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  • Accomplish Your Purpose – Helpful Steps

    So, did you accomplish your purpose today? Yesterday? Are you on-target with your life purpose?

    • Think back to when you start your day:
    • Before getting out of bed, multi-thoughts fire as you contemplate another new day.
    • Getting dressed, life responsibilities already form in your brain.
    • Downing breakfast, you focus on making progress today.
    • You might jot “to do’s” in your planner so you don’t forget.
    • At your work place, ideas about life balance might appear . . . and quickly disappear as you dive into responsibilities.
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      With duties bombarding your waking hours – do you accomplish your purpose for being alive? Do you know why God created you?

      Accomplish Your Purpose

      When I was much younger, I remember wondering about my life purpose. Without too much trouble, I could name my responsibilities. I had goals and a good plan to accomplish them. Interestingly, I even spent time identifying some dreams and hopes hidden in my heart.

      But to answer – “How do you accomplish your life purpose?” – I didn’t know what to say.

      One day during my time with the Lord, something stood out – an answer.

      What Is Your Purpose?

      Here’s the Scripture that helped. Jn. 17:3 says, “Now this is eternal life: that they know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent.” Suddenly, I grabbed that nugget. The purpose of life (here and eternally) is simply – to “know God!”

      This verse suggests knowing God – the only true God – comes only one way: through knowing Jesus Christ, sent by God to become human. Once again, Jesus shows up in the very middle of everything that matters.

      Enoch and Methuselah
      • Enoch was 65 when he finally became a dad to Methuselah! By today’s standard – that’s old!
      • Then Scripture says, “After he became the father of Methuselah, Enoch walked faithfully with God 300 years and had other sons and daughters.” (Gen. 5:22)
      • Enoch lived 365 years. Interesting number. One year for every day of our year! 365. (Gen. 5:23)
      • Gen. 5:24 – “Enoch walked faithfully with God; then he was no more, because God took him away.” Enoch loved God and was faithful to Him. Then God “took him away.” Hmmmm – apparently Enoch’s life wasn’t over yet. There was more life purpose ahead.
      • Finally, Gen. 5:27 says this about Enoch’s first son – ” . . . Methuselah lived a total of 969 years, and then he died.” Wow! This guy was really, really OLD!! The oldest man who ever lived.
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        So those are some interesting facts about a man Scripture chose meaningful words to describe –  “Enoch walked faithfully with God.” I’d love to have those words said about my life! How about you?

        Enoch accomplished his life purpose because he was getting to know God well!

        Accomplish Your Purpose To Know God

        What does it mean to know God? How does that affect your day on a practical level? Can you live a normal life and still know God?

        As a simple, ordinary person, I think those are good questions. After all, maybe you’ve had some of these realities I’ve had in daily life:

        • You lack wisdom.
        • Blaring in your face is your weakness, not your strength.
        • Although you trust God, you find fears nesting in your heart. Fear of:
          • failure,
          • pain,
          • what people will think,
          • missing God’s best,
          • exposing unattractive character in yourself or someone else,
          • hurting or letting someone down,
          • your past might interfere with future progress.
          • The task before you is overwhelming. You tremble at what God asks you to do.
          • Lack of eloquence and trouble thinking on your feet interfere.
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            Do you ever wonder if you simply don’t have what it takes to accomplish your purpose? You do love the Lord and want to serve Him. You want your life to make a difference in this world. But your portion seems small compared to others who have a purpose that rocks the world – people like Moses or Paul.

            Think of it this way. None of the things on the previous list weigh-in on your purpose. We already established Scripture declares you accomplish your purpose when you “know God,” when you “walk faithfully with God” like Enoch did.

            To Accomplish Your Purpose, Think Differently

            To accomplish your unique purpose, you need to think differently. Instead of comparing yourself to the likes of Moses, Paul, Martin Luther, Mother Teresa, Jim Elliott – compare yourself to “Christ in you.”

            Your life is different than everyone else. Your purpose is unique. As you walk with God – like Enoch did – you fulfill a one-of-a-kind special purpose. God designed it that way.

            In the same way no person’s thumb print is like another’s, no person’s purpose is another’s. Although we are the same in many ways, we are very different from each other. Here are some points about “same and different:”

            Same And Different
            1. God wants the same for every person – to know Jesus personally! (Jn. 17:3)
            2. God wants every person to embrace their uniqueness and enjoy being different from everyone else. This differentness shows His creativity and glory.
            3. Something God wants the same for every follower of Jesus is strong commitment to trust and obey Him. This beautifully displays the consistent, unchanging loveliness of Christ through different colored lenses of each person’s life. So even in sameness, there’s differentness.
            4. God also wants the same for all His children – peace. “Peace that passes understanding.” (Phil. 4:7) This peace launches from a platform of gratitude. 1 Thess. 5:18 says, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
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              How do these elements of “same” and “different” provide unique purpose for each person? How do they help you think differently? I believe it’s through another term – “fear of the Lord.”

              What Exactly is the Fear of the Lord?

              Most people don’t ever think about this concept. They believe fear is only negative. And when they equate fear with God, they back away from Him.

              If this has been your experience, I have great news. The fear of the Lord is a very positive thing. It’s super special. Intimate. Inviting. Encouraging. Comforting. Kind and good. The fear of the Lord opens the door to begin to know the heart of God. So, it helps you find your purpose.

              “The friendship of God is for those who fear Him.” (Ps. 25:14) And Prov. 9:10 announces, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” God only shares His heart with people who trust, obey, and rest in Him (fear Him).

              Let’s define the fear of the Lord with some helpful phrases:

              1. A deep reverence in your heart for God, His holiness, and His opinions.
              2. A respect for His ways, plans, perspective, and agenda that drives your choices.
              3. An attitude you yield to because you’ve had a peek at God’s love and power. Or perhaps you haven’t had a peek – but want one.
              4. Resolve to do life God’s way, whether you like it or not. Whether you agree or not. Whether it’s easy or not.
              5. Willingness to take care of God’s interests over your own.
              6. Practicing gratitude in every issue or problem. Gratitude does not depend on feelings. It’s an attitude of your heart. You do have control over your attitudes.
              7. An intentional choice to love God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. To want Him more than anything in life. (Mk. 12:30; Phil. 3:7-11)
              8. A pro-active decision to yield as a “living sacrifice” for God (Rom. 12:1), aligning your life with God’s principles.
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                Did you notice those key words?

                1. Reverence
                2. Respect
                3. Attitude
                4. Resolve
                5. Willingness
                6. Gratitude
                7. Choice
                8. Yielding
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                  God’s Glory

                  We must remember God’s glory is pinnacle as you work to accomplish your life purpose.

                  Here’s a testimony someone sent me recently: “The Lord’s message to me today was very clear. My life ‘s purpose is to bring Him glory through obedience and life choices, which never focus on me.”

                  Quite insightful, don’t you think? God is glorified when you agree (Step One) with His original design to know Him (Step Two) and live obedient to His excellent ways (Step Three).

                  That is how to accomplish your life purpose. Bringing glory to God!

                  Practical Application Steps
                  1. Step One – The fear of the Lord is agreeing with God. Completely. Consistently. Continually. Cheerfully. Lots of “C’s.” Are you agreeing with God as Step One to accomplish your life purpose?
                  2. Step Two – When you practice fear of the Lord, you begin to know God more intimately. His power rises and affects your daily living because it connects you to God’s heart, fellowship, and love. Get in His Word and pray to know Him.  Knowing God is Step Two to accomplish your life purpose. Are you taking this step each day?
                  3. Step Three – After putting Step One and Step Two into place, you’ll notice changes in your heart. God is speaking to you and working in your life. Perhaps correcting some things, revealing new things, showing better patterns. Step Three is to embrace His new work with courage and resolve to be a living sacrifice. Fully surrendered.
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                    You can accomplish your purpose every day!

                     

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                    18 min
                  5. God’s Dimension: Real And Very Near

                     

                    One freezing early morning, I pushed back my curtain to see what the winter storm did to my yard overnight. My eyes struggled to focus in the flood of “sun-on-snow” brightness. Gradually adjusting, I saw something magical. It was like a story book scene. This piece of incredible winter art – in front of my eyes – reminded me – God’s dimension is real and very near.

                    (If you live in an area where this weather never happens, I’m including a few pictures so you can imagine.)

                    What Did I See?

                    The scene outside my window was gorgeous! How can I best describe something that looked magical? I’ll simply try.

                    At first glance, a snapshot lodged in my memory. This scene featured a frozen crystal blanket that had wrapped around everything. Breath-taking. Very still. Untouched. No snow falling. Just crisp, frozen morning moments.

                    Ice-encased objects wrapped in translucence permitted light to pass through. It truly felt “other-world.” If I hadn’t experienced what I saw (and what happened next), I wouldn’t have believed it. But I’m pretty sure I was fully awake!

                    I noticed a misty steam lifting from objects as the rising sun brushed across them. Trees wore perfect-fitting ice gloves. Every tiny twig was transparently encased. Long, slender pine needles were hugged by individual translucent frozen sleeves. Everything hung in silent, crystal beauty. In reverence. In worship.

                    The invitation to me? Was I going to participate with nature in worship in that short moment? I said “yes!”

                    Not Too Unlike Narnia

                    Near the street lamp pole (not too unlike Narnia) illuminating vertically was a “living brilliance.” Something was literally dancing in the air. Thousands of tiny, shimmering diamond-like flecks were whirling around – like after stirring a pot of pixy dust. Or like shaking a snow globe and watching sparkles lightly float. But there was no globe, and nobody shook anything. These tiny gems were just there. Crystals suspended mid-air, moving with delicious joy – their secret existence now exposed to my eyes.

                    Apparently, this performance was happening everywhere in my yard, invisible except where betrayed as sun pierced a slice of atmosphere at just the right angle. Otherwise, I would have never seen!

                    As the sun crept up in those moments, the sparkling fleck phenomenon began to inch away from the pole (likely because the sun’s angle changed as it rose higher in the sky). And – wow! To my astonishment (and delight) that illuminated slice of magic – glittering, frozen jewels vibrating with joy– migrated right up to the glass I was transfixed behind. I couldn’t stop gazing. So I lingered. Wondered. And worshipped the God whose dimension is real and very near.

                    God’s Dimension: Real And Very Near

                    My brain was trying to process what I was seeing. I’m sure some scientist could have told me exactly what phenomenon was taking place. Though I grew up enjoying visible concerts of aurora borealis, I’d never seen anything like this. I’ve seen double rainbows that warmed my heart. And I’ve held in my hand a perfect, huge, ripened strawberry in all its glory. Quietly, I’ve observed the magnificent aerodynamics of a humming bird moving like a wee helicopter from bloom to bloom. And I’ve even seen beautiful winter scenery before. But my soul was captivated by this magical display.

                    Imagine my loss if I’d decided I was too busy to look out my window, or if I’d been deep in thought and didn’t focus to take in the beauty, or if I’d doubted what my eyes saw and left the window to “get on with my day!” How many amazing moments are missed in the course of our lives that God intended to encourage us with His love and with holy delight? How great is the loss we aren’t even aware of?

                    While my heart enjoyed wonder and worship, my brain finally caught up. This phenomenon was going on right now all around my home even though I could only see a slice of it in the sun’s angle. All very near. So real. Undeniably present.

                    In those short minutes, I gained a peek into God’s dimension. And I realized anew that, even though unseen, God’s dimension is real and very near. With a little imagination, it was possible to be amazed at what might also be going on right now in the spiritual world!

                    And then – the magic was gone. Full sun overpowered the invisible.

                    God’s Dimension – The Kingdom Of Heaven

                    Jesus said, “The Kingdom of Heaven is at hand.” (Mt. 10:7) Some translations say, “The Kingdom of Heaven has come near.” It’s all around you right now. You can see it under rare conditions when a portal between the seen and unseen world opens. Then it’s gone. The rest of the time, you live in God’s dimension by faith. When you get peeks, they are treasured moments.

                    But the goal is not “experiences.” The goal is to live by faith and discipline in God’s glory! Reality is not defined by your senses, experiences, or deductions. Reality is defined by God. However, His magic touches your life all the time, even in sorrows. God’s dimension is real and very near even though you can’t see it.

                    It’s hard to live in peace and hope when something terrible has threatened your world. It’s hard to respond courageously to sorrow or tragedy. But with eyes of faith, and with resolve, it’s possible to still see glory all around – right now, even in times of trouble.

                    Slices of Terrible

                    I’ve experienced “slices of terrible.” I’m guessing you have, too. Those tragic developments threaten inner peace and pluck away joy.

                    When your day reveals slices of terrible, there’s still a kind of magic present. The Scriptures call it God’s grace. It’s the miracle of His presence all around – “in your spiritual yard.” We cannot see this glory most of the time during moments of personal tragedy. However, Scripture promises – “joy comes in the morning.” (Ps. 30:5) In God’s timing, you will see again His dimension is real and very near.

                    Slices of Calm

                    Because this world can be terribly cruel, Jesus opened a door you can walk through anytime, night or day. Mt. 11:28 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

                    If you need a glimpse of God’s glory, or sanctuary in His protective heart, a place to renew, or just to remember you are deeply loved – walk through that door. Look out your spiritual window for slices of calm still present all around you right now.

                    Slices of Eternity

                    One day – for those who have trusted Jesus for forgiveness and eternal life, there will be magical wonder every day. It will be worth it when we get to the place Jesus is preparing. He will dry your tears and wash away the terrible slices of this broken life.

                    You will live in wonder, joy, and amazement. Each day will provide discovery, fellowship, extraordinary experiences, as well as phenomenon that can’t be explained – better than the winter art I observed outside my window. Slices of calm will be your new reality.

                    1 Cor. 2:9 says, “. . . no eye has seen . . . no ear has heard . . . no human mind has conceived the things God has prepared for those who love Him . . .” 

                    The wonder and magic of God’s dimension is real and very near. Blessed is the person who accepts this right now and lives aware of it by faith. Incredible things are going on all around us – right now!

                    Can’t See It Now – But You Will

                    If you could see everything in the unseen dimensions, you wouldn’t be able to express it easily. When God showed His dimension to John (who wrote Revelation), John could barely record what he saw. Rev. 1:3 says, “Blessed is the one who reads aloud the words of this prophecy, and blessed are those who hear it and take to heart what is written in it, because the time is near.” He recorded the message best he could. And he accepted it.

                    When Ezekiel was given a glimpse into God’s dimension, he stumbled with words to communicate what he saw. It was beyond his ability to describe in human language. He kept talking about “wheels” and trying to explain a “wheel intersecting a wheel,” and so much more. (Ezek. 1:16; 10:10 are examples) He could barely interface with God’s dimension – so real and near. But he accepted it.

                    Occasionally, God opens a peek into His dimension. Some have written about it. But – see it or not – we all live in it. God’s dimension is real and very near right now. It’s His miracle-like magic. All very near. So real. Undeniably present.

                     

                    Application Questions and Thoughts
                    1. Do you believe God’s dimension is real and all around you right now?
                    2. Recall a time you’ve had a “slice of terrible.” What happened?
                    3. Do you embrace God’s invitation into a “slice of calm?”
                    4. Have you accepted God’s unexplainable dimension is real and very near you – right now?
                    5. Why not open your heart to receive any little thing God wants show you?
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                      16 min
                    7. Pass The Baton

                      During the Olympics, relay races are run with a team of superbly trained athletes – and with a baton. In one critical moment, a race is often won or lost. What is that moment? It’s the moment when runners pass the baton. Races are lost or won based on speed, of course. Yet, an accurate baton placement secures the race. This element is drilled again and again by coaches.

                      To pass the baton in a race is a big deal. It’s an even bigger deal to pass the baton in daily life.

                      Pass The Baton and Technology

                      Even in these modern times, life is a challenging race, don’t you think? But we have tools to make a difference. No other generation has been so blessed with science, medicine, and technologies that make life profitable and enjoyable.

                      This content about your life race would be incomplete without a strong focus on technology. You can manage your life race by implementing various technologies.  Education is in your reach anywhere in the world with online resources. Information is available for all kinds of applications with a quick google search. Fix-it-yourself YouTubes are common. Monitoring your calendar, responsibilities, and appointments is at your fingertips on your phone. Virtual business meetings or visits with friends can happen on zoom. Even medical equipment is easily synced wirelessly. It’s a new virtual world!

                      However, a virtual world doesn’t provide meaningful existence, peace, and hope people long for. Fear and insecurity still lurk in people’s hearts as they run their life race. Even as people explore the purpose of their existence, the enemy targets to render them ineffective. He uses anything – even technology.

                      People are hungry for something technology can’t give. They ask questions every generation asks.

                      • What is life all about?
                      • Is there a God?
                      • Who really is God?
                      • How can I know Him?
                      • Why do I sometimes feel at odds with God?
                      • How can I live a relevant life in this digital age?
                      • Is there more to life than patterns, careers, advancements, and daily drudgery?
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                        People need purpose to run their race, even in our age of technology. You need to pass the baton.

                        Pass The Baton

                        Even though Paul didn’t have technology, he effectively talks about the race of your life. Being a good coach, he provides training points. This dramatically-converted Jew, becomes a baton-passer for Jesus and discovers his passion.

                        Consequently, Paul introduces critical, global ideas about passing the baton.

                        1. Paul declares a true Jew is anyone who believes on Jesus: Israelite or Gentile.
                        2. He passes the baton to many nationalities, cultures, and ethnicities by inviting everyone to know God and train in godliness.
                        3. Additionally, Paul wants you to run a strong race on equal footing to everyone – in your own lane. And he wants you to grab the baton and partner with God.
                        4. Finally, Paul wants you to become a trainer of others and pass the baton to them.
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                          Have you studied Paul’s e-pistles in Scripture? He’s passing the baton to you. Have you grabbed it?

                          Pass The Baton Themes

                          Although not always directly, Paul focuses on baton passing. This Pharisee leader – once proud, cocky, and zealous – now a follower of Jesus – is completely different.

                          How is he different?

                          • Paul now writes with humility, experience, and skill. That’s new for Paul!
                          • His baton pass engages pains-taking quill-and-ink letters written to early fledgling churches – a labor of love and time, often while in chains. This is also new for the man who used to hunt Jesus followers.
                          • Also, Paul’s training provides creative ideas and practical examples for life situations. Definitely a step away from empty traditions he once insisted on.
                          • Paul has future generations in mind – like our technology generation. God passed the baton to Paul – to pass to you and me – to pass to others. Subsequently, this edifying passion builds Christ’s church.
                          • He cares deeply about people’s needs. Paul changed focus from his own reputation – to pass the baton for Jesus by focusing on each person.
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                            This “transformed Paul” wants you to know your life race matters. His training involves special themes for your life race.

                            1. God’s Grace

                            God’s grace is one of Paul’s themes. Paul once targeted people that didn’t “make the cut” in his eyes. He hunted and persecuted them. Then the Spirit of God transformed this strong runner as he surrendered to training in God’s Grace. Subsequently, His decision for Jesus Christ rocked the world – and still does.

                            Paul opened his heart to receive God’s active grace. He urges you to do the same in three ways:

                            • Trust God’s grace. Get in the race!
                            • Be obedient to prove you love God back. Train!
                            • Rest in Christ. Relax. Be the person God created.
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                              Because these training points work, “Jesus runners” can successfully and humbly pass the baton to others.

                              Living in God’s grace helps you join the race!

                              2. Giving Up Rights

                              Paul modeled giving up personal rights. What transformation for this egotistical Pharisee, zealously pursuing the wrong stuff. But Paul found his individual purpose and passion. Therefore, as Paul gave up his rights, God trained him to focus on the “baton hand-off” maneuver.

                              So, two questions for you:

                              1. Have you given up your personal rights?
                              2. Have you found your individual purpose and passion?
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                                God knows your design and how to train you. Why not find your purpose and passion?

                                Giving up personal rights helps you find your purpose and power as a team runner.

                                3. Training

                                Paul’s baton-passing focus is two-fold:

                                1. God’s grace (already mentioned) – a very humbling reality.
                                2. Working out salvation – gratefully, courageously, sacrificially agreeing with God.
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                                  Because training is required to be a good runner and pass the baton, you need to know How To Get Into God’s Word Even With A Super Busy Life. There is no other book on earth as relevant as God’s Word even in our digital age of technology. So, train daily with God. Agree with Him on every point. Work out your salvation.

                                  Jesus said, “Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will never pass away.” (Mt. 24:35; Mk. 13:31; Lk. 21:33)

                                  Since it’s the only thing that will last, don’t you think it’s good to be in Scripture daily?

                                  Training and working out your salvation builds you into a solid team runner.

                                  4. Humility, Strength, Healing

                                  You can be humble.

                                  You can be strong.

                                  And you can be healed.

                                  Your faith in Christ’s redeeming work on the cross enables race maneuvers you couldn’t manage before, including how to pass the baton. But it requires humility to respond with strength while opening your heart to heal.

                                  So, train. Run. Pass the baton. Help someone live with “freedom and confidence.” (Eph.3:12)

                                  Being humble, strong, and healed is the baton-passing secret that makes you a strong runner with influence.

                                  Your Baton

                                  Just as Paul realized, so it is for you. Running a good life race means mastering “passing the baton” – which means obeying your Coach –

                                  1. With actions. Do you obey God till it hurts? Actions that please God are baton maneuvers.
                                  2. In words. Does your every word reflect Christ’s high-functioning influence? Words are a baton-pass.
                                  3. By attitudes. Do your moods and disposition reflect Jesus’ sweet character? Godly attitudes increase your baton skills. (Eph. 4:23)
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                                    The best baton pass is when you run your race with actions, words, and attitudes that please God.

                                    Somehow, God empowers simple obedience to run a strong race and pass the baton.

                                    Your Race Matters

                                    Your life matters, friend. Since you are a valued member of God’s team:

                                    • Run your race!
                                    • Train daily to share God’s love and hope through Jesus.
                                    • Pass the baton.
                                    • Use technology as a resource.
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                                      Your task is integrating Paul’s training points into our technology-loaded times AND passing the baton.

                                      Application Thoughts and Questions
                                      1. What’s life all about for you?
                                      2. Have you grabbed onto the baton and learned how to pass it?
                                      3. Do you believe your race matters?
                                      4. Are you daily opening your heart to God’s transforming grace?
                                      5. Have you given up your rights?
                                      6. What commitment have you made to work out your salvation daily?
                                      7. Honestly assess how to grow in humility, strength, and healing. Make a list of action steps for changes.
                                      8. Are you spending regular time reading, studying, memorizing, and meditating on God’s Word? (Remember: meditating is picturing how to carry out it out.)
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                                        God wants you to grab your technology tools and start running. Learn how to pass the baton to others who desperately need the Lord.

                                        Check out these resources that give practical action steps, encouragement, training points, and life tools to run a strong race each day. Learn to pass the baton! Some of today’s content comes from two books. Once you’ve completed them, you’ll have studied every e-pistle (letter) Paul wrote to help Jesus followers run well.

                                        1. E-pistles for an i-Generation: Relevant in a Digital Age
                                        2. More E-pistles for an i-Generation: Relevant in a Digital Age.
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                                          Another resource we mentioned today is How To Get Into God’s Word Even With A Super Busy Life. This ebook does just what its title says.

                                          Order your copies of these resources now.

                                          Visit our website for devotional materials, articles, podcasts, and resources to help grow your faith in God. Pursue noble character and an Alive and Active Life.

                                          18 min
                                        4. The Fan

                                          Have you ever received a gift from someone that became a super special treasure – but the giver didn’t know it, and neither did you? That’s what we’re going to talk about today. I didn’t realized how special a gift I received would be over the years after it was given to me. But to this day, I really like “The Fan!”

                                          The Fan

                                          Let me tell you the story of the fan. Way back when I was a young adult, some missionaries came “home” to the USA from their field of service. For some reason (I don’t recall it), Mrs. Missionary and I met in their temporary apartment. If I had to guess why I was spending time with this more seasoned person, it was likely that I had admired her from afar. She had lovely character. Plus she was really pretty. And – she invited me!

                                          Anyway, we had a lovely conversation – best I remember. I believe she provided refreshments which she’d made in their tiny kitchenette behind a half wall.

                                          I remember commenting on a gorgeous, large wicker fan displayed above their loaned couch. It was almost 4 feet wide, about 2 feet high, and had a very attractive weave design. Mrs. Missionary had skillfully woven it with pretty silk flowers. I just loved it and complimented her.

                                          The Fan Surprise

                                          You can imagine my surprise – actually, shock was more like it – when Mrs. Missionary offered the fan to me! That was an easy answer for me – “Oh yes!” They were leaving to go back to the field and couldn’t take everything with them. I’m guessing she had wondered what to do with it, and prayerfully realized her answer was me!

                                          Upon delicately taking the fan off the wall, which then looked bare, I thought I’d fallen into the best bargain of the year! Totally unexpected. It was so delicate, I handled it careful. Because it was so large, I had to walk through the door sideways. And then all the way home, I guarded my new gift.

                                          I thanked the Lord for this beautiful decoration, not ever realizing how it would go with me through decades of my life. And I would always trace its origins to the small wall in a temporary apartment above a loaned couch, kindness of Mrs. Missionary.

                                          The Fan Changed

                                          When I got home, I immediately made plans to integrate the fan into my home decor. The colors and presentation became my little dream. I also used silk flowers of a different color. The fan now reflected my own home, the wall it graced, and the room it adorned. I gratefully remembered Mrs. Missionary who cared enough to share something with me from her home.

                                          There followed lots of moves over the years. Yes, this lovely fan changed presentation over the course of young family living, reflecting new colors and themes of the room it occupied. Always it brought compliments. And always I felt proud of it – thankful for Mrs. Missionary’s kindness.

                                          Mrs. Missionary

                                          I want to talk about Mrs. Missionary for a minute. Did you notice the flavor around her as I described her. This woman gave me more than a fan. She gave me a peek into admirable character.

                                          • First, she invited me to her temporary apartment. It was a pit stop for them. Still, she shared it with me.
                                          • Second, I saw how she made this temporary dwelling a lovely home with what she had.
                                          • Third, she engaged conversation meaningful to me, the younger adult, even though she didn’t know me well.
                                          • Fourth, she gave me food and drink from a limited storehouse of a very tiny kitchenette.
                                          • Fifth, she shared from her meager home decor without feeling any loss. Apparently, she had given everything up to the Lord, so it was easier to part with things, say “good-byes,” and live in temporary, continually-changing circumstances.
                                          •  

                                            Mrs. Missionary had the aroma of Christ. (2 Cor. 2:15)

                                            What I Learned From Mrs. Missionary

                                            So, what is the take-away from this woman who gave me her fan? I learned several things from that short, one-time visit:

                                            1. Hold material things, including homes, with an open hand.
                                            2. Be quick to share what you have with others.
                                            3. Whatever circumstances you have, be content and grateful, even if it’s temporary.
                                            4. Bring color, creativity, beauty into your life and home through little things around you, even if it’s temporary.
                                            5. Put people first. Engage them in meaningful conversation and value what God is doing in their life.
                                            6. Serve others genuinely and generously with what you have, because their life is valuable to God.
                                            7. Remember to pray for others who have invested in your life or given gifts to you.
                                            8. Work to be like these “mini-mentors” God provides on your life journey, even if it’s a one-time event.
                                            9.  

                                              What Am I Telling You?

                                              As I share this story from many years ago, what am I trying to say as I reflect on my gift – the fan?

                                              Well, besides the special lessons I learned from Mrs. Missionary, I also want to mention three more things about gifts.

                                              First

                                              I learned how important it is to value the generosity of others. This was a beginning training lesson God was teaching me about valuing what people bring to life – big or small. Very much like how Jesus valued the five loaves and two fishes a little boy gave Him.  I bet that little boy felt like a million bucks! He saw Jesus feed over 5000 people with his little lunch from his mom’s tiny kitchenette. And he knew he had a part in that miracle. Jesus was excited about this little boy’s gift, and so was the little boy! That event was so special to God, He designated a descent portion of Scripture to tell the story through all centuries. (Jn. 6:3-13)

                                              Second

                                              I saw it was important to have quality character to share what you have with others. Have you noticed the crises around the globe? Never should people be hungry in today’s world – especially as many as are hungry now. Never should people have little to no clothing or medical supplies for their needs. And never should they not have heard the name of Jesus! Are you aware of lonely or needy people around you? What about those who are depressed or discouraged?

                                              Third

                                              The Lord challenged me to be satisfied with what I have, even in seasons of limited resources of young family living. The training to take what I have and “beautify it” for God’s glory – and as a statement of contentment in my circumstances – was a valuable learning point I’ve taken forward with me.

                                              So, what am I telling you? I guess simply what God and Mrs. Missionary taught me. And I should follow their example.

                                              But It Doesn’t End Here

                                              I’m also saying it doesn’t end here. This isn’t really just about getting gifts – like the fan – and being grateful. It isn’t just about serving others and meeting their needs. This is about being like God.

                                              Jesus said, “Be perfect like our Heavenly Father is perfect.” (Mt. 5:48) He defines our Father as the “Giver of good gifts.” (Jas. 1:17) Our Heavenly Father is good to all, blessing sinners and saints alike with sun, rain, and harvest. He is deeply compassionate to those locked into difficult circumstances. Our Heavenly Father loves every person no matter who they are or what their situation. God is way too good to us all. Are you like Him? Are you reaching to others around the world?

                                              God’s goodness climaxes in His incredible gift of His Son. It blows my mind that God even became a human! That He will remain human forever – like you and me – is unfathomable. Isn’t it just amazing that God loves us so much, He wants to identify with us forever? To be one of us through eternity?

                                              And none of us deserves this special gift from God. It’s a life-changing gift – a big surprise, undeserved – given from a heart of kindness.

                                              Application Questions and Thoughts
                                              1. Do you strive to have kindness of heart God displays toward others? Toward yourself?
                                              2. In what ways can you be more like Mrs. Missionary? Be specific.
                                              3. Are you overflowing with gratitude for blessings in your life? Blessings are co-travelers with trials. Have you listed your blessings? Do you focus on them? Or do you concentrate on your trials?
                                              4. Perhaps instead of feeling frustrated and limited by your circumstances, look for God in each detail. How does He want you to connect with Him? What about presenting an impression of Jesus on another person by adopting the high functioning spirit of Christ?
                                              5. Is your response to others filled with the grace and sacrifice that sent Jesus to the cross as He intercepted God’s righteous anger?
                                              6. What do you need to eliminate in your assumptions about others?
                                              7.  

                                                May you be richly blessed as you pursue the lovely, sweet aroma of Christ in all your dealings with others. And may you be a Mr. or Mrs. Missionary kind-of-person that leaves a permanent testimony of Jesus.

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                                                15 min
                                              8. I Have Behaved

                                                I’m not sure what comes to your mind when you ponder the title of this article. I suppose those words are not commonly spoken. In my own history, I can think of times I certainly have behaved. I also recall some times I have not. Hopefully the times I have behaved are becoming my norm as I work hard to know God better.

                                                Anyway, I’d like to delve into this unusual statement – “I have behaved.” Did you know it comes straight out of Scripture?

                                                I Have Behaved

                                                “I have behaved” comes straight out of Scripture. It really caught my eye. As a result, I’ve found myself contemplating the Scripture it came from –  Ps. 131:2a. I decided to search numerous translations of this phrase. Interestingly, this exercise proved refreshing and instructional.

                                                1. “I have calmed and quieted my soul.” (NIV)
                                                2. “I have learned to feel safe and satisfied.” (CEV)
                                                3. “I have restrained and composed my soul.” (DARBY)
                                                4. “I am content and at peace.” (GNT)
                                                5. “I have behaved and quieted myself.” (KJV)
                                                6. “I am quiet now before the Lord.” (TLB)
                                                7. “I have certainly soothed and quieted my soul.” (NASB)
                                                8.  

                                                  Look with me at each translation. Let’s see what we can pull from each version’s word choices.

                                                  1. I Have Calmed and Quieted My Soul

                                                  First observation: most versions start with – “I have!”

                                                  “I have” suggests you have control over the concept presented in the remainder of the sentence. You have “say so.” Ownership. Buy-in. This translation, focuses on a choice to calm and quiet oneself.

                                                  In today’s world of counseling, it’s recommended to talk about what is going on inside you. But good counsel is incomplete unless it also includes discussion about taking responsibility for yourself and lining your life up with Scripture.

                                                  This Scripture strongly suggests personal responsibility for choices and conduct, no matter what the scenario. Notice – no scenario is given. So, this generic, strong recommendation applies in any given situation. “You have” and “I have” been given capacity to calm and quiet our souls.

                                                  No matter what you are going through, God’s Word says you have the power to calm and quiet your soul. 

                                                  2. I Have Learned to Feel Safe and Satisfied

                                                  In addition to the “I Have” power you possess, this translation gives a fresh reference to learning. Being in process. Growing. Becoming. What a kind way for Scripture to instruct people. God knows we are in process, and He’s OK with the fact that we continue to learn all our lives.

                                                  This learning process also suggests you can choose to feel safe and satisfied!

                                                  Safe

                                                  Apparently, choosing to feel safe goes beyond being safe. Being safe is important, and it infers no threat of danger. But life is filled with dangers and challenges. If a person manages their life well, they should be putting certain principles into place for safety.

                                                  1. Choosing to not participate in destructive processes and relationships.
                                                  2. Choosing to definitely participate in constructive learning opportunities and relationships.
                                                  3. Setting good boundaries to prevent unhelpful things from happening.
                                                  4. Asking God for wisdom to address confusing or perilous situations.
                                                  5. Obeying every directive God gives, even if you don’t understand.
                                                  6.  

                                                    Sometimes you’ve done all those things, and danger still threatens – a reality of our fallen world. What then?

                                                    This Scripture says learning to feel safe in addition to doing everything possible to be safe is an additional measure. Because God is who He claims, because He is good, because He is deeply loving – you can be safe and feel safe in Him. More than a “feeling,” it’s a knowledge God is with you.

                                                    Satisfied

                                                    Being satisfied does not mean everything is the way you want it to be. Instead, it’s a choice to be content in any circumstance – a spiritual discipline. Of course, if you can make things better, do it. But sometimes there is nothing more to do.

                                                    Phil. 4:11-13 says, “. . . I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. Yes, I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.”

                                                    That’s being satisfied.

                                                    In every life situation, God’s Word says you have the power to learn to feel safe and satisfied.

                                                    3. I Have Restrained and Composed My Soul

                                                    What does it mean to be restrained? Composed?

                                                    Dictionaries give ideas like “holding back, keeping in check, under control” when defining restraint. They give ideas like “making or forming, putting in proper order” when defining compose.

                                                    Combining these ideas together with “I Have,” suggests the ability to control your responses and put your choices in order. You can restrain and compose life responses in a kind of “sculpting” way: through actions, words, attitudes.

                                                    You get to choose how to respond. Be creative as you put your choices in order. Engage pensive responses that please God and bring peace to your soul.

                                                    So in every daily scenario, God’s Word says you have the power to restrain and compose yourself.

                                                    4. I Am Content and At Peace

                                                    We explored being content (satisfied) in one of the previous versions. Now, let’s look at the concept of peace.

                                                    Once again, dictionaries offer definitions like: “non-warring, agreements, treaties, mutual harmony, normal freedom,” etc. And that’s what our communities in the world hope for.

                                                    But Jesus offers something better. “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”  (Jn. 14:27)

                                                    Peace from Jesus is deep, rich, lasting – even in a world that lacks peace. God’s peace is the central condition of being rightly connected with Him, believing His Word, obeying His commands, and enjoying a relationship with Him. This peace can run alongside all the troubles of this broken world. Because of God’s peace, so different from the world’s peace, Jesus could add the words He did at the end of His promise of peace – “Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”

                                                    Consequently, no matter how threatened global peace might be, God’s Word says you can be content and at peace in Jesus. 

                                                    5. I Have Behaved and Quieted Myself

                                                    Here’s the version that won the title of this article. I Have Behaved. And it adds – quieted myself.

                                                    So – do you behave in situations as they arise? Do you conduct yourself with maturity? We’re talking about choices again. It’s fully in your control – “Whatever happens, conduct yourself in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ.” (Phil. 1:27a) Did you know that’s in the Bible?

                                                    Apparently, God created you with a design that supports your ability to behave in any situation you find yourself in, and to quiet your inner person. This is not something you muster up yourself. It’s a dependable, creative power that flows directly from God’s Spirit into yours. Are you hooked up to this flow and ready to receive? Is your intention to behave? Will you choose to quiet yourself in Christ’s love – the One “who loved you and gave Himself for you?” (Gal. 2:20c)

                                                    Apparently, there is no situation that can render this ability you posses – ineffective. You do have the power to behave and quiet yourself.

                                                    6. I Am Quiet Now Before The Lord

                                                    After exploring previous translations, this version adds an additional flair. This person has completely accepted what God says. Already having “behaved,” they are resting in the Lord. Now! Accepting truth and acting with appropriate, godly responses – they enjoy being already at peace.

                                                    I love how this version shows the “after effect” of healthy choices of all the previous versions. No more struggle.

                                                    • Calm.
                                                    • Quiet.
                                                    • Safe.
                                                    • Satisfied.
                                                    • Restrained.
                                                    • Composed.
                                                    • Content.
                                                    • At peace.
                                                    • Behaved.
                                                    • Quieted.
                                                    • Done!
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                                                      God’s Word says you were intended to live this way – always – quiet before the Lord. BUT – you must choose to live here. 

                                                      7. I Have Certainly Soothed and Quieted My Soul

                                                      But there’s more! The result of living quietly before the Lord brings certain qualities that strengthen, comfort, and encourage you daily. There is a refreshing element that rises inside you like a cool spring. You find yourself soothed. And this condition fortifies every boundary, condition, attack, insult, relationship, joy, physical affliction, or mental state you will encounter.

                                                      Are you “certainly soothed” as you follow Jesus? Have you quieted your soul in Christ?

                                                      In any life condition, God’s Word says you have the design to live soothed and quieted in your soul. 

                                                      Since I Have Behaved . . .

                                                      Heb. 11:6 says, “And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to Him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek Him.”

                                                      There is reward for those who have behaved. God promises more of Himself. He gives wisdom and power. Relationship with Him changes every scenario in this broken life. And a glorious eternal future belongs to those who choose to behave.

                                                      Application Question

                                                      Application for this content is simply one question: Can you say from your heart – “I have behaved?”

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                                                      17 min
                                                    • A Calm Strength

                                                      A calm strength! Does that describe you? Although you may not believe me, it can describe you. If I asked you – “does your life have any stress” – what would you answer? Similarly, if you rated yourself on a scale of panic in problems, where would you mark yourself? How would you rate your approach to each day? So, I ask again: do you have calm strength?

                                                      Since we have lots of questions. let’s begin today’s content.

                                                      Calm Strength

                                                      Calm strength is rare. Do you know someone who exemplifies it? You can be a person of calm strength. However, to accomplish this, you need a miracle source. Since you live in a world overflowing with trouble and chaos, you need courage to address problems, to carry out good plans, and to move in a positive direction. But when you run out of courage, where do you get more?

                                                      “A calm strength that never got into panic.” (My Utmost For His Highest, Oswald Chambers, Oct. 21.) What a great quote! I’d like some of this calm strength. What about you?

                                                      People gain calm strength only one way – a miracle way. The quote I shared was written about the calm strength of Jesus. He embodies it in everything He does. Consequently, He is also the miracle source for your calm strength supply.

                                                      What Jesus Does

                                                      Better than anyone, Jesus is a model of humanity functioning inside God’s original design. It’s incredible, really! Jesus shows how to be truly human in the very manner God intended from the beginning.

                                                      Why is this true? Let’s look at focus as we dive further into our content. Self-focus is endless struggle in life. But calm strength is not a quality of self-focus. While self-focus is an unhealthy life power, God-focused is a continual, bountiful supply that changes everything: you, the other guy, nations, and the world.

                                                      Instead of taking up self-focus, take up God-focus.

                                                      So, what are we saying here? Basically, God-focus is the start point for calm strength. We are also saying something else. There are few God-focused people. Maybe some. But not enough to catch the gaze of our faltering world.

                                                      Drag and Drudgery

                                                      It’s true, right? Many things happen in the course of your life that resemble drag and drudgery. I’m quite confident a “natural man” perspective would have made Jesus’ life that way, too. However, He did not have a “natural man” perspective. He had a super-natural, God-focus.

                                                      Still, let’s explore. If Jesus had engaged self-focus, it might have looked more like this:

                                                      • How many times must I say the same thing to these guys before they actually “hear Me?”
                                                      • Didn’t I do this same miracle yesterday?
                                                      • Have you ever seen so many needs in the sea of humanity? Gosh!
                                                      • Why don’t people just believe Me? Surely by now, they know I tell the truth and never lie!
                                                      • With just a word, I could have legions of angels doing My bidding. Does anybody “get” that?
                                                      • Doesn’t My love mean anything to these folks?
                                                      • What’s it gonna take?
                                                      •  

                                                        It is safe (and incredibly remarkable) to say Jesus never had any such perspective. His approach to human depravity was always rock solid. Refreshingly creative. Compassionate and loving. Calmly strong.

                                                        It would be accurate to say Jesus had a platform of “calm strength that never got into panic.” Even in extreme conditions – like when soldiers drove nails into His hands and feet – Jesus likely had a human panic, but it was wrapped up into His calm strength. How could this be?

                                                        The short answer? Jesus’ focus was on His Father. Consequently, when human panic would have been natural, He delivered a calm strength to guide humanity back into God. Jesus overcame drag and drudgery in every form.

                                                        Fresh Life and Calm Strength Take Time

                                                        If you knew you could have fresh life each day, wouldn’t you want it? If calm strength was in your grasp, wouldn’t you close your hand around it?

                                                        Fresh life and calm strength only come from Jesus. And He offers a healthy stock-pile to you and me. Imagine! Fresh life and calm strength pulsing into you – 24/7!

                                                        God’s methods are anything but dull and boring. Still, He uses time to accomplish His ways. Christ’s character is claimed by practicing it and praying for it. That means time. Calm strength is not learned in five minutes.

                                                        Hand-In-Glove

                                                        Being noble and an example of Jesus in a broken world means being exceedingly flexible. As you bend into His image and invite His miracle in your heart, God forms you into His likeness – over time.

                                                        Refreshingly, it’s a “hand-in-glove” arrangement. You don’t have to come up with this stuff on your own. You simply let the vibrant, life-pulsating hand of God slip into your empty shell-of-a-glove life. Flex! Bend!

                                                        Paul calls this living sacrifice. (Rom. 12:1) Jesus says it’s giving up your life completely to Him. Hear His words. “Whoever finds (and protects) their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for My sake will find it.” (Mt. 10:39)

                                                        To have God’s hand in your glove is an incredible honor. You gain His character through this arrangement. As you give up your life to let His life come forward in you, He saves you – from sin and death – and in every daily situation. Consequently, you finally become the person you were created to be. Finally, you have a supply of calm strength.

                                                        So, when you don’t know what to do, go hand-in-glove!

                                                        But It’s A Terribly Broken Life!

                                                        Since life is tragically broken and full of troubles, left to your abilities to pull things together, you would lose!

                                                        However, you can offer your entire person, to an extraordinary person. This means setting aside your own interests to take up the interests of this other person. Although this may feel odd, it’s the one thing that connects you with the person you were created to be. And it puts you in the flow of calm strength.

                                                        This other person is the only one who can bring harmony and purpose to broken lives in a shattered world. This amazing person is Jesus. He specializes in making things as they should be.

                                                        Chosen

                                                        Do you know you are chosen by God? Before He created the world, you were in His great heart. He made your life glove shaped for His loving, mighty right hand. Jesus wants to fill you with His Spirit. That means you match your life to His, making every thought, word, and deed congruent to His. And He does a miracle inside you.

                                                        God chose you. But only an act of your will completes this arrangement. God has no intention of forcing you to respond to Him. Still, there is always the invitation – “Come to Me. Let Me share My calm strength with you.” You do your part. God does His.

                                                        Jn. 15:19 says, “As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.” How significant. Christ has chosen you for Himself. But He lets you decide if you will choose Him back. As a result, this is the most important decision you will ever make.

                                                        Do you agree with God that He chose you? Do you choose Him back?

                                                        Transformed Into Calm Strength

                                                        Too often, Jesus followers assume their salvation is the only saving Jesus does. Actually, I believe Jesus desires to save His followers in a continual progression that passes through the cross into every day living. We already mentioned this a bit earlier. But let’s unpack it more.

                                                        2 Cor. 3:18 gives interesting insight into being saved. “And we all . . . are being transformed into His image with ever-increasing glory . . . “ The portrait of a believer is Christ’s cross and empty tomb for eternal salvation PLUS being saved continually in daily details, habits, and problems of life. The goal is to reflect Jesus “with ever-increasing glory” as believers choose Him back in the moment, every day.

                                                        So in every struggle and problem, as you “Come to Me. Let Me share My calm strength with you,” your very essence and person begins to be transformed to your middle. This only happens as you welcome it. This decision is confirmed through “living sacrifice.” Die to self and live for Christ. Shift from self-centered to God-centered. From self-focused to God-focused.

                                                        Jesus followers must choose increasingly – “God’s way, not my way.” They open their entire life glove and step back so His great hand slips in to make all the difference.

                                                        This hand-in-glove way of living is a virtual picture of Christ and His calm strength. Wow.

                                                        Application Thoughts And Questions
                                                        1. Does calm strength describe you?
                                                        2. If I asked you – “does your life have any stress” – what would you answer?
                                                        3. Similarly, if you rated yourself on a scale of panic in problems, where would you mark yourself?
                                                        4. How would you rate your approach to each day?
                                                        5. Have you decided to open your empty glove to God’s life-giving hand?
                                                        6. What does ever-increasing glory mean in your daily decisions and responses?
                                                        7. When you look in the mirror, do you see a likeness of Jesus?
                                                        8. Remember: “God’s way, not my way.”
                                                        9.  

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                                                          * Some of these ideas come from Oswald Chambers thoughts, My Utmost For His Highest, Oct. 21 and 25.

                                                          16 min
                                                        10. Steps To “Turn the Corner” In A Loss

                                                          Without any warning, something hits you hard – and you realize it’s challenging to manage a life loss! Sometimes, you feel you’re drowning in sadness . . . cut off from good things . . . observing others’ joy at a distant like a dream . . . wanting so badly for “normal” again . . . just  wanting hope to return. Yet, you still face your loss. So, how do you “turn the corner” in a loss?

                                                          Turn The Corner In A Loss

                                                          This is about your life! When you are hurting, turning the corner seems hard, even distant. Sometimes, depression has already rooted, and life seems empty. So, let’s get to work. How can things change? Since most of life is outside your control, what difference does it make to try to turn the corner in a loss?

                                                          As painful as this process can be, there’s a glow of hope attached to it – like the glow of a single candle someone forgot to blow out. And that candle speaks to your heart. “There are still good times ahead of you, special relationships to experience, celebrations to participate in, and joy that multiplies the light of a single candle into an entire choir of candles!”

                                                          But how do you get there? What needs to happen to turn the corner in a loss?

                                                          Promises From Someone Who Can Help

                                                          Because God keeps His promises, you can claim them in your losses. Here are some affirming promises to start with:

                                                          “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness.” (Jer. 31:3)

                                                          “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified . . . for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.” (Deut. 31:6)

                                                          “The Lord your God . . . takes great delight in you; He renews you by His love; He shouts for joy over you.” (Zeph. 3:17)

                                                          “You are precious and honored in My sight, and . . . I love you . . . ” (Is. 43:4)

                                                          Comfort

                                                          Promises are powerful. Comfort is real. You can have both from God. Since He offers comfort, take in this comfort by faith.

                                                          “May Your unfailing love be my comfort, according to Your promise . . .” (Ps. 119:76)

                                                          “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” (Ps. 23:4)

                                                          “You will increase my honor and comfort me once more.” (Ps. 72:21)

                                                          The former verses present what God says on your behalf. These latter verses talk about how you will take His promises and apply them for your life.

                                                          Similarly, more Scriptures like these take you on a journey through loss into comfort as you work to turn the corner in a loss. Still, it helps to have practical action steps to make this turn. This means investing energy, resolve, and your whole heart into the process. And sometimes, this can be hard to do. But, it’s worth it.

                                                          So, let’s explore action steps that light your path. Eventually after giving your one candle to God, you come to a place where many candles glow all around you. He honors your faith in His promises!

                                                          Helpful Action Steps To Turn The Corner In Your Loss

                                                          This list of practical action steps helps you turn the corner in your loss. They also help you navigate daily life all year.

                                                          1. Be Honest and Real

                                                          Be honest and real about your life event and loss. You don’t have to pretend, deny, or sweep your loss under the carpet. It is part of you now.

                                                          2. God Cares and Loves You

                                                          Remember, your life is extremely important to God. He cares and loves you. As you draw close to God, He will help you accept and adjust over time. God renews your hope as you turn to Him.

                                                          3. Refuse to Blame God

                                                          Refuse to blame God. He did not pick you out of the crowd to pierce your heart. Quite the opposite. He singled you out of the crowd – and took the pierce that threatened your life. His work on the cross gives hope, even in painful seasons. If you are seeking to place blame, remember your enemy who hates you and uses this broken world to pierce people.

                                                          4. Be Aware Of God’s Presence

                                                          Ask God to help you be extra aware of His dear presence. When you bathe in His deep, abiding, dependable love, you release yourself into God’s comfort and grace. You will never regret this leap of faith. Consequently, you’ll find unexplained peace even in your pain. (Phil.4:7)

                                                          5. Move Forward

                                                          Keep being real. Weep. Be honest. But refuse to stunt your life or become paralyzed. There is more of your life ahead. There comes a time to wipe tears away and move forward. God is still good and wants to share His goodness and love with you. Will you let Him?

                                                          6. Manage Your Thought Patterns

                                                          Keep negative, downward-cycling thought patterns out of your head. These are not even part of grieving. They are self-absorbed and unhealthy, in good times or bad. Healthy grieving spends time with memories and then seeks to move forward, even in extreme sadness. There may even be anger. That is normal. Grieving co-exists with good that’s still present in life. Together, these two, grieving and good, take you to a better place. But it’s up to you to actively guard your heart against downward cycles that suck the very life out of you.

                                                          7. Identify and Fill Voids

                                                          As you identify voids, begin to fill them with healthy events, positive people, and new traditions. You are not neglectful or disrespectful toward your loss when you welcome new blessings into your life. In fact, by moving forward with your memories and wishes it could have been different, you validate your loss. Your memories and wishes affirm you have good reason to grieve. So, make the loss worthwhile by letting God redeem it. Fill voids and open your heart to His healing.

                                                          8. Build With Others

                                                          Proactively build with others. Even if in small ways, be adventurous. Try new things. Let courage grow. Make new memories with others for your future. In fact, let losses propel you into experiences and relationships in healthy ways. Don’t be afraid to embrace more candles.

                                                          As you apply these action steps, you’re being a healthy person. What you practice is what you become.

                                                          My Experience To Turn The Corner In A Loss

                                                          Although our life situations and details are different, my life is not that much different than yours. Sorrow slams into my world, too. Crisis works to beat me down. Despair whispers lies. Energy is depleted. Dreams get smashed.

                                                          So why do I still have hope? Where does the glow of my single candle come from?

                                                          Mt. 11:28-29 says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

                                                          This is Jesus, Himself, speaking. The God-man. And I choose to believe Him. This helps me rest in His active, medicinal love. And I am healed. But it does take time and resolve. Listen to this process of increasing the glow of more candles:

                                                          1. Coming to Jesus with weariness, burdens, and losses is the beginning.
                                                          2. Letting go of losses into His love and care is next.
                                                          3. Accepting everything He wants to give – comfort, healing, renewal, rebuilding – puts a new path in front of you.
                                                          4. Taking up gifts He offers means nothing until you take them. So open your heart and accept them.
                                                          5. Learning next steps from the Man, Jesus, who had many losses in His life. He is helping you through a season of more training.
                                                          6. Leaning into Christ’s gentle, humble, strong heart fills your heart with the glow of a miracle. His gentleness, humility, courage, and strength become your own.
                                                          7. AS THIS IS HAPPENING – you find rest for your inner heart. You finally find the place where more candles shine brightly.
                                                          8. And now – you can and must go forward in your life.
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                                                            Summary

                                                            If God didn’t care deeply about your heartaches, He wouldn’t have sent Jesus to be your Savior, Friend, and dearest Companion. Jesus willingly came to suffer with and for His dear people to show God’s love, to forgive sins and heal bodies, to raise the dead, to comfort those who mourn and suffer. Then at the climax of His life, He gave up His life to pay the ransom for sin once-for-all and conquer death.

                                                            One day, Jesus will come back as a great, powerful, beautiful King. Under His reign, no one will suffer or die. Every need will be met abundantly. The aching human heart will be healed. No one will be afraid or lonely. Ultimate comfort will be your constant reality!

                                                            The good news? This King extends intimate, loving friendship to you – NOW!

                                                            Application Questions and Thoughts
                                                            1. So, the message of hope – the glow from one candle – is this: God is already in process of putting a path of comfort before you. This path has hope and a future. He will take you to a place with many candles – and prosper your life. (Jer. 29:11)
                                                            2. Will you let Him? Will you trust Him for this?
                                                            3. Why not choose to come near God, even as He has already come near you? (Jas. 4:8)
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                                                            5. Plans For Hope And A Future In Last Days

                                                              Have you noticed the talking points of world news recently? Wars, rumors of war, famines, earthquakes, tsunamis, hurricanes, tornados, forest fires, floods, demonstrations in the streets, military muscles flexing, political unrest, various discriminations, mounting deceptions, despair. And more! Wow. What a state our world is in. Is it even possible to contemplate good plans for hope and a future?

                                                              It’s Getting Worse!

                                                              You cannot be well-informed without noticing – it’s getting worse. I’ve noticed! Surely, you have, too. But interestingly, Jesus told us this was going to happen. Let’s look at several passages to get the flavor of His “heads-up” warnings.

                                                              Matthew 24:6-7

                                                              This first passage in Matthew’s gospel gives both warning and comfort. How thoughtful of Jesus to esteem our partnership and position as His sons and daughters to give this critical information.

                                                              “You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places.”

                                                              What’s the take-away? My guess – no matter how terrible things get in the world, we can have assurance about good plans for hope and a future in Jesus Christ.

                                                              Mark 13:7-8

                                                              Then we move to a passage sounding alarmingly familiar to Matthew AND to news reports you hear every day. In the gospel of Mark – 

                                                              “When you hear of wars and rumors of wars, do not be alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be earthquakes in various places, and famines. These are the beginning of birth pains.”

                                                              My first reaction to current talking points of daily news is deep concern. But then I remember these words Jesus spoke. The deteriorating conditions are mounting, like mounting birth pains. And again – He gives a respectful “heads-up.”

                                                              So, we can conclude – God still promises good plans for hope and a future.

                                                              Luke 21: 25-28

                                                              Well, this next passage talks about the universe, the nations, and anguish of individuals.

                                                              “There will be signs in the sun, moon and stars. On the earth, nations will be in anguish and perplexity at the roaring and tossing of the sea. People will faint from terror, apprehensive of what is going on the world, for the heavenly bodies will be shaken. At that time they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.”

                                                              Hearing the stunning promise and pausing to picture what it will be like, my heart almost skips a beat. We’ll see Jesus breaking through the skies, returning to set everything right and establish His glorious Kingdom. Consequently, there will be no more fears and tears, suffering and turmoil, brokenness and threats.

                                                              So we should look up to Father and rejoice. Why?

                                                              Because Christ’s return is near with good plans for hope and a future.

                                                              Sound Familiar?

                                                              I’m not sure what you’re thinking. But I’m thinking the content of these verses sounds familiar to current events. Through history, many Jesus followers thought His return was very soon.

                                                              However, things happening now have a persuading pattern of increase – like mounting birth pains. Since events build on one another, my attention is certainly engaged.

                                                              We Don’t Know

                                                              There’s something you and I share in common with every person who’s ever walked the earth, including Jesus. We don’t know when Christ will return. 

                                                              This isn’t my idea. Mk. 13:32 says, “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in Heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.” Jesus said this! He knew He didn’t know when He’d return. And He was totally OK with that. If He doesn’t know, you and I certainly can’t know! Are you OK with that? 

                                                              What an incredible example. Simple trust in Father’s timing and good plans for hope and a future.

                                                              Jesus then says, “Be on guard! Be alert! You do not know when that time will come.” 

                                                              Good Plans For Hope And A Future

                                                              Just when you think, “It can’t get any worse” – just as the human heart begins to shrivel and lose hope – God steps in with good news! He forewarns because of His love. He clues-you-in with wise instruction –“Keep your head in all situations.” (2 Tim.4:5)

                                                              God’s good news to you is Jer. 29:11-13. “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart.”

                                                              This is one of my favorite Scriptures. It nurtures my spirit, strengthens my daily efforts, renews my vision, and stirs my passion into action yet again.

                                                              God speaks about good plans for hope and a future. Strength for feeble hearts. Renewal for tired spirits. By intervening, He prepares a path in front of you. Incidentally, He also “prepares a table for you in the presence of your enemies!” (Ps. 23:5)

                                                              God knows what is best and promises good gifts to line your path. However, if you don’t receive these good gifts (by faith) then they’re still not yours. His gifts almost always look different than you picture.

                                                              The Same Yesterday, Today, And Forever

                                                              Not only does He promise to take care of you and be with you. God does not change like shifting shadows. This world changes constantly, and resulting shifting shadows cast doubt, fear, and threat over your life.

                                                              But God is not like that. He is the Giver of good plans for hope and a future.

                                                              Jas. 1:17 says. “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.”

                                                              So, pause – and with rising confidence – simply trust, obey, and rest in the God of your salvation.

                                                              He Knows Plans For Hope And A Future

                                                              God knows all things. Since this includes everything about your life, He is aware of what’s behind you, what’s in your current scenario, and what’s in front of you. His special plans are good plans for hope and a future.  

                                                              God knows how to help you through struggles and troubles. After all, He is wise – and a dear Friend. There is no power that can stop God. Therefore, you can fully trust Him with your needs, future, family, career, and your whole life.

                                                              Good Plans – To Prosper, Not To Harm

                                                              We can’t leave this material without mentioning one more reality Scripture predicts. Every time I read this next passage, I become sober and pensive.

                                                              “Then you will be handed over to be persecuted and put to death, and you will be hated by all nations because of Me. At that time many will turn away from the faith and will betray and hate each other, and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved. And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come.” (Mt. 24:9-14)

                                                              Don’t panic or give in to the spirit of fear. “God has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” (2 Tim.1:7) Instead, consider some of Jesus’ final words before He left earth (in the same way He will return). “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Mt.28:20)

                                                              He always has good plans for hope and a future.

                                                              Resources To Assist You In These End Times

                                                              Because times are increasingly challenging, I want to share some practical resources to help you live effectively in these difficult times. These are downloadable e-books developed for living in our current world scenario.

                                                              1. I’m Not A Loser: How To Change Old Habits And Patterns – Gain practical action steps to help address personal life patterns so you can be as healthy and focused as possible. You don’t have to stay where you are. Keep learning and growing. God made you to excel!
                                                              2. How To Effectively Get Into God’s Word: Even With A Super Busy Life – Get fresh ideas, strategies, and practical action steps to make your time in God’s Word alive and active each day in this fast-paced, demanding world. Make a difference with God’s ideas.
                                                              3. Partner With God: How To Have An Alive And Active Life – It happens to everyone. But you can avoid just coasting along. You were created for more. God helps you engage your skill sets, abilities, personality, and creativity increasingly to be the person He designed.
                                                              4. You Can Do This: Make Your Life A Meaningful “Yes!“ – Daily problem and challenges, disappointments and losses, unexpected twists – can leave you struggling and tired. This content gives action steps, ideas, and hope for meaningful days. Have personal purpose and influence for God.
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                                                              6. Becoming YOU: Helpful Tips

                                                                I’ve often thought about well-known people and how they became “famous.” The Queen of England, various presidents, Mother Teresa, Benjamin Franklin, and even Jesus’ mother – Mary. What did they focused on? How did they spent their time? What experiences forged their character? Each person must learn how to become. So, are you becoming you?

                                                                Becoming You

                                                                There is no greater privilege and challenge than becoming you. This process increases joy and results in maturity as you embrace your journey. In fact, only when you take ownership of this life development are you fully becoming you. And a statement of hope – it’s not on the other side of this process you gain confidence to be yourself. It’s in the process! On the journey. While it’s not yet finished.

                                                                That should encourage you – because no one is finished. Everyone is “becoming.” So, you can confidently fully engage becoming you.

                                                                Behind, With, In Front

                                                                “Behind, with, and in front” is an unusual idea. But it’s quite exciting – even critical – while learning how to become the person God created you to be. Scriptures give wonderful counsel in each of these ideas: Behind, With, In Front. Let’s look.

                                                                Behind

                                                                “Behind” carries a flavor of “not being on time.” But that’s not the meaning in this context. Is. 30:21 says, “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’ “  What an assuring statement. The person seeking the Lord with all their heart, hears His sweet voice behind, giving counsel and guidance.

                                                                Since God also leads, “behind” can also suggests a word picture of ‘walking into the future – backwards – by faith. Remembering God’s faithfulness means you can literally approach issues without seeing beyond your nose. Connected to Jesus, you respond well.

                                                                Interestingly, walking closely “behind” the Lord, you are also more concerned about your relationship with God.

                                                                So, “behind” is a really good place to be when becoming you!

                                                                With

                                                                Remember the name we talked about at Christmas? Emmanuel. This special name given to Baby Christ means, “God With Us!” Since you have a Companion, Friend, and Brother, you are never alone. God promises, “Never will I leave you. Never will I forsake you.” (Heb. 13:5b, and many other Scriptures)

                                                                Because of His Spirit – a gift to every believer when Jesus returned to Heaven – you can be sure Jesus is with you. But – are you with Him? You are in His presence, but is He in your presence? Are you conscious of His active power and love filling your daily life? Every person is in God’s presence, but only a few choose to invite God into their presence.

                                                                Think of it this way. As a parent or teacher, a child playing in the yard is still in your presence as you watch over them. But they are likely not aware of you. So you are not in their presence.

                                                                So, make a conscious choice to be “with” the Lord every moment while becoming you.

                                                                In Front

                                                                Just because you hear God’s voice “behind” you doesn’t mean you are the leader. God is the One leading, guiding, preparing a path for your feet. As you follow, one step at a time, you are safe. And something else happens.

                                                                You become a leader. The more you step back and let Jesus lead you, even in daily details, the more prepared and practiced you become as a leader. You grow to see important parameters and details. You gain critical experience through humble connection with others. Finally, you also conclude – leading is not about you; it’s about bringing others to know, love, and follow Jesus.

                                                                So, “in front” is a place of humility and wisdom when becoming you!

                                                                You Must Participate In Becoming You

                                                                “Becoming” takes up the entirety of your life. Consider that statement!

                                                                Everything you think, say, do, and experience filters into your life and affects who you are. Two things in particular greatly influence becoming you:

                                                                1. What you focus on.
                                                                2. Where you set your perspective.
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                                                                  I found a wonderful psalm that addresses this idea. Ps. 135:15-18 says, “The idols of the nations are silver and gold, made by human hands. They have mouths, but cannot speak, eyes, but cannot see. They have ears, but cannot hear, nor is there breath in their mouths. Those who make them will be like them, and so will all who trust in them.”

                                                                  “Those who make them will be like them, and so will all who trust in them.” Fascinating! So, what you focus on and where you set your perspective really matters! Whether you choose to walk with and worship God – or not – really matters.

                                                                  This should have powerful impact while becoming you.

                                                                  Idols – What Are They, Really?

                                                                  It would be safe to say an idol is anything that captivates your heart, mind, time, and attention. It’s what you think about – A LOT! You can’t get it out of your mind. For some people, it’s what they live for.

                                                                  So, really, an idol is not what we commonly think of today. It’s much more than a wooden, steel forged, clay-formed, hand-made thing! It can be –

                                                                  • a career
                                                                  • an event
                                                                  • a person
                                                                  • ideas or concepts
                                                                  • a goal
                                                                  • a reputation
                                                                  • an achievement or aspiration
                                                                  • even a very good thing.
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                                                                    But every idol is something that competes for God’s place in your heart.

                                                                    Because this is a heart thing, it’s critical to manage your heart pensively. How impossible to simply “follow your dream” and stay balanced and healthy. You need God in the center of your life, career, events, relationships, your ideas, every goal, your achievements, and aspirations.

                                                                    God needs to be your First, Most, and Best! And you are the only one who can decide that’s how it will be as you are becoming you!

                                                                    Becoming You – Not Your Idol

                                                                    According to the passage we quoted previously, Ps. 135:15-18, idols cannot speak, see, or hear. Ancient idols people worshipped were formed by someone’s hand. They quite literally were made “person-like” – with a mouth, eyes, and ears. Scripture says their mouths cannot speak any wisdom. Their eyes cannot see you or your needs, let alone your future. And they cannot hear when you cry out for help.

                                                                    You don’t want to become like them!

                                                                    The “kicker” of this passage? The person who spends time with whatever has their heart – becomes like that passion. If it’s the wrong crowd of friends, you become like them. If it’s a career that doesn’t represent your morals, skill sets, or abilities – you conform to that particular business. Even a habit displeasing to God starts to “own” you. The examples are endless. It could be a sport, hobby, or food. Perhaps it’s a retirement dream.

                                                                    So, your focus and perspective are incredibly important and need to be centered on God. Become like Him as you are becoming you!

                                                                    Become More Like God

                                                                    The more you focus on your passion for God, the more you become like Him. Scripture would argue that anything outside God will make you less than you are created to be. Outside God, you will become –

                                                                    1. Unable to speak the messages God intended your life to announce.
                                                                    2. Unable to see anything beyond what has captured your passions.
                                                                    3. And unable to hear anything except your own thoughts, values, and agenda.
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                                                                      The scary version? As you pursue anything outside God, you’ll become increasingly like the person you worship most – yourself. Why? Because if you’re not pursuing God, you’re pursuing your own agenda. This sad path is the enemy’s deceptive plan to bring you down.

                                                                      So, in becoming you, increasingly go after more of Christ.

                                                                      God’s desire is for you to become like Jesus. The more you speak, see, and hear what God values, the more you will resemble Christ. Your words will be wisdom as you see into issues and problems in ways to manage and solve them. Humility will mark your disposition. And you will hear deeper needs in others.

                                                                      The icing on the cake is this. You will truly become comfortable in your own skin becoming you!

                                                                      Your Influence In Becoming You

                                                                      Consider the resolve of the psalmist. “I will not enter my house or go to my bed, I will allow no sleep to my eyes or slumber to my eyelids, till I find a place for the Lord, a dwelling for the Mighty One of Jacob.” (Ps. 132:3-5)

                                                                      When Jesus came as Emmanuel and Savior, He declared His home would be the hearts of people who believe on Him. You are His dwelling place. So – don’t come or go . . . don’t lay down or get up . . . don’t do anything without first remembering Christ, the Mighty One, who lives in you.

                                                                      Application Questions
                                                                      1. Are you becoming a good version of you?
                                                                      2. Do you practice “behind, with, and in front?”
                                                                      3. What is your focus?
                                                                      4. Where have you set your perspective?
                                                                      5. Are there any idols you need to get rid of?
                                                                      6. How effectively are you wielding your influence over becoming you?
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                                                                      8. Live Between the Dots This New Year: 7 Tips

                                                                        The end of one year morphs into a new one by the simple passing of time. Days slip by all year, but when the passing of days ends one thing and begins another, it is noteworthy. Like dots on a graph that connect to form a line, your life line is formed by connecting dots of days. Therefore, it’s critical to live between the dots in a way that exemplifies the noble character of Jesus.

                                                                        Live Between The Dots

                                                                        Your life line is made up of segments of time – the spaces between dots that form a line. This is where time passes.

                                                                        Time Dots are:

                                                                        • Seasons
                                                                        • Years
                                                                        • Months
                                                                        • Weeks
                                                                        • Days
                                                                        • Minutes
                                                                        • Seconds.
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                                                                          At this very moment, you are living between two dots. As a result, the space in this special week, sandwiched between Christmas and the New Year, is significant.

                                                                          This week ends one year and begins another. You need a whole new calendar! In this critical week, I encourage you to be thoughtful about how to live between the dots next year.

                                                                          “Live Between The Dots” Is Important

                                                                          We mentioned Time Dots. Well, what about Life Dots?

                                                                          Life Dots Are:

                                                                          • To-do lists
                                                                          • Goals
                                                                          • Responsibilities
                                                                          • Dreams
                                                                          • Plans
                                                                          • Relationships
                                                                          • Careers
                                                                          • Ministry, etc.
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                                                                            There’s only one thing that connects these dots to represent God’s purpose for you. What is that one thing?

                                                                            The One Thing

                                                                            The life of Jesus in your life connects all the dots of your life each day. That’s it right there! It’s the one thing. However, His life also connects you to Himself through His Spirit that lives in you. So, it’s a double kind of connecting. That’s two things so far.

                                                                            There are two more things God multiplies in your life as you stay connected to Jesus. He brings glory to His great name. And He accomplishes much good through your life in the world.

                                                                            Subsequently, one thing has now been multiplied into four things:

                                                                            1. The life of Jesus in your life connects all the dots of your life each day.
                                                                            2. His life also connects you to Himself through His Spirit that lives in you.
                                                                            3. He brings glory to His great name.
                                                                            4. And He accomplishes much good through your life in the world.
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                                                                              Jesus always blesses and multiplies whatever He touches.

                                                                              Live Between The Dots – How Exactly?

                                                                              The previous four things mentioned transform your thinking, perspective, and daily living. So, how can they be yours?

                                                                              Simply said? Open your heart and say “yes.” However, I would add – saying yes means doing three things:

                                                                              1. Trusting Jesus completely.
                                                                              2. Obeying Jesus completely.
                                                                              3. Resting in Jesus completely.
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                                                                                Are you willing to commit to those three? Especially since it’s not outside your ability to do. You can do them!

                                                                                Three Scriptures Paint A Picture

                                                                                As you consider three Scriptures, you see a picture of Christ in you:

                                                                                1. “His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and goodness.” (2 Pet. 1:3)
                                                                                2. “And if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, He who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies because of His Spirit who lives in you.” (Rom. 8:11)
                                                                                3. “Come near to God and He will come near to you.” (Jas. 4:8)
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                                                                                  Verse one promises absolutely everything you need for life through knowing the Lord.

                                                                                  The second verse says Jesus’ Spirit lives inside you.

                                                                                  Verse three emphasizes you must come close to God to know Him.

                                                                                  Therefore, you have three Scriptures you can now apply. Now you have a line started to connect your dots this next year.

                                                                                  That “Something Else”

                                                                                  With all those resources available to you, what might stand in your way?

                                                                                  Some people struggle because of “something else.” So, what is that something else that prevents some from trusting, obeying, and resting in Jesus completely? Well, it’s the “biggie.” But the good news is this. You have absolute control over this biggie.

                                                                                  Your Portion And The Biggie

                                                                                  What is the biggie? That question is best answered with a bullet list of your portion. To overcome the biggie means you:

                                                                                  1. Die to self.
                                                                                  2. Become a living sacrifice.
                                                                                  3. Choose Christ’s interests over your own.
                                                                                  4. Agree with God.
                                                                                  5. Surrender to God’s ways.
                                                                                  6. Align every detail of your life each day with Christ’s character.
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                                                                                    That’s your portion. It’s the biggie! But it’s the secret to meaningful life in Christ.

                                                                                    As you give your life to God, He “saves” your life – not only from sin and death. The One who multiplies blessings also saves your life each day in every issue and circumstance. You start understanding things you didn’t before, once you surrender to Christ. Habits and patterns that used to hold you captive, fall off as you obey in the moment. It’s a daily saving.

                                                                                    But if you hold onto your life to preserve and protect it, you’ll lose your life. (Mt. 16:25, Mk. 8:35, and Lk. 9:24.) Consequently, you have a decision to make between Time Dots and Life Dots each moment where you live.

                                                                                    Dot To Dot Fun

                                                                                    You know those fun dot to dot activities you did as a kid where you find out the whole picture once you connect final dots? That’s similar to how you live your life between the dots.

                                                                                    You were designed to be a kind of “dot to dot” creation. The whole picture isn’t known to you now. Just some of it. At the same time, you can be sure it’s a glorious picture. God always does exceptional work as Creator. So, your life is very special.

                                                                                    Live between the dots by Trusting God . . .

                                                                                    Doing your best to Obey Him . . .

                                                                                    Take time to Rest in His great love.

                                                                                    Seven Helpful “Live Between The Dot” Strategies

                                                                                    Whether you are an organized person or not, it helps to have some strategies as you go into a new year. So, I’m sharing seven helpful strategies.

                                                                                    1. Resolve

                                                                                    Go into the New Year . . . not with resolutions, but rather with resolve to trust, obey, and rest in Jesus.

                                                                                    2. Dedicate yourself to God’s purposes

                                                                                    God wants you to be the person He designed. He also wants to impact the globe through your life, even your small corner. So, dedicate yourself to God’s purposes. As you draw attention to Jesus by your daily conduct, you make a difference in this broken world.

                                                                                    3. Right Hand

                                                                                    Your right hand symbolizes your abilities, strengths, and power. Because God promises to put His right hand on your right hand, you have protection and resources you lack on your own. So, picture God putting His right hand on yours. (Read Is. 41: 9-11 and 13-14 about right hand.)

                                                                                    4. Purpose And Design

                                                                                    Keep identifying your purpose and design. Learn more about God’s design to live with passion. Each day, ask yourself – “What can I do today to draw attention to Jesus? In my community? Around the world? How can I impact the Kingdom of Heaven?”

                                                                                    5. Peace And Power

                                                                                    Jesus, promises to bring 2 “P’s” into every day: peace and power. However, you must trust Him for these “P’s” and take them.

                                                                                    6. Hidden With Christ In God

                                                                                    The title “Extraordinary Strategist” describes God. He can do anything with no limits. You portion? Stay hidden with Christ in God  by faith. (Col. 3:3)

                                                                                    7. 365 Short Strokes

                                                                                    The entire year gives you only 365 short strokes. You often do more than 365 steps in a day. A year is only 365 strokes in your life. So, live the 365 short strokes intentionally, with passion, with purpose.

                                                                                    Summary To Live Between The Dots

                                                                                    Time Dots and Life Dots are present in each day. Your life is the line that connects these dots.

                                                                                    If you trust, obey, and rest in the Lord, He will place His right hand on yours and share secrets to live between your dots. Additionally, if you do the “biggie” and surrender to the Lord, you’ll have influence in this world for Jesus!

                                                                                    2 Pet. 3:11-12 says, “Live holy and godly lives as you look forward to the day of God – and speed its coming!“ Why not choose to make a difference in the timeline of Christ’s return?

                                                                                     

                                                                                    Application Thoughts And Questions
                                                                                    1. What kind of Time Dots and Life Dots do you have in your life?
                                                                                    2. What are you doing to stay connected to Jesus, the One who multiplies blessings?
                                                                                    3. Have you addressed the “biggie” in your life? Are you completely surrendered to Jesus?
                                                                                    4. What issues do you need to be more resolved in?
                                                                                    5. Have you dedicated yourself to God’s purposes?
                                                                                    6. In what areas do you need to let Jesus put His right hand over your right hand?
                                                                                    7. What new things are you learning about your purpose and design?
                                                                                    8. Where do you need to invite Jesus’ peace and power?
                                                                                    9. In what area are you exposed because you are not hidden with Christ in God?
                                                                                    10. After considering all this content, how will you approach the next 365 short strokes in this New Year?
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                                                                                      To live between the dots this next year, check out how to set up a One-Page-Goals Sheet, Step 1 and Step 2. It’s like an “online mini-class” you can participate in at your own pace.

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                                                                                    Welcome to Alive and Active Life. This weekly program broadcasts encouragement to live your daily life with God's help and challenge to reach for more of God, by faith. Join Brenda Wolfe for this week's practical insights.