Episode 29: The Slow Drift Away From Yourself (And How to Come Back Home)
In this deeply personal episode of All the Feels, Lauren shares something she’s actively moving through in real time: the quiet, subtle experience of losing connection with herself again after years of healing, growth, and self-trust.
This is not a polished “before and after” story. It’s the middle of it.
Lauren opens up about one of the most pivotal seasons of her life beginning in 2017, the painful wake-up call that forced her to confront patterns of self-abandonment, and the years of healing work that followed. But she also shares something equally important:
When it comes to healing, there is no finish line.
Sometimes old patterns reappear quietly.Sometimes self-abandonment doesn’t look dramatic.Sometimes it simply looks like slowly drifting away from your own wisdom while everything still appears “fine” on the outside.
In this episode, Lauren invites you into the awareness, the noticing, and the powerful process of coming back home to yourself before things completely unravel.
In This Episode, Lauren Explores:
What self-abandonment can actually look like in everyday life
How subtle patterns quietly reemerge over time
The difference between a rock bottom moment and a slow drift out of alignment
Why healing isn’t about perfection or “arriving”
How outsourcing your wisdom disconnects you from yourself
The sneaky ways comparison and outside influence can pull you out of alignment
Why exquisite self-care is foundational to emotional wealth
What awareness really gives us in the healing process
How reconnecting with yourself happens in small, intentional moments
The importance of noticing misalignment before it becomes a crisis
✨ Private Coaching with Lauren
Work one-on-one with Lauren to build emotional wealth, understand your emotional patterns, and create the emotional capacity needed to move through life with clarity and confidence.
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Want to Go Deeper? Join The Emotions Crash Course + The Emotions Circle
If this episode resonated and you’re ready to build real emotional skill, The Emotions Crash Course will help you understand your emotions, stop treating them like problems, and create real relief in your day-to-day life.
Plus, when you join, you also get access to The Emotions Circle, Lauren’s private community where she shares exclusive audio drops, real-time reflections, deeper teachings, and behind-the-scenes support as this work comes to life in real time.
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Take the next step in your self-care journey
Download The Exquisite Self-Care Handbook: Lauren’s free guide to help you slow down, regulate your nervous system, and reconnect with what truly nourishes you.
It’s the perfect companion to the work we explore here on All the Feels.
👉 Get your free copy of The Exquisite Self-Care Handbook HERE
✨ Free Resource: The Emotional Flow Map
If emotional resistance or avoidance is part of what’s creating stagnation, Lauren’s Emotional Flow Map is the place to start.
The Flow Map teaches the four ways humans naturally handle emotions:
The goal isn’t to eliminate reacting, resisting, or avoiding. The goal is consciousness, and always circling back to allowing.
You can download the free Emotional Flow Map Workbook HERE.
It walks you step-by-step through how to move emotions instead of stockpiling them.
Connect with Lauren:
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