This might be one of the most important conversations we've had about modern dating.
Global attachment expert + bestselling author Adam Lane Smith joins Krista to explain why so many people feel insecure, overwhelmed, and disconnected in relationships—and what it actually takes to build lasting trust + emotional safety.
Adam challenges some of the biggest myths we've been taught about attraction + relationships, explaining why chemistry isn't always compatibility, and why emotional safety is the foundation of lasting love.
If you've ever found yourself overthinking a text, staying in the wrong relationship, or wondering why love feels harder than it should, don't miss this episode.
The four levels of safety women need
How childhood wounds shape adult relationships
Why dating apps create emotional disconnection
Communication mistakes couples constantly make
Rebuilding trust after betrayal + cheating
Oxytocin, cortisol + the science of attachment
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