Allow It

This week, Lish and D are unpacking the hustle culture we’ve all been sold. Everyone’s juggling multiple jobs, chasing side hustles, or trying to build new streams of income, but at what cost?Should we be doubling down on one solid job to cover the bills, or is the hustle mentality just the new survival mode? Because let’s be real, you can’t live off one income anymore…not when food prices are wild!

Join us as we get real about the job market, the cost of living, and why we still don’t like talking about money, even when we’re all struggling with the same thing.

Also we have an "Allow It With The Advice", so please be sure to check in.

We want to hear from you:

Are you working more than one job?

Do you think we’re in a recession?

And why do you think money talk still feels so taboo?

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This week, Lish and D get real about the weight we all carry loss, change, and how the hell we’re supposed to cope when life throws the unthinkable at us. From the messy reality of dealing with grief to the everyday ways we try to survive in a world that feels like it’s constantly breaking, nothing is off the table.

We’re talking coping mechanisms (the healthy ones and the not so healthy ones), the state of the world, and what it actually means to keep moving when you’d rather not.

We want to hear from you:
💬 How do you cope? What gets you through the hard days? Join the convo, share your thoughts, and kiki with us in the comments!

✨ Support & Resources - Global:

The Compassionate Friends (Worldwide, for bereaved families): compassionatefriends.org (https://www.compassionatefriends.org/)

GriefShare (International grief support groups): griefshare.org (https://www.griefshare.org/)

Find A Helpline (Global, text/call/chat support): findahelpline.com (https://findahelpline.com/)

❤️ Give Back:

Donate to Sickle Cell Society (UK): sicklecellsociety.org

Support Five X More (Black maternal health in the UK): fivexmore.com

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📩 Questions or dilemmas for us to unpack? Email: [email protected]

This week, Lish and D are joined by our producer Mimi as we wrap up summer 2025 with some much needed girl chat. 🌸

We’re spilling all the tea on Love is Blind UK, getting into the madness of Snapped, and breaking down what’s really going on between men and women right now 👀. Trust us, you don’t want to miss this one.

Oh! And it was Mimi’s birthday 🎉 so make sure you show her some love in the comments and DMs! 💌

We want to hear from you:

👉 Did you watch Love is Blind UK? Whose side are you on?

👉 What’s your take on the whole men vs. women dynamic right now?

👉 And what reality TV show has you hooked this season?

Join the convo, share your thoughts, and kiki with us in the comments!

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This week, Lish and D catch up with the incredibly talented singer and songwriter Nyasha David, who joined us for a chat during his UK tour. We dive into all things music, hustle, and the independent artist grind. Is it enough to pursue your dream as a side hustle, or do you have to go all in? Nyasha shares his journey; the wins, the setbacks, and the real talk about what it takes to turn passion into purpose.

We also get into an “Allow It with the Advice”, what should you do when you crash out online?

Expect laughs, insight, and gems you won’t want to miss.

Join the convo, share your thoughts, and Kiki with us!

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This week, Lish is hanging with our producer Mimi, and we’re diving into a hot topic: Is blood really thicker than water? Lately, there’s been this trend of people cutting off their family members, and we want to talk about it. When is it okay to put a loved one on ice and decide they’re no longer family? Is it worth it to protect your peace?We wanna know: Have you ever had to disown a family member? If so, why? And would you ever consider patching things up?On top of that, we’ve got an “Allow It With The Advice”! Plus a quick May recap for you to vibe with. So, join the convo, share your thoughts, and Kiki with us!🔗 Follow Us:YouTube: ⁠Subscribe here!Instagram: ⁠@allowitpodTikTok: ⁠@allow.it.podGot questions? Email us at ⁠[email protected]

This week, Lish and D dive into the concept of the Biblical wife. When are we misinterpreting scripture, and when are women doing too much, allowing men to cross boundaries that shouldn’t be crossed? Plus, women are exhausted can you truly "have it all" and still be okay?

Join us as we unpack these hot topics and explore the latest threads. And of course, we couldn’t ignore the Met Gala were y’all ready? Let us know your thoughts in the comments!

We’ve also got an Allow It segment with some advice that we need your input on. Tune in, listen, watch, and let us know what you think!

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This week, Lish and D are joined by our good friend and life coach, Rian! In this episode, we tackle the anxieties of modern life. Social media often pushes us to compare ourselves to others, their achievements, their families, and society’s idea of what life "should" be leaving us wondering, Am I doing life right? But here’s the twist: life coaching starts with looking inward. It’s about realising that the first step to change is acknowledging your role in your own challenges. Join us as Rian shares insights on how self-awareness and personal responsibility can transform your mindset and your life.We’re also keeping it going with our hot takes! Let us know your thoughts, comment below and join the conversation.Thanks for tuning in! If you’re interested in working with Rian or learning more about her life coaching services, her contact details are below.Instagram: @cocoalifecoachingWhatsApp: +44 7526 028378Email: [email protected]🔗 Follow Us:YouTube: Subscribe here!Instagram: @allowitpodTikTok: @allow.it.podGot questions? Email us at [email protected]

This week, Lish and D are joined by producer Mimi to dive into the topic of ageism. Is "acting your age" really a thing? Should age dictate your involvement in pop culture discussions? Tune in as the ladies tackle these questions and more. Plus, they share some hot takes you won’t want to miss: Can therapy ever be too much? Join the conversation, have a laugh, and share your thoughts on this week's episode!

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This week, Lish and D are getting into all the feels! First up: Would you ever hit up your ex on your wedding day? Is closure from the past really that deep, or are we just doing too much? And what’s the deal with side pieces, are they necessary? Why don’t people know how to move in silence anymore? Would you leave your significant other if you found out about a side piece? Then, for our “Allow It With The Advice” segment, we’re talking about friendships and weddings: Would you break up with your friend if they didn’t invite you to theirs? Petty or valid? listen in and let us know your thoughts💬🎙️

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This week, Lish and D dive into back to back pregnancies, Irish twins, anyone? We're talking about a mom to be who got pregnant just four weeks after giving birth. Wahhh! We’re also sharing our thoughts on the situation with Onijah and what’s going down in Pakistan. Would you move your son away if an older woman came from abroad to marry him? 🤔

Plus, we’ve got an "Allow It With The Advice" segment you won’t want to miss.

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Tap In! Share your thoughts and join the conversation we’re on Threads and ready to hear from you.

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