All Good Years

This is part two of an episode on how to have more energy. We'd encourage you to check out the first episode for some setup and the first three energy activities. Here’s the main idea: A good life means having the energy to do the things you want to do. There are ways to maximize your limited energy.  Three energy generators:1. Diet - Your body needs fuel. What types of fuel are you giving your body?2. Take Action - To generate energy sometimes you just need to get moving. 3. Eliminate & Optimize Energy Drainers - We all have things in our lives that take more from us. How do you eliminate or improve them?  Question to consider - What practice above do you need to work on? Mailbag - Want Derek & Gage to read a note from you on the podcast during the mailbag? Message us on Instagram @AllGoodYears_ or email [email protected]. Share what's working, stories, and anything else on your mind.

Hi friends! We are sorry for our delay in posting. That delay helped prompt today's topic. We are making a couple of changes to All Good Years. The main change is that we will be posting twice a month instead of every week. This will allow us to be more consistent & to share better content. We are excited to be back.

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Here’s the main idea: Overcommitting drains us from the moment and leaves us feeling exhausted. By doing less, we live better lives.

Three reasons we overcommit:

1. Obligation - I should.

2. Opportunity - I must.

3. Unaware - I didn't know

 

Two questions to ask if you are overcommitted:

1. What does a consistent life of commitment look like for you?

2. What do you need to stop doing?

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Here’s the main idea: A good life means having the energy to do the things you want to do. There are ways to maximize your limited energy.

Three ways to increase your energy:

1. Move More

2. Get Your Sleep Right

3. Practice a Sabbath

 

Resources & Quotes:

HBR - movement effect on mental health https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/how-simply-moving-benefits-your-mental-health-201603289350

Movement works for everyone https://www.webmd.com/diet/news/20061103/exercise-fights-fatigue-boosts-energy

Sleep recommendations - https://www.cdc.gov/sleep/about_sleep/how_much_sleep.html (https://www.cdc.gov/sleep/about_sleep/how_much_sleep.html)

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Here’s the main idea: Being part of meetings does not need to be miserable, but leading a meeting is a skill.

The flow covered in today’s show:

Prepare before the meetings. This includes an agenda, start times, and goal of the meeting.

Facilitate the meeting. This includes setting clear ground rules, keeping the meeting on track, and ensuring healthy conversation.

Ensure the meeting ends well. This includes checking in on todos, recapping the meeting, and scheduling the next one if needed.

Bonus thoughts!

Don’t have a meeting if you don’t have to. A meeting is a tool not a mandate.

Not all meetings need to be an hour! If a meeting can be thirty minutes, do it.

If your meeting is longer than one hour, create a half time for people to stretch, move, and use the bathroom.

Analog is best for engagement.

Only invite the people that need to be there

Resources & Quotes:

Traction by Gino Wickman - https://amzn.to/3oKWRFn

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Having a great summer is possible as an adult, but it won’t happen on accident.

Thing to Consider to Have a Great Summer:

1. Be Realistic With Your Time

2. Do New Things

3. Create Yearly Routines & Traditions

4. Plan it Now, or it Won't Happen

Resources & Quotes:

Life Speeding Up: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hear-you/202012/why-does-life-speed-you-get-older (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/i-hear-you/202012/why-does-life-speed-you-get-older)

https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/how-to-make-your-days-feel-longer.html?nav=featured (https://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/how-to-make-your-days-feel-longer.html?nav=featured)

https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2011/04/25/the-possibilian (https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2011/04/25/the-possibilian)

This week's question: What are your plans for summer? We'd love for you to share with us.

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Here’s the main idea: Slow down, think clearly, and you will live better.

How to improve at being calm, cool, and collected:

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Plan it out. Find what unsettles you and make a plan to improve.

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Do one thing at a time. We either freeze, or try to do everything. The best strategy is tackling one thing at a time.

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Be Like a Duck. You'll just have to listen for this explanation.

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Reflect & repeat. Think over what unsettles you and why. Ask yourself hard questions and then go back to step one.

Bonus thoughts!

* Get a good nights sleep. You need more sleep than you get!

* Have a morning & evening routine!

* Be kind to yourself. It's a process.

Resources & Quotes:

"Get action. Do things; be sane; don’t fritter away your time; create, act, take a place wherever you are and be somebody." - Teddy Roosevelt

7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey - https://amzn.to/3ycmtzo

This week's challenge: What gets you frantic, hurried, or unsettled? What do you need to change?

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Here’s the main idea: Seeking & Receiving Feedback Helps You Grow Faster

How to Get Better at Getting Feedback:

1. Go & Get It. Practice asking others for feedback.

2. Ask Questions, Don't Make Excuses. Do not try to justify something you can work. Ask questions and attempt to understand the feedback.

3. Test the Feedback. Not all feedback is true. Test the feedback with people you trust.

4. Implement. If you choose to, you can work on the feedback. Check out our episode on getting 1% better for strategies to implement feedback.

This week's challenge: Go and get feedback from someone. Share the results with us by messaging us on Instagram @AllGoodYears_ or emailing [email protected].

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Here’s the main idea: We will encounter difficult people in our work environment. People living a great life learn how to work with them.

Three Ways to Work With Difficult People:

1. Start With Yourself. Remember, you can only control your actions.

2. Be Their Friend. When we empathize with people, we humanize them.

3. Talk About it with The Person. Get their permission, make them aware, have a conversation.

Resources & Quotes:

Inc Article on Workplace Conflict: https://www.inc.com/brian-de-haaff/the-359-billion-problem-driving-your-project-under-the-radar.html

12 Rules for Life by Jordan B. Peterson: https://amzn.to/2PfzzKi

21 Laws of Leadership by John Maxwell: https://amzn.to/32FTrJV

This week's challenge: Who is one person you need to start this process with?

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Here’s the main idea: We find our calling by actually living our life.

There are three challenges that stand in our way:

1. A lot of us feel like our life won’t begin until we live out our calling.

2. We get paralysis by analysis.

3. Our culture has made us feel like we need to “arrive” right now.

There are two things we encourage you to do:

1. Go & take action right now.

2. Enjoy & make the most out of your life.

Resources & Quotes:

Ship before you're ready, because you will never be ready. Ready implies you know it's going to work, and you can't know that. You should ship when you're prepared, when it's time to show your work, but not a minute later. - Seth Godin (https://seths.blog/2016/03/show-your-work/)

This week's challenge: Share your calling or purpose with someone. [email protected] or message us on social media.

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This is the second part of a 2 part series. Check out Do Hard Things Part 1 for the philosophy behind doing hard things.

Episode Notes:

Here’s the main idea: When we do hard things, we live life more fully.

Here are the five strategies & tools that were shared on today's episode.

1. Shift Your Mindset

2. Commit to Something You Cannot Get Out Of

3. Just Do It

4. Look for Reasonable Challenges

5. Challenge Yourself With Things You Are Good at or Interested In

Resources & Quotes:

7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey

Drive by Daniel Pink

Teddy Roosevelt Quote:

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat."

This week's challenge: Commit to one thing you cannot get out of. Let us know what it is. [email protected] or message us on social media.