For years men have come at me with the “bait and switch”, a woman who loved sex and then suddenly didn’t for no reason. Even she doesn’t understand why this happened because women are taught that sex is something we just give a man we love. Being “not in the mood” is supposed to be temporary, but with a disrespectful husband, it becomes permanent.

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Authenticity is what makes intimate connection between us. It doesn’t matter who you are if who you are isn’t real. If I fall in love with someone who isn’t real, I will figure it out eventually. And then you’ll be more alone than you were before. Be real, even if you think I might reject you. Who knows, I might not. Because it’s authenticity I’m attracted to.

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