So, get this Thinking Grid into your head and heart.  As we already suggested, meditate and memorize on whatever is – 

These defining markers normalize what you think, say, and do.

Memorize the Thinking Grid ahead of time so it’s an instant resource. Especially keep the defining markers on the tip of your tongue. Literally quiz yourself. It’s an essential way to keep brain skills, alertness, and focus sharp as you grow up and when you advance into older years. So, start this practice now – whatever your age. 

Besides practicing the defining markers of the Thinking Grid, commit to do one more thing. Forgive others for hurting you. Forgiving make you very much like Jesus, and it propels you into the previous list – If You’ve Been Hurt.

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I don’t think there’s a person alive who doesn’t sometimes need a third party in some way. Surely, you’ve been there. I know I have. When you’ve done all you can, when you’ve reached the end of your knowledge or resources, when you simply can’t see clearly . . . that’s when it takes a third party!

In 2 Sam. 12:1-15, a well-known story is told. Well, actually it’s the “fall-out” of a sad story. The chapter before, David commits adultery with Bathsheba. And if you’ve read that story with a “fine-tooth-comb,” you’ll notice David makes about nine errors in three ways:

David, the “man after God’s own heart” (1 Sam. 13:14), gets completely off-balance. Loses perspective.

Instead of leading his army to defend his kingdom, he assigns that task to his general. But he stays home, lounging. Maybe bored? Perhaps tired? Possibly discouraged? Not initially intending to do wrong.

In this off-focus condition, David falls.

Have you been there? Off-balance? Maybe bored? Perhaps tired? Possibly discouraged? Not initially intending to do wrong.

God brings accountability to David – the man of His choosing – because He is a Good Father. He confronts the “man after His own heart” to help get him back on track. When something is wrong, unjust, off-balance – shouldn’t it be made right? Isn’t it best to get back on the path God has for you?

There are consequences to getting off track. This is where David finds himself.

The main teaching point of this story is something the text doesn’t really state. It’s not an in-your-face obvious truth. It’s not even a right-to-the-point lesson. In fact, you have to dig for – meditate on – pensively consider. Let’s look.

God reveals a very special part of His own heart in this accountability. In other words, He gives David – and you and me – a peek into His great, beating heart that is “for“ mankind. God reveals He, Himself, is sad, sorrowful, angry, yet loving and forgiving. God is holding accountable “a man after His own heart” – even as He experiences His own grief over the circumstances.

This is very much like a parent, guardian, or teacher role when you highly esteem (and love) a child or young adult. Yet you must engage accountability to correct what is off-balance.

But let’s step away from this main teaching point and come back to it later.

First, let’s remember mankind’s purpose to rule the earth. That means globally and individually. This responsibility ranges from:

We’re supposed to keep things in healthy balance in cooperation with God.

When we get off balance, God is automatically involved. He must be! He’s not a distant by-stander. As the Creator, Father-figure, and the only third party that can restore balance globally and individually – He’s involved!

Second, a side teaching point of this content – be content in The Lord in all circumstances. The back story of human history strongly suggests God’s people need to practice personal contentment.

Being content is a struggle for everyone. Think of your own life as I ponder mine. It’s a lot easier to be content when things are generally going well. That’s when it’s easier to not be anxious or upset.

But the issue of being content covers all of life – good times and bad. Being content in the Lord at all times is a safe-guard in spite of developments of all kinds. Even under great duress, testing, or sufferings, there’s no other way to live a healthy, balanced life than to embrace contentment in Jesus.

Sometimes it takes a third part to show where you went wrong, when you stepped away from being content in Jesus. When we talk about a third party, we often picture a friend, family member, pastor, teacher, and such. But I have another party I’d like to put forward as a credible, accurate, never-miss-anything option.

I suggest Scripture can be that reliable third party. However, this third party requires a tender leaning into God’s voice and a willingness to be trained in His ways.

Most of us tend to see wrongs with a self-serving slant – especially when referring to wrongs in other people. However, God wants us to see “to-the-tiny-degree” where we are at fault. His Spirit is faithful to teach, and He prefers Scripture as the teacher’s manual.

Ps. 139:24 says, “Point out anything You find in me that makes You sad, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.”

So, the question is – are you faithful to listen and respond to what Scripture points out? “To-the-tiny-degree?”

Too often people focus on things that get them off track:

Some of those things must be addressed. Life is hard. And everyone goes through tough stuff. But when you focus only on the tough stuff, you lose focus on contentment. You lose sight of Jesus. This affects your ability to manage your individual life and influence (ruling). It also affects contentment.

I promised to get back to the main teaching point. Here we go.

God’s response to David – even as He holds him accountable – is incredible! It shows His great love and kindness. It also shows His broken heart over how people choose everything else over Him.

After listing everything He has done for David throughout David’s young difficult life, God proves He’s been very involved in the circumstances . . . unseen, but still extremely involved.

Here’s what God says in verse 9. “And if this were too little, I would add to you as much more. Why have you despised the word of the Lord to do what is evil in His sight?”

You could say it like this – “If all I’ve done for you wasn’t enough (too little), including the cross, I would have done even more for you. But this isn’t about My desire to bless your life. It’s about what you prefer over Me . . . over My provisions and interventions. And it breaks My heart! Yet, I must point-blank ask you – why do you disregard My instructions and promises? Why do you continue to choose less than My best for you? Is there a reason you prefer evil pursuits to assuage your emptiness and to fill your loneliness? Why not use your will – the gift I gave you – to choose to be content in Me? To choose Me!”

First, you are a manager of all that’s in your scope of influence. (Ruling the earth and your life.)

Second, God wants you to practice contentment in Him because you trust Him.

Third, God is involved all the time where you cannot see Him. He cares as a Father – enough to bring accountability. God wants to get you back onto His path. This is a clear sign of His deep love for you, and He is heart-broken when you don’t trust Him enough to obey Him.

We haven’t mentioned yet – David got back in sync through this sorrowful situation. He regained his balance. His response to God is beautiful. “I have sinned against the Lord!” (2 Sam. 12:13)

God forgave David and got him back on track. Good accountability carried out in love. God will forgive you and me if we respond like David – with sincere repentance.

Be content in the Lord! You have a loving Third Party who will help!

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