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  • Prepare For Easter – Day 2 (Tuesday): High Priest

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    11 min
  • Prepare For Easter – Day 1 (Monday): Sacrifice

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    11 min
  • Prepare for Easter: Home Page

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    7 min
  • Prepare For Easter Free Devotional Activity- Not Too Late to Sign Up

    It’s Not Too Late!
    SIGN UP for a fun, FREE, brief Easter Devotional Focus/Activity!

     

    Easter Week Devotional Focus
    “Prepare For Easter” is – –

    Meaningful!   Brief!   Fun!   Refreshing!   Read or Listen!    FREE!   And it’s not too late to sign up.

    Starts Monday through Easter Sunday.

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    Quick Overview (and not too late to sign up):
    “Prepare For Easter” features:
    1. Brief Daily Focus – Using a short reflective thought to focus your heart for Easter, each day explores a special role Jesus has in your life. It’s very encouraging!
    2. Fun Activity – Additionally, engage a fun activity each day – by yourself, as a family, with a friend, or with a group.
    3. Teaching Point – By combining the Daily Focus and Fun Activity, each day’s content becomes deeply meaningful.
    4.  

      The reason this Easter resource is so meaningful is . . . 
      Because each session explores how Jesus provides for you!

      Here’s a list of topics we will cover, one each day:

      • Sacrifice
      • High Priest
      • Lover of Your Soul
      • Intervener
      • Intercessor
      • Interconnector
      •  

        As you explore these special roles, you can know without a doubt that God’s love for you is sincere!

        You’ll also receive a BONUS POST – 

        “When You Run Out of Ideas of Where to Hide An Easter Basket.” 

        Since Easter brings hope, joy, and cheer . . . take this opportunity to prepare your heart! 

        IMPORTANT and TIMELY Heads-Up! . . .

        Since Day #3 Fun Activity uses Resurrection Eggs to tell the Easter story with a little reminder token in each egg, to get your set before Wednesday’s Fun Activity:

        • Order NOW (amazon – or another online vendor) OR
        • Visit/call your local Christian Bookstores to inquire about a set OR
        • Make your own.
        •  

          To make your own:

          Incidentally, it’s really fun to make your own set! But it’s also simple. By filling empty plastic eggs with little items, each part of the Easter story can be told. Since the online set (above link) shows detailed pictures of items needed, use that example. And not only kids love this set, but every age!

          However, if you decide not to make or order this tool, our content gives additional options for an activity.

          Alive and Active Life wants your Easter week to be special by connecting with Jesus. 
          So – SIGN UP to participate! – www.aliveandactivelife.org/Easter.
          It’s Not Too Late!
          You’ll be glad you did!

           

          In addition to this Easter resource, visit our website for devotional materials, articles, podcasts, and resources to help grow your faith in God.

          It’s also not too late to receive weekly encouragement in your inbox. Sign up on our email list.

          6 min
        • Another Year Older

          I had my annual visit with my doctor. (Have you had yours?) We sometimes have conversations about long-term health. Apparently, I’m right on target for getting another year older!

          How about you? At some point this year, you will become another year older. So – Happy Birthday!

          Although you and I don’t have control over the inevitable aging process – we can make some good decisions.

           

          What Does The Dr. Say?

          Often there’s a list of things to cover at your annual doctor visit. You probably know your doctor’s list. I know mine.

          When becoming “another year older” (a common doctor office topic), most physicians have a list of advice:

          • Stay active. Whatever your condition, get your heart pumping and lungs working. Exercise your muscles.
          • Take care of yourself. You owe it to yourself to adopt healthy habits, including a balanced diet. Did you know doctors can often tell in younger people – who is and who is not taking care of themselves?
          • Maintain a positive perspective. Perspective affects your whole life. It matters.
          • Stay on top of health concerns. With daily healthy action steps, you can develop life patterns to stay healthier over time.
          • TAKE YOUR MEDICATIONS! Not taking medications is a common frustration to doctors working to help a patient.
          • See you next year, if not before. A yearly appointment is critical as you grow another year older.
          •  

            Another Year Older

            No matter what your age, your birthday simply means you are another year older. This event happens to everyone like clockwork. People celebrate in many ways.

            • Some prefer the old-fashioned idea: I get to choose my meal and birthday dessert.
            • Others go “all out” and celebrate BIG every year, perhaps even a trip. However, this can get expensive and tiring.
            • There’s the big bash on a special birthday. Maybe 6 or 12 for a child. Perhaps each decade all through life.
            • Some folks like a simple, quiet celebration with family or a couple of good friends.
            • P.S. Presents, streamers, balloons and greeting cards fit in various ways into the above scenarios.
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              Which person are you? I know who I am.

              Two key question to ask as you grow another year older –

              1. Am I becoming the person God created me to be?
              2. Am I growing in Christ-like character to be a healthy person?
              3.  

                The Decades

                I’m guessing not many 20 year-olds think about aging. 30 – 40 year-olds? Maybe. Life still looks pretty promising to most people in those decades, unless tragedy has cut into life.

                I used to think getting old was far away. But it is always very close. Getting another year older happens every minute – every day. This process continues even when you are not aware of it. Quiet. Persistent. Unavoidable.

                The reality of getting another year older bends you into someone you didn’t used to be in body, mind, and spirit. You have the privilege and responsibility to decide if that bending is for good – or not. If it’s healthy or dysfunctional.

                Challenges of Getting Another Year Older

                Sooner or later, it happens to everyone. Memory struggles – and you need more lists. Your stride slows a bit. Joints hurt. Muscles and bones ache. Afternoon nap, anyone? Sometimes you start telling a joke and just can’t remember the punch line. Health issues invade. You need glasses for your eyes, aids for your ears, color for your hair (if you still have hair). Sometimes you fall behind in latest technology or global developments and have to play catch-up.

                I’ve often wondered how eternal life will look. Haven’t you?

                • How does the body stay young, strong, and powerful – forever?
                • What renewal process does skin experience to remain elastic and supple?
                • How do joints stay flexible and well-padded despite wear-and-tear activity?
                • What interventions take place to keep the mind sharp, focused in thinking skills?
                • Does the heart never wear out? It just keeps beating forever?
                • Can the human spirit keep going . . . on and on . . .
                •  

                  Aging brings losses. Most people grieve them, though some don’t identify or admit losses. Life in a broken environment has definite impacts. Death and disease. Accidents. Abuse and neglect. Decline and worsening conditions. Natural disasters.

                  But there are also incredible opportunities.

                  1. You can embrace improvements in your life.
                  2. Even if small, you can impact the world.
                  3.  

                    God intended His original design to contain encouragement, empowering, enabling. It was never His intention that growing another year older should be a negative or debilitating experience.

                    Challenges of aging can bend you better.

                    Blessings of Getting Another Year Older

                    Every day is filled with blessing and opportunity. The person who hunts for blessings is healthier. So, train yourself to hunt. Adopt God’s thoughts and ways to ensure aging bends you better.

                    Examples of blessings:

                    • Going places, seeing meaningful culture, art, history, etc.
                    • Being open to other points of view enriches your own perspective.
                    • Having success changing unhealthy patterns.
                    • Enjoying adventures, people, friendships, food.
                    • Cultivating a hobby.
                    • Improving your health.
                    • Reading / listening to great material.
                    • Learning the value of a pause – rich with experience and wisdom. (“Be still, and know that I am God.” Ps. 46:10a)
                    • Gaining wisdom and discernment over the years.
                    • Picking your battles.
                    • Maturing in character and influence.
                    • Accepting challenges and losses to bend life better.
                    • Accepting disappointment and tragedy sometimes precedes new joys and opportunities.
                    • The best blessing – walking with God to know Him better.
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                      Two Helpful Conditions: Love and Trust
                      1. Embracing aging – then giving it back to God – is a sacrifice of love for God. (When you love someone, you are willing to sacrifice.)
                      2. Intense, focused trust in God, who never breaks a promise, bends you better in aging. (When you trust someone, you intensely stay with them.)
                      3.  

                        As you grow another year older, you have many opportunities to live by faith. Chuck Swindoll said, “We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”

                        Opportunities of aging can bend you better.

                        Does Aging Strip You?

                        Well, yes and no. But, the stripping of aging depends partially on how you think and live. Attitudes, habits, patterns, perspective – all affect growing another year older. You have more control than you may realize.

                        A person who bends life better, evaluates their decisions . . . things like –

                        • how to think,
                        • what to say,
                        • what not to say,
                        • what to do,
                        • what didn’t work previously,
                        • what haven’t I tried that might help,
                        • etc.
                        •  

                          When you engage better thinking and living, you strip the power of “aging stripping you!”

                          Inside And Outside

                          Evaluate how your decisions impact your own life and other’s lives. Living with carefully selected priorities and focuses changes the scope and sequence of each day. Just as a 20 year-old can generally increase good health in later years with healthy choices now, so thinking and living wisely now changes the scope and sequence of your on-going life.

                          Look back through memories of your life. How does it look? If you’re like me, you see many blessings, some sadness, some regrets, lots of unexpected developments, and lots that’s inside and outside your control.

                          Life strips you when you give up control God intended you to have and use. Despite everything outside your control, you do have power to choose responsibly, even in tough times. That power is inside your control.

                          • Ask God to train you to use your power as He intended.
                          • Then ask Him to apply His power over your power as a cushioning, corrective measure.
                          •  

                            Is. 55:9 says, “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts.”

                            Adopting God’s “higher ways and thoughts” empowers what’s inside your control, and is the corrective measure of what’s outside your control.

                            Take Charge

                            In addition to better thinking and living, here are some practical action steps to further strip negative power of growing another year older:

                            1. Live each day thoughtfully to bend life better physically, mentally, emotionally, relationally.
                            2. “Do life” with all your heart and might – with passion.
                            3. Strive to be:
                                • Healthy.
                                • Inquisitive.
                                • Pro-active.
                                • Eager to learn.
                                • Servant to others.
                                • Faithful – working at what God puts in front of you.
                                • Celebrating often, even if just in your heart.
                                • Enjoying small blessings all around you.
                                • Engaging relationships, hobbies, reading, great food, exercise, and worship.
                                • Embrace your future with hope. Let aging bend you better.
                                • Seek the Lord. Draw close to Jesus – the same yesterday, today, and forever. (Heb. 13:8) “You who seek God, may your hearts live.” (Ps. 69:32b)
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                                  Application Thoughts and Questions
                                  1. When do you turn another year older? Happy Birthday!
                                  2. What challenges have you encountered as you grow older?
                                  3. What blessings and positive experiences/people have made your life more meaningful?
                                  4. Are you becoming the person God created by letting Him bend you better?
                                  5. What are you doing to grow in Christ-like character and be a healthy person?
                                  6. Are you allowing life to strip you in any way? How can you stop that negative action (see above Does Aging Strip You? and Take Charge).
                                  7. Have you been to your doctor for your annual checkup?
                                  8.  

                                    For additional information – Accomplish Your Purpose: Helpful Steps.

                                     

                                    Before we sign off, I want to tell you about an exciting resource Alive and Active Life has been working on for you. Easter is coming soon, and so is Prepare For Easter. Lives are busy for most people, and it’s hard to focus your heart. So, we’ve developed a rich devotional focus for Holy Week. Each day features 1. a brief focus meditation, 2. a fun activity, and 3. a teaching point. The content drills into practical provisions Jesus brings to make life meaningful and effective in difficult times. 

                                    So – SIGN UP to participate!

                                    You’ll be glad you took a few minutes a day to prepare your heart for Easter. Pass the sign up to your friends, family, church, students – anyone! (It’s all free!)

                                     

                                    Visit our website for devotional materials, articles, podcasts, and resources to help grow your faith in God. Pursue noble character and an Alive and Active Life.

                                    20 min
                                  9. Prepare For Easter – FREE Devotional Activity!

                                    “Prepare For Easter” Devotional Focus/Activity!
                                    You can prepare your heart for Easter!    SIGN UP to participate!

                                     

                                    “Prepare For Easter” is – –

                                    Meaningful!   Brief!   Fun!   Refreshing!   Read or Listen!    FREE!

                                    Starts Monday through Easter Sunday.

                                    Because this content is concise, quality material – busy people with full schedules can easily participate.

                                    You Can Also Listen To This Content

                                    Since this material is designed to help manage your busy schedule, you can just click on the player above each day’s content.  It will look like this image. (This picture is not an active player.)

                                    We’re also published on popular podcast apps, so connect with your preferred app. If you’re already signed up with the Alive and Active Life Podcast, you’ll receive each day’s content in your feed. If you need help, here are instructions to SIGN UP.

                                    Quick overview:
                                    “Prepare For Easter” features:
                                    1. Brief Daily Focus – Using a short reflective thought to focus your heart for Easter, each day explores a special role Jesus has in your life. It’s very encouraging!
                                    2. Fun Activity – Additionally, engage a fun activity each day – by yourself, as a family, with a friend, or with a group.
                                    3. Teaching Point –By combining the Daily Focus and Fun Activity, each day’s content becomes deeply meaningful.
                                    4.  

                                      The reason this Easter resource is so meaningful is . . . 
                                      Because each session explores how Jesus provides for you!

                                      Here’s a list of topics we will cover, one each day:

                                      • Sacrifice
                                      • High Priest
                                      • Lover of Your Soul
                                      • Intervener
                                      • Intercessor
                                      • Interconnector
                                      •  

                                        As you explore these special roles, you can know without a doubt that God’s love for you is sincere!

                                        You’ll also receive a BONUS POST – 

                                        “When You Run Out of Ideas of Where to Hide An Easter Basket.” 

                                        Since Easter brings hope, joy, and cheer . . . take this opportunity to prepare your heart! 

                                        Signup
                                        IMPORTANT and TIMELY Heads-Up! . . .

                                        Since Day #3 Fun Activity uses Resurrection Eggs to tell the Easter story with a little reminder token in each egg, get your set before Wednesday’s Fun Activity:

                                        • Order NOW (amazon – or another online vendor) OR
                                        • Visit/call your local Christian Bookstores to inquire about a set OR
                                        • Make your own.
                                        •  

                                          To make your own:

                                          Incidentally, it’s really fun to make your own set! But it’s also simple. By filling empty plastic eggs with little items, each part of the Easter story can be told. Since the online set (above link) shows detailed pictures of items needed, use that example. And not only kids love this set, but every age!

                                          However, if you decide not to make or order this tool, our content gives additional options for an activity.

                                          Alive and Active Life wants your Easter week to be special by connecting with Jesus.
                                          So – SIGN UP to participate! – www.aliveandactivelife.org/Easter.

                                          You’ll be glad you did!

                                           

                                          In addition to this Easter resource, visit our website for devotional materials, articles, podcasts, and resources to help grow your faith in God.

                                          Incidentally, you can receive weekly encouragement in your inbox. Sign up on our email list.

                                          6 min
                                        • My Three Mentors

                                          Do you have a mentor? When I was younger, I prayed for a mentor. God gave me – not one – but my three mentors. As God often does, He gave them in a much different way than I wanted. Yet, I have come to agree with Him – that His ways are higher than my ways and His thoughts are higher than my thoughts. (Is. 55:9) Interestingly, none of these three people really knew they had become my mentors.

                                          What I Had Wanted

                                          In my limited perspective, I had wanted a specific kind of mentor – someone I could connect with each day, or at least a couple times a week. I also wanted to:

                                          • Ask my mentor good questions.
                                          • Discuss how to practically apply various ideas from God’s Word.
                                          • Look up to this special person as a model.
                                          • Yet, also engage in friendship.
                                          •  

                                            God had a different approach as He selected my three mentors.

                                            First, He took the “distance” approach. In other words, I couldn’t connect with any of them on a daily basis.

                                            Second, God chose people who were very established and engaged in what was in front of them. They lived their lives faithfully where He placed them. Consequently, I didn’t have much opportunity to ask good questions OR discuss how to practically apply God’s Word to my young life.

                                            Third, God showed me He wanted me to look up to all three of my mentors, but always through the lens of Himself.

                                            As a result, I found myself being funneled into an unexpected mentorship. Everything I’d learn would first connect me with God. Essentially, He made it exceedingly clear He intended to be my First Mentor and Dear Friend.

                                            Although God’s ideas about mentorship were different than mine, I accepted His. I also accepted His undeserved friendship. Still, I found myself contemplating a newly-forming dilemma: How EVER could I be a friend back to God?!

                                            My Three Mentors

                                            I mentioned none of my three mentors really knew they had become my mentors. Yet, they possessed –

                                            • A deep, abiding love for Jesus 
                                            • Impeccable graciousness
                                            • Incredible character
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                                              Two of these amazing people, I have known, personally. The third amazing person, I knew only from a distance. Yet, the impact of daily choices of all three challenged me to make my best possible choices in every life scenario. Their lives inspired mine.

                                              Besides these three mentors, I’ve also benefitted from people who didn’t know their teachings and example had caught my eye. These men and women impacted my life – writers, speakers, professors, leaders, world travelers. One professor in post-graduate school, along with his wife, became life-long friends to me. How I still treasure their input in my life.

                                              Some of these dear people were quiet, simple, yet impressive people – with amazing “presence.” Others were up-in-front most of their lives. Regardless, all of them encouraged me to keep pursuing God and His ways.

                                              But my three mentors became my focus as decades added up.

                                              Introducing: My Three Mentors

                                              I followed my three mentor’s lives, examples, and choices. The manner they adopted as they responded to each of their life situations caught my attention. Their consistency over years held my admiration.

                                              I’d like to introduce you to my three mentors. Coincidentally, each of their names begin with “M.”

                                              1. Maydene

                                              This woman was the embodiment of joy! I don’t ever remember her not smiling – a huge, beautiful smile adorned with red lipstick. Her eyes were filled with laughing, and her laugh filled the room. Maydene was God’s blessing to me starting when I was in high school and through my adulthood.

                                               

                                              Since Maydene lived in a different city, God miraculously connected us. I couldn’t get over how genuinely she welcomed me into her apartment as a teen, into her life over the years, and into her incredible love for Jesus. Incidentally, she was a modern example of “boasting in Jesus!” (2 Cor. 10:13)

                                              Maydene always had a deep, abiding love for Jesus!

                                              2. Marcile

                                              This beautiful woman so impressed me when I met her. Her life has continually challenged me over the years. She held numerous positions as she served her family and community. I only know about her being a beautician, and then a fabulous administrative assistant.

                                               

                                              Marcile’s whole person welcomed me. She “brought me close” in a winsome way. I saw her respond like Christ even in frustrating developments of a business office.

                                              Marcile’s impeccable graciousness left such a deep impression on me. I’ll never forget.

                                              3. Her Majesty, Queen Elizabeth II

                                              What can I possibly say about Queen Elizabeth II? If you want to learn more about her life, just google her. Reading between the lines of documentaries or biographies of her life, you’ll see a remarkable world leader who deeply and pensively made decisions that were popular – or sometimes not.

                                              Elizabeth became a Jesus follower in her adult life. Her countenance, decisions, and bold speeches reflected the nature of Christ. She possessed courage, charisma, and commitment. Elizabeth sacrificed so much personally in her private life in order to carry out responsibilities that fell to her.

                                              From Elizabeth, I was challenged to engage incredible character!

                                              Things I Learned From My Three Mentors
                                              A Thankful Heart

                                              First, I learned that a person’s level of gratitude shows the sweetness (or not!) of their inner person. My mentors commanded respect by continually exercising a thankful heart.

                                              Second, I learned that developing and maintaining a grateful heart is an intentional decision, even in difficult times. Choosing to respond with a gracious spirit and a kind heart is an option for everyone. But it is a choice.

                                              There are 3 qualities my mentors practiced that awarded them noble character and a thankful heart.

                                              FOCUS 1: A Thankful Heart Takes DISCIPLINE

                                              To be grateful takes discipline, and that means training. Hebrews 12:11 talks about this training: No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.

                                              Gratitude is a deliberate choice great people make, even when it’s hard. No wonder God often tells His children to be thankful. It’s His original design.

                                              FOCUS  2: A Thankful Heart Requires PERSPECTIVE

                                              Life is pretty challenging, and lots of hard things happen. So, to be deliberate in responding, choose a healthy perspective. Heb. 12:2 says to focus on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith. Jesus chose joy even when He suffered because He trusted and rested in Father’s heart and methods. This joy gave Him eternal perspective.

                                              Adopting Jesus’ perspective gives hope and multiplies gratitude.

                                              FOCUS 3: A Thankful Heart Takes FAITH

                                              When things look terrible, when it seems God is not there, when it feels like your prayers have not been answered, responding well takes faith. However, when you trust God’s goodness, wisdom, and love – you become grateful.

                                              Lack of gratitude is a wall – a subtle form of pride. You expect something better – of YOUR choosing. A person who is not grateful is never happy, never content. They lack Christ’s sweet character.

                                              Conversely, when you are genuinely grateful, it’s harder to sin. So, it’s an “auto deterrent” for sin. True thankfulness is engaged by faith. No wonder Scripture repeats – “be thankful, praise the Lord, have a grateful heart.”

                                              Conclusion

                                              Maydene is waiting for me in Heaven. I just can’t wait to see her smile again and be in the presence of her contagious joy! I still remember how unashamedly she shared her love for God. She always called Him – “The Lord” – a precious memory to me. Her meaning was clear. “Lord” means the powerful God who is also a loving Savior and Friend to broken people.

                                              Marcile is close to Heaven as she finishes her race. Inspired by her impeccable graciousness, I so want to be gracious like her. This woman has been simply beautiful all her years – inside and out! I always felt so special when I could be with Marcile. She had a knack for turning every conversation into a way to nurture me into Christ.

                                              Her Majesty is waiting for me in Heaven. This world leader portrayed incredible character through many trials and overwhelming difficulties. After I bow to Jesus, I may bow to Elizabeth. I want to thank her for doing so many things right in a world that was filled with too much wrong. I admire how she consistently gave deliberate attention to Jesus in her annual Christmas broadcasts, along with a nutshell gospel message. You can look those up online. They are great!

                                              Application Thoughts and Questions
                                              1. Do you have a mentor?
                                              2. If God hasn’t opened that door, why not select someone with Christ-like character and follow their life from afar?
                                              3. Are you willing to live the kind of life someone else can look to for healthy and godly mentorship?
                                              4. What should you change to be worthy of the honor of being a mentor – “from afar” – for someone following your life unknown to you?
                                              5. Is Jesus your First, Best, and Most Mentor? Why not join me in choosing Him?
                                              6. Do you maintain a thankful heart?
                                              7. Are you pro-actively pursuing discipline, perspective, and faith?
                                              8.  

                                                 

                                                Before we sign off, I want to tell you about an exciting resource Alive and Active Life has been working on for you. Easter is coming soon, and so is Prepare For Easter. Lives are busy for most people, and it’s hard to focus your heart. So, we’ve developed a rich devotional focus for Holy Week. Each day features 1. a brief focus meditation, 2. a fun activity, and 3. a teaching point. The content drills into practical provisions Jesus brings to make life meaningful and effective in difficult times.


                                                Signup 

                                                You’ll be glad you took a few minutes a day to prepare your heart for Easter. And pass the sign up to your friends, family, church, students – anyone! (It’s all free!)  

                                                SIGN UP 

                                                 

                                                Visit our website for devotional materials, articles, podcasts, and resources to help grow your faith in God. Pursue noble character and an Alive and Active Life.

                                                18 min
                                              9. Victim or Victor. Which Are You?

                                                I want you to stop and think about a recent crisis moment you’ve had. What happened? A crisis moment is where things change. Your path goes one way – or another. This is the exact moment you decide if you will be a “victim” or “victor!” So, which are you?

                                                Victim Or Victor

                                                To better understand this content, let’s begin with dictionary definitions for victim:

                                                • a person harmed, injured, deceived, cheated, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action.
                                                • An outcome because of war or crime.
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                                                  Now, definitions for victor:

                                                  • An overcomer.
                                                  • A conqueror.
                                                  • Or a winner.
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                                                    Still, the question remains – “victim” or “victor!” Which are you?

                                                    Millions of people have wrestled with this juxtaposition through centuries. “Am I a victim, or victor?” There have been plenty of answers – some of them quite pathetic, while others rather brilliant. I find the most credible answer straight from Scripture.

                                                    Because God is compassionate and solution-oriented, He wants you to succeed with a “victorious” life. Let’s explore God’s help in this material.

                                                    Receiving God’s help starts with your honest evaluation. In your daily details, how do you mark yourself – victim or victor? By this, I mean trusting God for everything –

                                                    • Troubles.
                                                    • Unending challenges.
                                                    • Feeling empty.
                                                    • Discouragement.
                                                    • Feeling trapped by habits and patterns.
                                                    • Frustration over others.
                                                    • Sadness over failures.
                                                    • Being lonely.
                                                    • Depression.
                                                    • And so on.
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                                                      Those life realities force choices. All people live on a human plain where It’s Your Move. How do you typically make your move? Do you have hope for a good path?

                                                      Is It “IM” or “OR”

                                                      Just as it helps to take a step back and logically engage facts when solving a problem, it helps to take a step back and look at words. Sometimes, even helpful word games give you an “edge” in perspective. Often, little gimmicks can help you remember action steps better.

                                                      Here’s an example of a word game with “victim” and “victor.”

                                                      The words start identically with “vict,” right? But look at the ending of each word. That’s where the difference shows. And this difference sets a completely different path in front of you. The question is – will “vict” end in  “IM” or “OR” for you? It’s your decision.

                                                      Let’s start with “IM.”

                                                      “IM”

                                                      Notice that “I” is central in IM. However, when the focus is on “I,” that’s when the trouble begins. Some folks think if you “look inside yourself, identify your process and feelings, take care of you, and express what you think” – you’ll get your answers.

                                                      Although I think there’s value in those endeavors (I am a counselor!), I disagree with the focus on self (“I”) as a place for healthy answers.

                                                      Keeping “self” in your focus is a sure path to destruction. God wants you to succeed. He says, ” ‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’ ”  (Jer. 29:11 – a favorite of many Jesus followers.)

                                                      God wants you to know you are very important to Him. He also says, “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” (Jer. 31:3) So, in your crisis moments, God is with you.

                                                      BUT –

                                                      Focus matters! It’s a main point in a recent article – A Calm Strength. Here’s a quote from it:  

                                                      “Self-focus is endless struggle in life . . . While self-focus is an unhealthy life power, God-focus is a continual, bountiful supply that changes everything: you, the other guy, nations, and the world. Instead of taking up self-focus, take up God-focus.“

                                                      When you put “I” in the center of things, you do eventually become a VictIM.

                                                      “OR”

                                                      You don’t have to be locked into “IM.” Why? Because you can choose to either live for yourself – OR – you can live for God. This shift from self to Him is exactly what makes the difference between “victim” and “victor.” This slight shift of ending letters is simple, yet critical. It changes everything! 

                                                      Instead of focus on “I,” shift your focus to “I AM!” Just a tweek of letters and capitalization makes all the difference in the world! No longer do you need to worry about yourself. God will take care of you. Answers come when you – ” . . . cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” (1 Pet. 5:7)

                                                      God wants His people to get rid of energy-sucking practices of looking inward. He wants you to look to Him.

                                                      Consequently, this little word game is yielding some value. God-focus changes things:

                                                        • Troubles.
                                                        • Unending challenges.
                                                        • Feeling empty.
                                                        • Discouragement.
                                                        • Feeling trapped by habits and patterns.
                                                        • Frustration over others.
                                                        • Sadness over failures.
                                                        • Being lonely.
                                                        • Depression.
                                                        • . . . TO . . .

                                                          Being encouraged and empowered to live a healthy life.

                                                           

                                                          When you put “I AM” (one of God’s names) in the center of things, you become a VictOR.

                                                          Transformation From VictIM Into VictOR

                                                          When you adopt this perspective, BIG THINGS change – a little each day . . . yet – in a big way. You are transformed from victIM into victOR as you focus on God instead of self. Trusting yourself to God – who loves you with everlasting love – means you choose to see crisis moments differently.

                                                          “Keep My commands and you will live; guard My teachings as the apple of your eye.” (Prov. 7:2)
                                                          You could say that verse like this – “I will keep Your commands so I live a healthy life. I promise to keep Your teachings the same way I protect my eyes when something comes flying at me! Since I trust You completely, put me on Your best path for my life. “

                                                           

                                                          You can even fight sin patterns and habits like a victor – not a victim.

                                                           

                                                          Picture by Desiring God

                                                           

                                                          So – you can focus on self – “I”
                                                          – OR you can focus on “I AM!” Which is it going to be for you? Victim OR Victor.
                                                          Victim Or Victor Scriptures
                                                          • “But You, God, see the trouble of the afflicted; You consider their grief and take it in hand. The victims commit themselves to You – the Helper of the fatherless.” (Ps. 10:14) After applying the promise of this verse, you are transformed from a Victim to a Victor.
                                                          • Since there are many Scriptures about victory you have in Christ and how to be victorious, why not open your Bible and engage a word study? You’ll find promises to claim.
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                                                            Juxtaposition

                                                            Earlier, I used the word juxtaposition. Now I want to explore that word’s fascinating implications.
                                                            Some dictionaries give two definitions:
                                                            1. An act or instance of placing close together – side by side, especially for comparison or contrast.
                                                            2. The state of being close together or side by side.
                                                            3.  

                                                              We’ve explored that people compare and contrast “victim” or “victor” – often without thinking. Then they apply either healthy or unhealthy (dysfunctional) choices.

                                                              But what we haven’t looked at yet is the second definition of juxtaposition. “The state of being close together or side by side.”

                                                              Consequently, this definition is a key to flipping from “victim” to “victor.” Simply put – to partner with God by being close to Him side by side in faith is a launch into success. This puts you on the path God intended for your life. It’s why Jesus became your human “connect point” to God. Jesus is the side-by-side that brings you close to God.

                                                              Connect Point

                                                              Explore how to connect with God in daily situations (even if you’re a seasoned Jesus follower):

                                                              • Accept God’s invitation. God invites you back into relationship with Himself.
                                                                  1. Acts 16:31 gives an “easy-to-follow” invitation for eternal life – “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.”
                                                                  2. However, His saving gets even better! For daily help in life details, connect with God through His promise. “. . . wisdom and knowledge will be given you.” (2 Chron. 1:12) This is God’s invitation – “Ask for whatever you want Me to give you.” (2 Chron. 1:7)
                                                                  3. Another “easy-to-follow” invitation when life gets tiring and hard – “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Mt. 11:28) 
                                                                  4. Your Own Pursuit. Jer. 29:13 says, “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.” You have something to do with this. You need to pro-actively connect with God.
                                                                  5. Receiving Instruction. I’ll say it again – Get Into God’s Word: Even With A Super Busy Life! So receive from God’s Word. Then receive instruction from other credible Jesus followers. 
                                                                  6.  

                                                                    I leave you with a Chuck Swindoll quote. “We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.” So, think about “great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations” in your crisis moments. You can go one way – or the other.

                                                                    Application Thoughts And Questions
                                                                    1. Are you a victim or victor?
                                                                    2. Do you believe God loves you and wants you to succeed?
                                                                    3. Have you followed Scripture to connect with God?
                                                                    4. What do you need to change to be healthy in Christ?
                                                                    5. Are you coming side by side to Jesus by faith – your “connect point” to God?
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                                                                      For practical help and strategies in crisis moments, check out It’s Your Move.

                                                                       

                                                                       

                                                                       

                                                                       

                                                                       

                                                                      For action steps and encouragement to study God’s Word, check out How To Effectively Get Into God’s Word: Even With A Super Busy Life.

                                                                       

                                                                       

                                                                       

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                                                                    7. Looking For Donkeys – God’s Timing

                                                                      What a weird title for today’s content. But I promise – it’s straight out of Scripture! But what does “looking for donkeys” have to do with God’s timing? Sometimes “looking for donkeys” oddly describes life. But that’s not reason enough to designate a full article to it. So, what is reason enough? I’ll give you a clue. It has a lot to do with God’s timing.

                                                                      The Back Story

                                                                      To begin, let’s dive into 1 Sam. 9:1-27. You can read this chapter on your own, but let’s briefly explore its content points:

                                                                      • Saul was the son of Kish, a Benjaminite.
                                                                      • He was young, handsome, taller than most others, and he stood out in a crowd.
                                                                      • This chapter reveals Saul still had a humble, pure heart at this earlier stage of his life.
                                                                      • God put Saul and his servant on “Donkey Hunt” . . . for three days! Saul’s dad’s donkeys somehow wandered off, not to be found.
                                                                      • Saul’s servant was wise and had integrity – a good thinker who focused on his master’s success rather than is own. He even offered his own money to accomplish their task of finding and giving a gift to the “man of God.” (who might help them find their donkeys!)
                                                                      • This hunt for donkeys was ordained by God, perfectly timed to cross these two men’s paths with Samuel, the “man of God.”
                                                                      • While these guys were running all over the place, chasing donkeys, God was speaking to Samuel with instructions of what to do when Saul and his servant showed up.
                                                                      • Samuel knew he was to anoint Saul as king over God’s people.
                                                                      • This is what Samuel said when they finally met up together in God’s timing. “Go up ahead of me to the high place, for today you are to eat with me, and in the morning I will send you on your way and will tell you all that is in your heart. As for the donkeys you lost three days ago, do not worry about them; they have been found.” (v. 19-20)
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                                                                        That gets us started.

                                                                        God’s Timing

                                                                        God worked out His intricate plan down to the minutes where these three men would meet. Interestingly, God used lost donkeys to connect them. Even though the donkeys had already been found and were safely kept to return to Kish, God was busy doing something else here. “Donkey Hunt” was for His own incredible purposes.

                                                                        The day before, God had told Samuel about His timing. Here’s how He said it, “About this time tomorrow I will send you a man from the land of Benjamin. Anoint him ruler over My people Israel; he will deliver them from the hand of the Philistines. I have looked on My people, for their cry has reached Me.” (v. 16) And He used donkeys to get this done. Notice God’s people had been crying out to God – also waiting for His timing.

                                                                        When Saul and his servant asked where Samuel could be found, the townspeople told them Samuel was headed to a special celebration. So Saul and his servant headed that direction. “When Samuel caught sight of Saul, the Lord said to him, “This is the man I spoke to you about; he will govern My people.” (v. 17)

                                                                        So, Samuel was relying on God to show him in the appointed moment who Saul is. He didn’t know before hand. Once they were identified, Samuel invited the two men to the celebration and told them the donkeys were fine.

                                                                        At The Celebration Feast

                                                                        By faith, a special portion of meat had been set aside – ahead of time. Samuel had asked the cook to set it aside until he requested it. At the appointed moment, Samuel asked the cook to bring that special portion to the table. This meat was set aside for the future king – for Saul. Verse 24c says, “. . .it has been kept for you until the appointed time.” (AMP)

                                                                        God is so invested in human history – and in your life – He keeps certain things until the appointed time. God’s commitment is very assuring, especially in difficult times. Though you do not know the details – trust Him. He’ll come through!

                                                                        Ever Feel You Are Chasing After Donkeys?

                                                                        Maybe you feel you aren’t making a difference or having meaningful impact. Just doing things as weird or meaningless as chasing after donkeys. I want to encourage you. If you are doing what God has put before you, remember that God’s timing puts everything strange, odd, senseless, or boring into context.

                                                                        Since God knows everything before it happens, He threads creative intervention into circumstances. Nothing happens in your life God is not aware of before it comes to you. Some things cause His heart to ache for you because the world is broken from His original design. However, as you trust Him, He’ll always step in to help, guide, protect, and comfort you.

                                                                        God creatively accomplishes His purposes despite our broken world. Because His plans are creative and surprising, they keep you wondering what He will do next. Nothing can blindside His plans. He says this, “I know the plans I have for you: plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jer. 29:11)

                                                                        When you realize God has purpose and intimate interest in your life, a level of assurance springs up inside you. Someone really cares about everything that happens to you.

                                                                        God’s Timing And Your Life

                                                                        I want to share an idea as well as challenge you with a “self-eval exercise.”

                                                                        Idea

                                                                        God has impeccable timing. There’s no limit to His knowledge or power, and He loves you. Because He wants you to spend eternity with Him, He did something unthinkable. He commissioned His own Son to change His “personhood.” All that Jesus was/is –

                                                                        • Almighty God
                                                                        • Great Creator
                                                                        • The Word
                                                                        • Son of the Father
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                                                                          – would remain BUT He would also become a human person like you and me! So, The Word changed His very personhood to become Jesus. That, in itself, is mind-boggling. He truly is incredible!

                                                                          So, the idea summarized is simply this: since there’s nothing God can’t do, and since He loves you deeply, He has a wealth of protective and tender timing woven into your life – because of what He did through Jesus.

                                                                          Do you believe God has a wealth of protective and tender timing woven into your life? Do you believe He loves you deeply?

                                                                          “Self-Eval Exercise”

                                                                          I challenge you to engage in this “self-eval exercise.” In all your daily duties and donkey chasing, live each moment by faith in the awareness that God holds all things together for you, even when you feel you are chasing donkeys. That’s straight out of Col. 1:17 – “He is before all things, and in Him all things hold together.” Even for your life.

                                                                          Now the points of your “self-eval exercise.” Think through what you’ve done so far today – or this week.

                                                                          1. First, what’s going on inside you?
                                                                          2. Next, how often have you turned to God for wisdom and guidance in your scenarios?
                                                                          3. Has your heart claimed and enjoyed the “peace that passes understanding” Jesus promised? (Phil. 4:7)
                                                                          4. Where has worry or anxiety affected your heart as you solve problems?
                                                                          5. Is your approach to your life one of serving and worshipping God who became human in the person of Christ?
                                                                          6. Do you trust God’s timing?
                                                                          7. Do you trust His love?
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                                                                            I encourage you to jot thoughts in a journal or in your device as you ponder those questions. Your “self-eval exercise” requires being pro-actively involved and honest. Otherwise, you can’t call it “self-eval.”

                                                                            God’s Eval

                                                                            We can evaluate our own lives. But Scripture makes it clear God evaluates us, as well. Not only is there a “final eval” for every person when Jesus returns and sets up His Kingdom. There are daily evals along the way. Those evals, implementing principles of God’s Word, are helpful in growing to be more like Christ.

                                                                            God doesn’t intend evals to be nerve-wracking final exam experiences. He simply wants you to –

                                                                            • Call on Him,
                                                                            • Seek Him with all your heart,
                                                                            • Walk with Him,
                                                                            • Ask for His wisdom and discernment,
                                                                            • Trust Him,
                                                                            • Obey Him,
                                                                            • Love Him back, and
                                                                            • Rest in His abiding love for you.
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                                                                              That’s how God evaluates you. Not your performance so much, but rather your heart toward Him. God’s timing is wrapped around adopting God’s principles in daily living.

                                                                              Since He has kept certain things until the appointed time – you can live in peace. It’s all about God and you doing life together.

                                                                              Scriptures say God accomplishes His purposes with His zeal. Is. 9:7 is an example. “The zeal of the Lord Almighty will accomplish this.” You can know God will accomplish whatever concerns you today.

                                                                              Application Questions And Thoughts
                                                                              1. Have you been chasing donkeys, wondering what meaningful purpose your life has?
                                                                              2. Do you believe God holds all things together for you?
                                                                              3. Do you believe He has perfect, impeccable timing?
                                                                              4. How long has it been since you’ve done a “self-eval exercise?”
                                                                              5. Have you accepted God’s timing in your life?
                                                                              6. Will you welcome the zeal of the Lord into your heart, and let Him accomplish His good purposes?
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